21yo in a tough family situation, earning €1300/month: How can I save up and achieve my dream of moving to Japan?
Hi everyone,
I’m writing this under an anonymous account because I really need some advice, perspective, or just a reality check from people who might have been through something similar.
Here is my situation:
21 years old, living in , Italy.
I live with my family of 6 in a very small 44m² apartment.
It’s tight, overwhelming, and stressful. My family relies heavily on government subsidies, but since I am about to start working full-time, some of those benefits will decrease or disappear, putting a lot of pressure on me.
I don't have a university degree (just a high school diploma). I’m about to start an apprenticeship as an office worker earning around €1,400/month. I also own a scooter to get around.
My ultimate dream is to move to Japan long-term.
I know that without a degree and with very basic Japanese (just Hiragana and Katakana right now), getting a work visa directly is almost impossible.
My plan is to save up for a Working Holiday Visa (which allows Italians aged 18–30 to work and live in Japan for up to a year) and use that time to get my foot in the door, work entry-level jobs (like hospitality or kitchen staff), and improve my language skills.
My questions for you:
Given my €1,400 income and my family’s tight financial situation, how should I manage my money? How much should I realistically try to set aside each month for my "Japan Fund" without leaving my family stranded?
Has anyone here moved to Japan via the Working Holiday Visa without a degree? How did you transition from a 1-year stay to something more permanent (e.g., SSW visa, distance learning degree, or vocational school)?
How do you deal with the guilt or emotional weight of wanting to build your own future while feeling tied to your family's struggles?
I’d really appreciate any tips, constructive feedback, or personal stories. Thanks a lot!😉