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Things I learned feeding seven preteens: make the meal bigger, not the portions smaller

Years ago I had seven teens and preteens in the house, often plus whatever friends they had invited to stay for dinner without warning.

I'm suddenly feeding a much bigger household again, including growing kids, and grocery prices being what they are, I've been remembering all the little tricks I used back then.

Most advice about stretching a food budget seems to focus on making the main dish cheaper; use less meat, substitute something cheaper, make beans instead, etc. I did some of that, obviously, but mostly I didn't stretch the main dish. I stretched the meal around it.

If I had enough chicken for the casserole I normally made, I made the casserole. If we were having hamburgers, everybody still got a hamburger. I just made sure the expensive part of dinner wasn't responsible for filling seven or ten or twelve hungry stomachs all by itself.

One of my best tricks was simply feeding the first wave of hunger before dinner. I'd hand out apples about an hour beforehand. A kid who has eaten an apple is still perfectly capable of eating dinner, they’re just no longer approaching it like a starved wolf. 

On hamburger night I'd cut an entire bag of potatoes into oven fries, skins and all, shake them in a bag with some oil, salt and pepper, and cover as many cookie sheets as the oven would hold. Then I’d make sure the fries were always ready before the hamburgers.  The kids would descend upon them. By the time the hamburgers were ready, one hamburger apiece, plus vegetables and whatever else we were having, was plenty.

Sometimes a casserole was mysteriously "taking forever.” Especially if the kids invited some extra kids to dinner unexpectedly.  "Oh well. Here are some biscuits while you're waiting. And applesauce. There are cheese sandwiches too." After everybody had been eating for a while I’d bring out the casserole. "Oh, finally! The casserole is done."

Then out came the perfectly ordinary casserole, with green beans and more biscuits. Nobody thought dinner was stingy. As far as the kids were concerned, they'd been eating for half an hour.

I kept Jiffy corn muffin mixes by the dozen. It was insurance against just that sort of thing.  "Oh, how nice! You invited three friends to stay for dinner!" We're having cornbread. And some other stuff. Until then here’s some peanut butter and bread and apples. 

Pasta always got what I privately called decorative vegetables, usually the inexpensive dollar frozen bags. The whole bag, maybe two. Peas, broccoli, carrots, mixed vegetables, whatever went with it. Yes, they made the pasta colorful. They also mysteriously produced several additional servings without taking anything out of the original meal. Spaghetti got spinach, usually.  Then, at dinner time, a veg or fruit of a different color was on the plate too. Tonight, we are having chicken and noodles. There will be at least a whole bag of frozen peas in there. And then I’ll slice tomatoes on the plate, maybe some applesauce will show up. The plate will be full, full of colors, good tastes, and no one will know I used two small chicken breasts for nine people. 

Pickles were another great one. Not a precious little jar of fancy pickles but a giant cheap gallon jar of dill pickles you get in the ‘commercial food’ aisle at the grocery store. 

Hand those out and kids will happily eat what amounts to an entire big cucumber in pickle form. Nobody has to ask whether they can have another one, the answer will be yes, go for it. There are approximately nine thousand pickles. Here’s some cold water to wash them down. Supper will be ready in 20 minutes. 

That was actually an important part of the system: some things on the table should feel unlimited. Bread, biscuits, cornbread, potatoes, or apples. Also applesauce, pickles and rice. Whatever was inexpensive that week and that the kids actually liked.

I baked an ungodly amount of bread in those days. I don't intend to resume that particular level of insanity, and God bless cheap grocery-store wheat bread. But biscuits and cornbread are still wonderful because at 5 PM you can look at dinner, realize it isn't going to be enough, and manufacture a substantial addition from pantry ingredients. 

Don’t sleep on generic bisquick biscuits served with cheap applesauce as a pre-dinner snack. Actually, desserts and snacks work the same way.

Today I had a gigantic zucchini I bought at the farmers market for a dollar. I grated it into a huge batch of snack cake with eggs, flour, brown sugar and two cans of fruit that had been ignored in my pantry forever. I baked some in cast-iron skillets for people to eat today and a big sheet pan that I'm cutting into lunchbox squares. It isn't a nutritional powerhouse but it's a nice homemade snack made mostly from inexpensive things I already had, and it means I’m not pestered for expensive boughten snacks. 

And that's really the thing I'm remembering now. I don’t make the normal nutritious meal smaller if you don't have to. I make the meal bigger around it.

Two chicken breasts can look pretty inadequate if dinner is two chicken breasts divided among a crowd. Two chicken breasts chopped into a big pan of creamy noodles with peas and other vegetables, accompanied by bread, a different-colored fruit or vegetable on the side, and snack cake afterward, is a very generous dinner. The chicken is still there. The vegetables are still there. Nobody's being handed half a hamburger and told to be grateful. You're just supplying some of the calories hungry growing people need with inexpensive foods instead of expecting meat, cheese, or the main dish to provide all of them.

And if the kids are absolutely ravenous, put the cheap, filling, good thing in front of them first. They aren't being tricked. They can still eat as much dinner as they want. You're just recognizing that a starving teenager will eat an expensive four dollar hamburger  with exactly the same enthusiasm with which they'll eat a fifty- cent oven fried potato.

When we get together now, the kids don’t talk about how we ate "poor people food.". They do ask about their favorite dishes. Their friends liked staying for dinner. There was usually a lot of food on the table, and an unexpected kid was welcome.

That's what I was actually trying to accomplish. Not "How little can I spend feeding these kids?" More like "How can I make sure nobody at my table experiences dinner as scarce?"

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u/Chance_Vegetable_780 — 27 days ago
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Will It Brew? Goldenrod

Will It Brew? Goldenrod

Goldenrod (Solidago sp., Canada/tall goldenrod group)
Foraged in late summer, Northern Ohio, USA

Foreword note: Have you ever looked at a sea of goldenrod and thought, “I wish I could use that?” Of course you have. Every foraging tea drinker who lives around goldenrod has. So, you Google, find instructions and follow them perfectly and end up with tea that tastes and looks like dog piss. You sadly think that goldenrod is one of those ‘edible but why bother’ herbs. 

 If you are still interested in goldenrod and using it as tea, and finding out why it is now my very favorite foraged tea, read on. I know this post is long. Goldenrod tea, done correctly, is worth it. 

This is another in my “Will It Brew?” series, exploring wild plants through the lens of tea, broth, and flavor. Thanks for following along!

Goldenrod is everywhere here in late summer. Huge plants arch into extravagant fans of yellow flowers that look, to me, like a Victorian fever dream of a fern.

It is also one of my favorite wild teas. Last year I gathered about two quart jars of dried goldenrod, and they were gone by February. This year it is getting a much bigger jar.

The trick is that goldenrod is very easy to brew badly. I’ll tell you how to brew it well. 

Found

I gather goldenrod from clean, unsprayed areas around my property in northern Ohio. The plant photographed for this post was magnificent: taller than me, with enormous cascading sprays of yellow flowers. (Photo 1)

ID Notes

I believe this is in the Canada/tall goldenrod group, probably Solidago canadensis or the closely related S. altissima. The overall form, one-sided branching flower panicles, narrow three-veined finely toothed leaves and stem hairs all fit that group. Distinguishing those two species reliably can require characters I haven't documented well enough here, so I'm leaving it at Solidago sp. rather than pretending diligent Googling has conferred a botany degree upon me.

Goldenrods are members of the aster family. This one has long, narrow, alternately arranged leaves with fine teeth that are much easier to see when you actually stop and look for them. (Photo 2) The flowering branches curve outward in large yellow plumes, with the tiny flower heads concentrated along the branches.

Goldenrod also gets blamed for a lot of late-summer allergies that are more often caused by ragweed blooming at the same time. Goldenrod has conspicuous insect-pollinated flowers; ragweed throws its pollen around on the wind.

As always, identify any wild plant positively before eating or drinking it. “Yellow flowers in September” is not an identification. There are tons of yellow flowers. Don’t drink them unless you can identify them. 

Gathering

I don't gather only the flowers.

I cut the flowering spray and continue down the stem roughly another third of the length of the flower head, taking the upper leaves with it. That gives my finished dried tea a mixture of yellow flowers and green leaves.

I prefer that balance. Flowers alone can become cloyingly floral once sweetened. Leaves alone lose the thing I like most about goldenrod and taste much greener. Together, the leaves keep the flowers from becoming perfume, while the flowers keep the leaves from becoming boiled vegetation.

Drying

Goldenrod has been fussier to dry well than most of my tea herbs.

I learned last year that if I dry the flowers too slowly or too cool, like I normally do for herbs and leaves and teas, they will continue maturing into white fluff. The resulting tea is less floral-honey and more dusty tasting.

So goldenrod is one of the herbs I dry somewhat hotter and faster than my usual delicate leaves and flowers. The goal is to get it thoroughly dry while the flowers are still yellow, rather than lovingly preserving it at low temperature until it has successfully turned itself into seeds.

For my dehydrator, I dry goldenrod on the top setting of 150 to 160 degrees F (around 70 C)

Once dry, remove the leaves and flowers from the stems starting at the bottom and working toward the flower end.

This sounds unnecessarily specific. It is not.

The dried stems become surprisingly barbed. Running your hand the other direction is like giving a hand job to a cactus. You only need to learn this once.

Preparation

For my everyday dried tea, I use roughly 2 tablespoons of dried leaves and flowers for a four-cup pot.

For this experiment I used fresh goldenrod: two modest flowering tops with their upper leafy stems, shown beside a pencil in the photo for scale. (Photo 3)

I poured just-removed-from-boiling-on-the-stove water over them once and left the plant material in the pot. I then poured samples from that same continuously steeping pot at:

30 seconds
90 seconds
3 minutes
5 minutes
11 minutes

So these were not five separately prepared teas. They were snapshots of the same tea becoming progressively more goldenroddy.

I tasted each unsweetened first and then added a small amount of plain white sugar.

30 Seconds 

Very pale yellow-green. (Photo 4)

The scent was pleasant but the taste was barely there. After adding a little sugar, I could find a faint floral-honey flavor, but it was delicate enough that I had to go looking for it.

Not bad at all. Just unnecessarily shy.

90 Seconds

This is the one. (Photo 5)

This is how I make my morning goldenrod tea. It is delicious. The floral scent was noticeably stronger. Unsweetened, the tea tasted flowery but not particularly sweet. A touch of sugar brought forward something distinctly honey-like.

It's floral without tasting like perfume, lightly green without tasting vegetal, and has a lovely honey impression once a little sweetness is added.

I've used white sugar, brown sugar, honey, stevia and turbinado sugar with goldenrod. All work. Turbinado is especially nice.

If you try this tea, set a timer. Ninety seconds is my sweet spot.

3 Minutes

 (Photo 6) Still floral, but something green had begun appearing underneath it. The smell made me think oddly of flowers and zucchini skin.

With sugar it was still perfectly drinkable, but now there was a slight bitterness at the back of my throat that lingered for perhaps 30 seconds.

At this point the tea wasn't ruined, but you could tell it was headed somewhere less pleasant.

5 Minutes

(Photo 7) The first sip was still pleasant and slightly floral, followed by a much stronger bitter, green finish at the back of the throat.

I kept thinking zucchini skin, then reconsidered and thought perhaps eggplant skin. Whatever vegetable it resembles, it's that particular bitterness where you think, This should taste good, but I wish somebody had peeled it.

Sugar improved the floral beginning but couldn't remove the bitter finish.

11 Minutes

(Photo 8) The internet often recommends brewing goldenrod for 8 to 15 minutes. The internet lies. In my pot, the color was now a deep, impressive gold.

The scent was still mostly floral. Unfortunately, underneath the flowers was a slight smell of dog piss.

Unsweetened, the first touch on the tongue actually wasn't terrible. Then the bitterness bloomed down my throat and rose into the back of my nose.

This is apparently the point at which some ancient part of the human nervous system announces:

This is piss.

I added sugar.

Now the dog had diabetes.

About Those 8–15 Minute Brewing Instructions

This experiment is why I'm suspicious of the standard advice to steep goldenrod for eight or ten minutes- or, in one recipe I found, two cups of plant material in four cups of boiling water for fifteen minutes.

Perhaps there are species differences. There certainly may be differences in harvest stage, fresh versus dried material, flower-to-leaf ratio and individual taste.

But with the goldenrod I gather, I think the lovely flavors extract very quickly and the unpleasant ones simply require patience.

More extraction isn't necessarily more flavor in the useful sense.

At 90 seconds I get flowers and honey.

At 11 minutes I get a diabetic dog.

Choose accordingly. 

Cold Brew

No.

I have tried.

Goldenrod initially seems almost hydrophobic in cold water. It floats around stubbornly until it finally becomes saturated.

Unfortunately, by the time it has thoroughly soaked, you've essentially skipped the lovely brief floral stage and arrived at cold, bitter yellow tea.

It looks unfortunate.

It tastes unfortunate.

Hot water, short steep. Goldenrod and I have reached an understanding. 

If you must have it cold, start from hot, brew 90 seconds, add ice. 

Flavor Notes

At its best goldenrod tea is floral, honey-like, lightly green, soft and aromatic. 

As steep time increases you get bitter vegetable skin, lingering bitterness and some urinary thing happening. 

The sweetness isn't really present in the unsweetened plant itself. What fascinates me is that adding just a little sweetener makes the existing floral aroma read as honey. You don't need much. I often tell people unsweetened goldenrod tea tastes like how honey tea would taste if honey wasn’t sweet. 

A Note on Effects

Some goldenrod species and preparations have a long history of traditional use as diuretics, and I can certainly say that for me, even this lightly brewed 90-second tea has a noticeable diuretic effect, especially if I haven’t had some goldenrod for a while. If I've been retaining water, I prepare to pee.

Interestingly, when I drink it on subsequent days, I notice the effect much less.

I've also noticed that I often have less pain on days when I drink goldenrod tea. That's a personal observation, not evidence that goldenrod is treating my pain, and I wouldn't use my experience as a medical recommendation. It's simply something I've noticed often enough to find interesting.

Verdict

Will it brew? 

Yes. Absolutely. But time it.

Goldenrod went from an experiment last year to one of the teas I actually drank through all my stash. Two quart jars sounded like plenty when I put them away, but they were empty by February.

Best As

A short-steeped hot tea using a mixture of flowers and upper leaves, with a little sweetener.

I especially like it as an everyday winter tea because it is fragrant and pleasant without being overwhelmingly floral.

Would I Try Again?

I'm currently filling a gallon jar with dried goldenrod and have a half gallon jar waiting for the overflow.

So yes.

Flavor Strength 

(Photo 9: shows the brews from left to right at 90 seconds up to 11 minutes on the right)

90 seconds: Mild to moderate -- floral, honey-like with sweetener
3 minutes: Moderate --floral with emerging green bitterness
5 minutes: Strong -- floral opening, persistent vegetable-skin bitterness
11 minutes: Regrettable

Notes

Goldenrod is one of those foraging discoveries I particularly enjoy: it is abundant, beautiful, easy to recognize once properly learned, and genuinely delicious with just a little fiddling.

There's enough technique involved to make you feel as though you've been let in on a forager's secret.

Harvest flowers with some upper leaves. Dry it promptly enough to keep the flowers yellow. Strip the dried stems in the direction that doesn't sexually assault a cactus. Use a modest amount. Brew it hot.

Ninety seconds.

Then get the plant material out of the water.

Caveat

There are many species of goldenrod, and flavor may vary among them. The plant in this experiment appears to be Canada goldenrod (Solidago canadensis), but I would want a fully keyed identification before presenting the species as certain.

Identify your own plants independently using multiple characteristics and reliable botanical references rather than relying on a photo, an app, or this post. Harvest only from places you know have not been sprayed or contaminated.

Goldenrod is in the aster family, so people with sensitivities to plants in that family should use appropriate caution. And because goldenrod preparations can have a diuretic effect, anyone with a medical condition or medication for which changing fluid balance could matter should check with an appropriate clinician rather than treating a foraging post as medical advice.

Mostly, though, don’t steep it for eleven minutes.

u/eccentric_bee — 1 month ago
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Will It Brew? Goldenrod

Will It Brew? Goldenrod

Goldenrod (Solidago sp., Canada/tall goldenrod group)
Foraged in late summer, Northern Ohio, USA

Foreword note: Have you ever looked at a sea of goldenrod and thought, “I wish I could use that?” Of course you have. Every foraging tea drinker who lives around goldenrod has. So, you Google, find instructions and follow them perfectly and end up with tea that tastes and looks like dog piss. You sadly think that goldenrod is one of those ‘edible but why bother’ herbs. 

 If you are still interested in goldenrod and using it as tea, and finding out why it is now my very favorite foraged tea, read on. I know this post is long. Goldenrod tea, done correctly, is worth it. 

This is another in my “Will It Brew?” series, exploring wild plants through the lens of tea, broth, and flavor. Thanks for following along!

Goldenrod is everywhere here in late summer. Huge plants arch into extravagant fans of yellow flowers that look, to me, like a Victorian fever dream of a fern.

It is also one of my favorite wild teas. Last year I gathered about two quart jars of dried goldenrod, and they were gone by February. This year it is getting a much bigger jar.

The trick is that goldenrod is very easy to brew badly. I’ll tell you how to brew it well. 

Found

I gather goldenrod from clean, unsprayed areas around my property in northern Ohio. The plant photographed for this post was magnificent: taller than me, with enormous cascading sprays of yellow flowers. (Photo 1)

ID Notes

I believe this is in the Canada/tall goldenrod group, probably Solidago canadensis or the closely related S. altissima. The overall form, one-sided branching flower panicles, narrow three-veined finely toothed leaves and stem hairs all fit that group. Distinguishing those two species reliably can require characters I haven't documented well enough here, so I'm leaving it at Solidago sp. rather than pretending diligent Googling has conferred a botany degree upon me.

Goldenrods are members of the aster family. This one has long, narrow, alternately arranged leaves with fine teeth that are much easier to see when you actually stop and look for them. (Photo 2) The flowering branches curve outward in large yellow plumes, with the tiny flower heads concentrated along the branches.

Goldenrod also gets blamed for a lot of late-summer allergies that are more often caused by ragweed blooming at the same time. Goldenrod has conspicuous insect-pollinated flowers; ragweed throws its pollen around on the wind.

As always, identify any wild plant positively before eating or drinking it. “Yellow flowers in September” is not an identification. There are tons of yellow flowers. Don’t drink them unless you can identify them. 

Gathering

I don't gather only the flowers.

I cut the flowering spray and continue down the stem roughly another third of the length of the flower head, taking the upper leaves with it. That gives my finished dried tea a mixture of yellow flowers and green leaves.

I prefer that balance. Flowers alone can become cloyingly floral once sweetened. Leaves alone lose the thing I like most about goldenrod and taste much greener. Together, the leaves keep the flowers from becoming perfume, while the flowers keep the leaves from becoming boiled vegetation.

Drying

Goldenrod has been fussier to dry well than most of my tea herbs.

I learned last year that if I dry the flowers too slowly or too cool, like I normally do for herbs and leaves and teas, they will continue maturing into white fluff. The resulting tea is less floral-honey and more dusty tasting.

So goldenrod is one of the herbs I dry somewhat hotter and faster than my usual delicate leaves and flowers. The goal is to get it thoroughly dry while the flowers are still yellow, rather than lovingly preserving it at low temperature until it has successfully turned itself into seeds.

For my dehydrator, I dry goldenrod on the top setting of 150 to 160 degrees F (around 70 C)

Once dry, remove the leaves and flowers from the stems starting at the bottom and working toward the flower end.

This sounds unnecessarily specific. It is not.

The dried stems become surprisingly barbed. Running your hand the other direction is like giving a hand job to a cactus. You only need to learn this once.

Preparation

For my everyday dried tea, I use roughly 2 tablespoons of dried leaves and flowers for a four-cup pot.

For this experiment I used fresh goldenrod: two modest flowering tops with their upper leafy stems, shown beside a pencil in the photo for scale. (Photo 3)

I poured just-boiling hot water over them once and left the plant material in the pot. I then poured samples from that same continuously steeping pot at:

30 seconds
90 seconds
3 minutes
5 minutes
11 minutes

So these were not five separately prepared teas. They were snapshots of the same tea becoming progressively more goldenroddy.

I tasted each unsweetened first and then added a small amount of plain white sugar.

30 Seconds 

Very pale yellow-green. (Photo 4)

The scent was pleasant but the taste was barely there. After adding a little sugar, I could find a faint floral-honey flavor, but it was delicate enough that I had to go looking for it.

Not bad at all. Just unnecessarily shy.

90 Seconds

This is the one. (Photo 5)

This is how I make my morning goldenrod tea. It is delicious. The floral scent was noticeably stronger. Unsweetened, the tea tasted flowery but not particularly sweet. A touch of sugar brought forward something distinctly honey-like.

It's floral without tasting like perfume, lightly green without tasting vegetal, and has a lovely honey impression once a little sweetness is added.

I've used white sugar, brown sugar, honey, stevia and turbinado sugar with goldenrod. All work. Turbinado is especially nice.

If you try this tea, set a timer. Ninety seconds is my sweet spot.

3 Minutes

 (Photo 6) Still floral, but something green had begun appearing underneath it. The smell made me think oddly of flowers and zucchini skin.

With sugar it was still perfectly drinkable, but now there was a slight bitterness at the back of my throat that lingered for perhaps 30 seconds.

At this point the tea wasn't ruined, but you could tell it was headed somewhere less pleasant.

5 Minutes

(Photo 7) The first sip was still pleasant and slightly floral, followed by a much stronger bitter, green finish at the back of the throat.

I kept thinking zucchini skin, then reconsidered and thought perhaps eggplant skin. Whatever vegetable it resembles, it's that particular bitterness where you think, This should taste good, but I wish somebody had peeled it.

Sugar improved the floral beginning but couldn't remove the bitter finish.

11 Minutes

(Photo 8) The internet often recommends brewing goldenrod for 8 to 15 minutes. The internet lies. In my pot, the color was now a deep, impressive gold.

The scent was still mostly floral. Unfortunately, underneath the flowers was a slight smell of dog piss.

Unsweetened, the first touch on the tongue actually wasn't terrible. Then the bitterness bloomed down my throat and rose into the back of my nose.

This is apparently the point at which some ancient part of the human nervous system announces:

This is piss.

I added sugar.

Now the dog had diabetes.

About Those 8–15 Minute Brewing Instructions

This experiment is why I'm suspicious of the standard advice to steep goldenrod for eight or ten minutes- or, in one recipe I found, two cups of plant material in four cups of boiling water for fifteen minutes.

Perhaps there are species differences. There certainly may be differences in harvest stage, fresh versus dried material, flower-to-leaf ratio and individual taste.

But with the goldenrod I gather, I think the lovely flavors extract very quickly and the unpleasant ones simply require patience.

More extraction isn't necessarily more flavor in the useful sense.

At 90 seconds I get flowers and honey.

At 11 minutes I get a diabetic dog.

Choose accordingly. 

Cold Brew

No.

I have tried.

Goldenrod initially seems almost hydrophobic in cold water. It floats around stubbornly until it finally becomes saturated.

Unfortunately, by the time it has thoroughly soaked, you've essentially skipped the lovely brief floral stage and arrived at cold, bitter yellow tea.

It looks unfortunate.

It tastes unfortunate.

Hot water, short steep. Goldenrod and I have reached an understanding. 

If you must have it cold, start from hot, brew 90 seconds, add ice. 

Flavor Notes

At its best goldenrod tea is floral, honey-like, lightly green, soft and aromatic. 

As steep time increases you get bitter vegetable skin, lingering bitterness and some urinary thing happening. 

The sweetness isn't really present in the unsweetened plant itself. What fascinates me is that adding just a little sweetener makes the existing floral aroma read as honey. You don't need much. I often tell people unsweetened goldenrod tea tastes like how honey tea would taste if honey wasn’t sweet. 

A Note on Effects

Some goldenrod species and preparations have a long history of traditional use as diuretics, and I can certainly say that for me, even this lightly brewed 90-second tea has a noticeable diuretic effect, especially if I haven’t had some goldenrod for a while. If I've been retaining water, I prepare to pee.

Interestingly, when I drink it on subsequent days, I notice the effect much less.

I've also noticed that I often have less pain on days when I drink goldenrod tea. That's a personal observation, not evidence that goldenrod is treating my pain, and I wouldn't use my experience as a medical recommendation. It's simply something I've noticed often enough to find interesting.

Verdict

Will it brew? 

Yes. Absolutely. But time it.

Goldenrod went from an experiment last year to one of the teas I actually drank through all my stash. Two quart jars sounded like plenty when I put them away, but they were empty by February.

Best As

A short-steeped hot tea using a mixture of flowers and upper leaves, with a little sweetener.

I especially like it as an everyday winter tea because it is fragrant and pleasant without being overwhelmingly floral.

Would I Try Again?

I'm currently filling a gallon jar with dried goldenrod and have a half gallon jar waiting for the overflow.

So yes.

Flavor Strength 

(Photo 9: shows the brews from left to right at 90 seconds up to 11 minutes on the right)

90 seconds: Mild to moderate -- floral, honey-like with sweetener
3 minutes: Moderate -- floral with emerging green bitterness
5 minutes: Strong-- floral opening, persistent vegetable-skin bitterness
11 minutes: Regrettable

Notes

Goldenrod is one of those foraging discoveries I particularly enjoy: it is abundant, beautiful, easy to recognize once properly learned, and genuinely delicious with just a little fiddling.

There's enough technique involved to make you feel as though you've been let in on a forager's secret.

Harvest flowers with some upper leaves. Dry it promptly enough to keep the flowers yellow. Strip the dried stems in the direction that doesn't sexually assault a cactus. Use a modest amount. Brew it hot.

Ninety seconds.

Then get the plant material out of the water.

Caveat

There are many species of goldenrod, and flavor may vary among them. The plant in this experiment appears to be Canada goldenrod (Solidago canadensis), but I would want a fully keyed identification before presenting the species as certain.

Identify your own plants independently using multiple characteristics and reliable botanical references rather than relying on a photo, an app, or this post. Harvest only from places you know have not been sprayed or contaminated.

Goldenrod is in the aster family, so people with sensitivities to plants in that family should use appropriate caution. And because goldenrod preparations can have a diuretic effect, anyone with a medical condition or medication for which changing fluid balance could matter should check with an appropriate clinician rather than treating a foraging post as medical advice.

Mostly, though, don’t steep it for eleven minutes.

u/eccentric_bee — 1 month ago

Bento boxes helped us through a rough patch

My grandson has ARFID, and during a particularly stressful period a couple of years ago, his list of safe foods narrowed down to about ten things.

We've always kept a list on the refrigerator that changes as he does. There are foods on the list that are safe, foods he can sometimes eat, and foods he thinks he might like to try again someday. Things move around on the list. A food being safe last month doesn't necessarily mean it's safe today, and "not now" doesn't have to mean "never."

During this particular stretch, he was often eating an entire meal of one thing. If crackers felt safe, he'd eat crackers. If one particular kind of chicken was easy for him, that might be the meal.

So I bought six cheap little bento lunchboxes from Walmart and started keeping them in the refrigerator.

I didn't use them to introduce new foods. I filled each compartment with things that were already safe on his list, but tried to make each box as nutritionally broad as I could within those limits. A little protein if there was one he'd eat, a carb, fruit, or whatever else was currently possible.

The boxes were smaller than his appetite usually was, but that turned out to be a good thing. He could get one whenever he wanted, and if he was still hungry he could have another as long as the first was pretty much gone. Sometimes he'd eat two or three.

I tried to keep four ready in the refrigerator and rotate them so the oldest went first. When he finished one, he washed the box and it went back into circulation.

It also accidentally solved another problem: sometimes he doesn't want foods touching. Bento compartments made that a nonissue without much stress. With these ones, each compartment sealed when the box was closed.

Mostly, though, I think it helped because food was just there. He didn't have to decide what meal he could manage, ask somebody to make something, or confront a big plate of one food. He could open the refrigerator, choose a box, and eat.

We still use the system when he asks, like during holidays or school testing. His safe food list is considerably broader now, but having a few little boxes of food he knows he can eat continues to be useful at times. He'll just ask if we could do bentos for a while, or I'll suggest it if I see him having single-food meals again.

ARFID looks so different from person to person that I don't know whether this would help anyone else's family, or anyone else with ARFID. But it helped mine, so I thought I'd share.

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u/eccentric_bee — 2 months ago

[Offer] Five Minimalist Cat Cards [USA to WW]

This one is finished! Thank you!

https://imgur.com/a/2cO6Dcv

These are five painted cards with a minimal cat on each one.

They will come in badly handmade envelopes, with simple greetings in poor penmanship written inside. They will be mailed using the most common and boring stamps possible.

If this sounds good, leave a comment. I'll read them to my cat Mimsy in an hour or so, and the ones she likes best will get a PM asking for mailing info.

Thanks!

u/eccentric_bee — 2 months ago