Did I overreact?
So, on Friday a man messages me and says he wants me to babysit his 2 boys.
This is Care.com where the only thing I'm able to see is his name and profile picture. I ask if he'd be available for a phone call or video call so that we can go over expectations, questions, and rate. He declines and tell me that he'd rather "go over the details the day off (today). Now, I'm aware I should have immediately said that this was outside of my comfort zone right then and there, but for some stupid reason, I agree.
On the drive this morning, I thought about it more and was like, "I wouldn't even go inside someone's house to grab something off of Facebook marketplace...why would I go inside this man's house when he couldn't even chat beforehand for everyone's safety?"
I pulled up to the house and on the outside, it was sketch. The side of the windows were boarded up and there was not a single sign of any kiddos (not that there has to be), but the whole thing just seemed odd to me and I backed out the last minute. Did I overreact? Is that normal? I dont understand why he refused to talk to me before I was physically in his house?????