Exploring my Options
I honestly have no idea where to start so I’ll just info dump. For reference im a 26 yo man that’s single. The last couple years have been a bit rough on me, and deep down I do feel a bit trapped and directionless. I graduated w a bachelors in communications and I’ve had a real hard time finding corporate work. I’m currently a manager at a fast food restaurant making about $2500/month. I have no real friends, I live alone, and I’ve been stuck in the same city away from family for well over 8 years. Deep down I know I want a change, and my first time learning about cruise work felt like a real opportunity for that.
It’s very possible I’m romanticizing the concept, so before I put any real effort into exploring my options I wanted to ask here if I’m being naive. The way I see it, it’s a chance for a hard reset. A chance to go out, see the world, and really learn more about who I am and what I want. I’m American, so I’ve hardly been abroad and the prospect of travel (particularly Europe if possible) is incredibly attractive. To me it’d be an incredible experience to meet new people and see new things, challenging myself in the process.
Part of my concern is I don’t know where exactly I’d fit within the ship’s roles. For the last couple years I’ve been hospitality focused (busser at a restaurant and fast food employee/manager), but it doesn’t sound like working with food on the ship is that great an environment. If I do move forward in my search, what roles should I prioritize?
My other concern is pay. I’m fine working shit hours, but I personally can’t justify dedicating such a formative period in my life toward something that may set me back. I understand there will be housing accommodation, so taking rent out the equation would be nice, but is the pay so poor that I’d be better off putting my energy into something else?
My final question is about the quality of life. I’m ok with being overworked, but will I at least be able to enjoy my life on the ship? How often are you able to visit the ports you stop at? Will I have a good chance of getting along with my coworkers and bunkmates? Will it be difficult to integrate as an American? I’m already resigning myself to the fact I’d miss watching a lot of the sports and new movie releases I love, but do you all regard the sacrifices you al have made as worth it. Im also at the early stages of restarting a fitness regimen. Will I have the time and space to live a healthy life?
I get there’s a lot here and it’s a bit of a dense post, but right now my head is spinning trying to work through all the nuances of a decision like this. I’m happy to hear any feedback or stories you all have and thank you for your consideration. Also would really appreciate any insight into which companies to apply at and ones to avoid.
TLDR: I’m living a life with no positive momentum and I want a change. From your experience was working on a cruise ship a net-positive? Would you recommend that life for a single man in his mid twenties? What positions would you recommend for someone with a background in hospitality?