u/callistoxo

Image 1 — I see my ex through a hobby, will we reconnect?
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I see my ex through a hobby, will we reconnect?

Context: My ex and I dated for almost a year and he is a fearful avoidant with a lot of trauma so he basically got scared and ran away. We met through a mutual hobby and it became clear that he was not going to have a real conversation with me when we saw each other through the hobby so I went no contact for 6 months and did the hobby elsewhere. At a certain point, I just kind of decided that I need to go back to living my normal life and I missed that place and the other people. So I have been re-engaging with that mutual hobby at the same place that he goes and when I'm there I feel him staring at me and orienting his body towards me and just being very curious of me. But neither one of us speak to each other and I completely ignore him. It prompted me to ask if we will speak by the end of the year. He is dating someone else.

Interpretation: I am Venus in Gemini and he is Mars in Aries. There's a sextile between us which makes sense based on his behavior towards me, but Mars is also conjunct Chiron which makes sense because of his avoidance and trauma. Saturn in the seventh makes sense for the same reason but it's not making any aspects to us. Wasn't sure what else anyone saw in the chart. I'm familiar with astrology but newish to horary.

u/callistoxo — 6 days ago