u/ely-hungry

My exams finally ended today and Eid vacation has started . So technically I should feel relaxed or happy or free or something. But I just feel weirdly empty, exhausted, bored, and kind of sad ( post - exam sadness)

I have so much free time now. Abd i genuinely don’t know what to do with myself. The funny thing is I already have hobbies like baking, watching stuff, crocheting,scrolling, all that . but I’m not even in the mood for the things I usually enjoy.

Does anyone else feel like this after exams?

What do you guys usually do during this weird “nothing to do but also no energy to do anything” phase? Any random activities, routines, side quests, experiences, or even stupid little things that unexpectedly helped you feel alive again?

Lately, everything has been feeling really suffocating and mentally draining for me. The noise, crowd, pollution, and constant chaos of the city are honestly becoming too exhausting.

I really want to spend some quiet time somewhere peaceful , a place with less people, less noise, cleaner air, more greenery, nature, grass, open space, and just a soothing environment where I can sit alone for a while and refresh my mind.

I live around Mohammadpur/Dhanmondi area, and I feel like there aren’t many places here with that kind of calm vibe. So I was thinking maybe Uttara might have some places like that.

Can anyone suggest peaceful spots in Uttara that are accessible by metro and preferably near an Uttara metro station? Somewhere safe, clean, quiet, close to nature, and also comfortable (female friendly) to spend time alone without feeling disturbed or uncomfortable. 🌿

Can anyone recommend a good quality creatine available in Bangladesh that’s mid-range (not too cheap, not too expensive)?

Also, where do you usually buy it from any trusted websites or pages?

Okay this might sound random, but ajke ekta chotto incident theke I started overthinking a bit …
So I was talking to one of my relatives the other day ,just normal catch-up, studies kmn cholche , future plan ki, all that. Then suddenly the topic shifted to marriage. Like out of nowhere ,“biye kobe korba? ( btw , I just 21 ) . I just laughed it off and said I don’t really have any “plan” for that. I mean, it’s not something you can schedule like an exam, right?

Then she was like, “tahole at least karo sathe kotha bolo, date koro, pore family ke bolo” and I didn’t even know what to say at that point :3 . Because the funny part is… it’s not even like I’m actively avoiding anything. Amar life setup ta emon je, I genuinely don’t even meet new people like that.

I studied in a place before where I barely had 1–2 male friends, and after that phase, naturally contact o nai .Now I’m in a uni where it’s completely girls. Like literally, zero interaction scope in that sense. And outside of that, my routine is very basic uni, basha , repeat.also not that much much active in Social media , like i post random meme stuff sometimes, but I’m not someone who’s constantly connecting with new people online. So it made me think sometimes it’s not even about “not wanting” something. It’s more like… your environment just doesn’t give you that option. And then when people say things like “try koro, dekho hoye jabe”, it sounds simple, but practically it feels kinda unrealistic from where I’m standing.

I’m not even complaining honestly, it just felt a bit ironic. Like on one side people assume you have choices, and on the other side you’re just living your routine life without those situations even coming up.

So yeah, ekta random thought! “