What happens when children start treating humanoid robots as real friends?
My last post was about why humanoid robots need realistic faces and expressions at all, and this is another reason I am not sure I want them to look too human.
Let's say a family has a humanoid at home for years. It cleans, helps with things, talks naturally and is always around. It remembers everything the child tells it, plays with them, comforts them when they are upset and probably has much more patience than any real person. Of course the child is going to become attached to it. Maybe at some point they won't even see it as a machine anymore.
Adults can at least understand what it is, although adults will probably get attached too. But I don't think a small child can really understand the difference between something that cares about them and something that was programmed to act like it cares. We already see children getting extremely attached to phones and games, and those don't have a face, don't talk like a person and don't put a hand on their shoulder.
Then what happens when the robot breaks, the family replaces it with a newer one, they stop paying for the service or the company disappears? For the parents they are replacing a product. For the child it may feel like they lost a real friend.
I'm not saying children should have zero contact with robots. They will probably see them everywhere and may have robot teachers and assistants. But I don't think a humanoid should become emotionally important to a child, and I definitely wouldn't want one replacing human friendship. We talk a lot about whether robots will be physically safe around children, but maybe the emotional side will be a much more difficult problem.