
Rent vs. buy: what inputs are really needed to decide?
I want to build a LongtermTrends rent-vs-buy tool, and maybe later add a guided decision agent around it, similar in spirit to the FIRE Agent but for housing decisions.
I do not want it to be another calculator that pretends the answer is simply "rent" or "buy."
By agent, I do not mean a bot that spits out a verdict. I mean a guided assistant that helps gather the context that matters: the financials, country-specific assumptions, risk tolerance, values, family plans, job and income stability, need for freedom, desire for roots, liquidity, concentration risk, and what each option would do to daily life.
The point would be to assist the decision, not make it for the person.
The math still matters. A good tool should compare renting plus investing against buying, not just rent payment versus mortgage payment. LongtermTrends already has housing context charts like home prices vs. median income, home prices vs. inflation, stocks vs. real estate, stocks vs. bonds, and the 60/40 portfolio. But charts alone do not answer a household-level rent-vs-buy decision.
Looking at existing tools, PWL's rent-vs-buy calculator is strong because it compares after-tax net worth and is built for a serious planning context, but it is Canada/province-aware. The New York Times calculator has a polished sensitivity feel and US-tax-law assumptions. NerdWallet's calculator decomposes costs well, but it lives in a mortgage marketplace environment.
The country issue seems important. Mortgage rules, property tax, transaction costs, stamp duties, tax deductions, capital-gains treatment, rent regulation, subsidies, notary fees, insurance, and taxation of the renter's alternative investments can all change the answer. A US-first tool, a Canada-first tool, and a Switzerland/Europe-aware tool are not the same product.
For a first version, I am leaning toward a geography-neutral model: user-supplied assumptions, no built-in country-specific tax engine, and optional tax adjustment fields defaulted to zero. The result would be "under these assumptions," not "you should rent" or "you should buy."
But the spreadsheet is not the whole decision.
Buying can support stability, family, roots, control, schools, community, and a sense of home. It can also reduce flexibility, concentrate net worth, increase fixed costs, add maintenance work, and make it harder to move for work, family, health, or freedom.
Renting can support flexibility, lower fixed obligations, geographic freedom, and keeping capital invested or liquid. It can also create uncertainty, less control, weaker roots, and exposure to rent increases or landlord decisions.
There is an old Berkshire meeting joke I like here. At the 1998 Berkshire Hathaway annual meeting, Buffett pushed Charlie Munger on when a married person needs a house. Munger's answer: "when your wife wants one." Very old-fashioned, yes, but it gets at something true: housing is never only a spreadsheet decision.
This is also where the last LongtermTrends meetup on money and happiness feels relevant. We used the PERMA-V model from positive psychology: Positive Emotion, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, Accomplishment, and Vitality. The frame came from Ben Felix / PWL material such as Using Your Money To Be Happier, Finding and Funding a Good Life, PWL's Goal Survey Summary, and the Rational Reminder episode on a financial goals master list.
That material made one point very concrete: many financial goals are surface versions of deeper life goals. "Buy a home" might really mean stability, privacy, family rhythms, shorter commute, roots, school access, or room for hobbies. "Keep renting" might really mean freedom, optionality, career mobility, lower stress, more liquidity, or not being tied to one place.
So I am trying to think about this as three layers:
- The calculator: under these assumptions, what happens financially?
- The life checklist: what kind of ordinary week does each choice create?
- The agent: what context should be gathered before someone can make a decision they can still defend later?
I would love your reaction to this direction.
Do you think this is the right way to think about rent vs. buy, or am I missing something important?
If you already bought a home: what mattered most at the time? Are you happy with the decision now, or do you regret parts of it?
If you rent: is that mostly because of money, flexibility, lifestyle, uncertainty, or something else?
If you are deciding now: what feels hardest to compare?
Have you used rent-vs-buy tools before? What helped, and what did they fail to capture?
What context is actually needed to make this decision well? Financials, country rules, taxes, maintenance, opportunity cost, risk tolerance, relationship/family plans, schools, commute, job stability, freedom, roots, stress, health, something else?
What should the tool look like? What should it calculate, compare, or stress-test? Are there other tools, calculators, agents, or workflows you have used that you liked and would want this to learn from?
What should the agent look like? What should it ask, how should it behave, and what kind of output would actually help you or would have helped you in the past?
In short: what is important to you when making the rent-vs-buy decision, and are we addressing all of it?