u/dixieleeb

I'm 75; my husband is a few years older & most of our friends are in this age group. I just realized that when we see our friends, the main subject of conversation centers around our health, who died or went into long term care, falls, hospitalizations, medications, and Dr appointments.

In the last few days among my friends is a woman who has fallen recently cracking ribs, another who drove his car too close to the ditch & the car flipped. He's heading to a nursing home/rehab. Another is recovering from a broken jaw due to a fall. My husband's best friend had a stroke & died a few days later and now his wife may have a heart problem.

This is getting scary.

UPDATE- Thank you, everyone for your advice & experiences. I will be seeking professional advice about just what device I need.

I am starting to wonder if using a walker might make my life a bit easier, specifically the ones with 4 wheels & a seat but don't know if it's time yet.

I am 75 years old. I have not fallen in years & probably only 3 times in the last 10-12 years. I am very careful. However, I am obese, have severe back pain that bothers me when standing in one place or when walking long distances. I try not to have to walk on uneven ground because I am afraid of falling. I've had both knees replaced with not excellent results. I find that I avoid going to places if I know I will be on my feet for extended periods of time or if I have to park a long distance away. I do have a handicap placard but often the parking spaces are full.

I do not feel I need help with a walker in my home. I just walk carefully & avoid unnecessary trips to the 2nd floor.

Advice, anyone?