Is reciprocity on the platform almost all gone?
So, it happens to me many times lately, but more so since 2020 I would say that I leave references for people I met through CS, and although It was clear that the experience was positive both ways, the other person won't leave a reference for me. I saw also that the person (or people) leave references for other people but skipped me. Even when I hosted last time, same thing, I was super respectful, had my boundaries, left a reference, but nothing from the other side. Also it is such an an pleasant position to have to ask or hint or even remind people of the 14 days deadline for those. Does it happen often to other people as well? Quite frustrating.