My recipient is frustrating me
This is more of a rant about my friend. I gave my friend a kidney last year. We were both 39. She had been on dialysis for over a year. Dialysis was not going great. The donation was a big success and now she's living a normal life. She went on medical leave while she was on dialysis. She went back to work a couple months after the donation. She ultimately quit her job for understandable reasons. My qualm is that now she will not look for another job. She refuses to work even part time. This is not good for her family's finances and I feel like this sets a bad example for her kids. I know it's none of my business what she does with her life.
While she was healing, in her own words, she "played the kidney card". She "couldn't do anything " because she just received a kidney. I feel like I have my own right to "Play the kidney card" and tell her to stop making excuses and set a good example for her kids.
Am I being dramatic? We're pretty good friends.