u/chewwn

Hello.

What im looking for:

Someone long term and long distance for now as we get to know one another.

Someone jolly. Someone more extroverted who doesn’t mind talking for hours about themselves, their hobbies, or the things they love. Someone who genuinely enjoys spending time with their friends and family and plays D&D in the other room while I do more serious work. They can talk while I brood.

Or someone more serious and strict like me, someone who gets obsessive about work and carries themselves with a bit more intensity. We can both brood.

Two complete opposites, preferably nothing in between. Those personalities tend to match best with my own.

Someone with a presiding personality who takes control of the things around them.

Not shy. I cannot do shy and quiet.

Or we can both be D.VAS

warning first:

I’m a very quiet person. I don’t really talk to people much at all. Don’t be alarmed though- I can still hold conversations, and I’m not too shy to order food quiet. I used to be selectively mute. Now I’m more like that one NPC you interact with three times for an enchanted watering can, then afterward I only have four rotating dialogue options for the rest of the game. I’ve been told I’m funny though, so maybe that balances it out.

I emphasize this because people usually get confused later by how quiet and strict I am. I can come off very unapproachable because of my silence and vibe. Online is different. I don’t feel like I constantly have to perform there, and I’m sure some of you understand that too.

About me:

I’m a nomad. I’ve spent most of my life moving between countries and states, and I currently live in China, though I’m originally from the United States. I believe life is meant to be lived through experiences.

I’ve been gaming since I was 4 years old. When I was 9, my sister and I won an East Coast Mario Kart championship, and I competed in a few other tournaments after that. I hit Grandmaster in multiple games over the years, though these days I don’t really play competitively anymore since life in China keeps me busy. Honestly, I have no idea how good I’d be now.

My favorite game will always be Skyrim, though I genuinely enjoy watching other people play too. I’m not really into battle royales or most shooters. Persona 5, Frostpunk, Fable, Spyro, Ratchet & Clank, Harvest Moon/Stardew Valley, Overwatch, Dead by Daylight, League- I can play pretty much anything.

Out of many games character I align the most with doomfist as a person.

I’m also a sommelier, and I’m still studying every day. I love wine, good cheese, cured meats, and the entire experience surrounding food and drink.

I like working out and staying healthy, but I’m not obsessed about it.

I’m spiritual, and I enjoy witchcraft.

I like anime

I ride motorcycles, though it’s been a while.

I also love hiking, camping, and rollerblading, and I’d love to learn how to surf someday.

A lot of my time is spent writing stories and drinking wine. If I had to compare myself to something, think “vampiric food critic.” The best character comparison for me is probably Tornado from one punch man. On kinder days, maybe Haku from Spirited Away/nico robbin.

I’m also a bit of a troll online and in person when the mood strikes me. Its one of the onlythings that makes me have a chortle.

Im really into horror and haunted things.

into rock alternative, hiphop, R&B

Downsides:

I do have ADHD. Im sure alot of people do. Just putting that out there. Im very blunt and straightforward and pessimistic and it can be draining I know.

I cant drive. Why would I ever drive when ive been traveling by foot my entire life. I never needed to or had to. I have my learners ive just never taken the test cause im never in America for long.

I'm snobbish. Grab a sim and put snobbish on it and thats me.

Im HYPER independant. When my battery drains I need 3 days of complete aloneness. But I understand needs and would never want ti leave you alone completely.

Im a really good and bad chef. No in between. Sometimes it explodes. Sometimes its heaven.

Might be a bit arrogant.

Apperances:

I’m 5'2 and around 110 pounds, slightly toned, and mixed between Black and white. I have freckles all over my face and hazel eyes that lean green. I used to model, so I’ll admit I can be a vain about my appearance, but that mostly comes from needing to keep up appearances for work for so long. At this point it’s just part of who I am.

My hair is naturally curly and short right now because I cut it a while ago when I was really into gothic and alternative styles, along with quite a few piercings. I ended up taking most of them out for work. These days my style is more formal chic, or beachy when it’s summer.

I also usually get my hair braided beautifully while I grow it back out to my shoulders again. When it’s braided, it reaches all the way down to my hips.

If you like the tired evil woman look, well, here i am.

for men:

I like bigger guys. Chunkier and heavier taller men. Think off season body builder or sumo wrestler or just a dad bod. Fit in there own ways. But I'm also into shorter skinner mouse like men who are atleast 2 inches taller than me.

Though it doesnt really matter as you can be really fit or just normal.

I'm not a massive fan of men with long beards like the guy who owns the dog named BINGO. B.I.N.G.O

I like beards just not squiggly. Lol.

Age Preferably 27-32.

Location: if you live near a beach that's best. I have only lived around cities. Copenhagen, shanghai, merida, DC, etc. Though its long distance so it doesnt really matter.

No MAGA.

I do plan on getting pregnant in the future so if you want kids thats nice.

TDLR:

If you’re into a brooding, quiet, mysterious type of woman who’s a decently stern and snobbish, INFJ, and has a bit of a tsundere edge, then that’s me. I like the idea of someone I can pet and hold while still being a little moody without them taking it personally or hating me for it.

I have a lot of love to give. I’m emotionally stable and very independent, so there’s no need to worry about baggage or “fixing” anything. I’m more interested in learning about you than being analyzed or changing myself.

I’ve been single for a long time and I’m now at the point where I’d like to start the process of settling down with someone who feels sunny.

I know this reads a bit like a job summary or resume.

Its just how I state who I am.

If you want a picture of me then here it is:

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