u/dionise04

I bought this dress in sample sale, but now I’m not sure if it was the right decision.

I do really like it, but I’m second-guessing a few things now that I’m seeing the alterations.

The alterations aren’t finished yet — this is how the dress looks after the first round of alterations. One of the changes was adding a lining, because the dress was quite sheer. We also changed the cups to nude, since they were originally white.

The idea was to make everything look more polished and seamless.
But now I’m wondering if the dress looks a little too gray/ivory and not white enough for a bride? I also feel like all the embroidery might be making me look wider than I actually am, and I’m not sure the silhouette is as flattering on me as I initially thought.

What do you think? Am I overthinking it, or do you see what I mean?

I’m getting married and I’m so confused because I genuinely love the 4 and I Di dint have any specific dress in mind before trying out some.

The wedding will be in the city, with the ceremony on a terrace around sunset, followed by a nighttime reception in a ballroom with large windows. The overall vibe will be romantic, warm and moody, with lots of candles and flowers.

My personal style is feminine but not super girly. I like simple/elegant things, but I also love statement pieces and things with personality. I want to feel like myself but also special .

My dilemmas with each one:
1 — Minimalist strapless: I love how elegant, clean and timeless it is, and I think it flatters my figure the most. My only doubt is whether it’s too simple and structured/not romantic for the wedding. Also if it will be uncomfortable for a long night of dancing.
2 — Floral with puff sleeves: Probably the most unique and the one that feels the most fun/“me.” I love it, but I’m not sure if the vibe works for a nighttime wedding.
3 — Floral with off-the-shoulder sleeves: I love how flattering and romantic it is, and I like that I can also wear it without the sleeves. My doubt is whether it’s as special as #1 or #2. Or if it is only another dress.
4 — Floral with long sleeves: Very elegant and feels perfect for an evening wedding. But I feel like my figure looks the least flattering in this one, so I’m not sure if the more sophisticated vibe is worth that.
Which one would you pick for me and why