Anyone else been hit with the “not a cultural fit” excuse?
I recently shifted sectors and got my first job in a startup. My team was rather large and it was all handled by our manager who lived to work. She was a prime example of a workaholic. She started work at 7am and would still be answering emails at 9pm at night. Although very hard working, she was certainly not a confident woman. My biggest red flag should’ve been on the interview day when it was my turn to ask questions and she bumbled her responses. It was almost like I was interviewing her instead.
A 9 hour workday and a strict policy of working 3 days in the office was not making my days at this job any better. I was definitely burning out and the type of work I was doing was mundane. No critical thinking, no strategy, a simple task of being a sheep from the start of the day to the end. During my regular 1-on-1s with my manager, I often asked for her feedback. She always ensured me that I was doing a rather good job. Rarely, did she have any feedback for me, however, any that she ever did, I fully took that onboard as well.
2 months into the job, I had my first performance review done by my manager and our acting HR manager who had hired me. The review was exceptional and they said I was exceeding all expectations. By the time of my second performance review, the original HR manager had returned from her leave. This time they begun saying I was failing my performance review and I was not a good “cultural fit”. I was apparently 2 mins late to work everyday and many more things that suddenly were wrong with me as a person. The review was so brutal and my first such experience that it literally made me cry. The next day, my manager checks in with me, saying that she understands and was thinking of me the entire weekend. She even acknowledged that HR was too cruel (her words). She gave me guidance on coming early and said keep doing what you’re doing.
A couple weeks go by, she acknowledged that I was still doing a good job and was on track until a Friday morning where I was working from home and I was again called into a meeting. I was terminated immediately. Apparently, I wasn’t a good “cultural-fit” and wasn’t good enough for them. No words from my manager. In this whole scenario, I still thought my manager was the good guy.
Cut to a month later, I got a better, high paying and career progressing job. For my referral, I contacted my manager on her private number. She flat-out declined to give me a referral and said only HR can give you any referrals, apparently it was the company policy. To this day, I haven’t been able to figure out how much more improvement I could have made on that measly support job to meet their expectations.