u/idkwhatimdoingtbqh

how can i solve a fight between two of my friends?

hi everyone i need help for privacy reasons i'll be calling my friends A and B

5 years ago A was in a relationship with a guy that was on and off (for a year) they would break up and then get back together because there were lots of fights and incompatibility issues so they broke up and left it at that. fast forward B announced that she was getting married and showed me and b the pictures and it was the same guy that A was dating 5 years ago that B knew about.

obviously this started a huge fight and accusations of betrayal and whatnot i'm conflicted as to how to tackle this

B claims that A and this guy were incompatible and had lots of issues therefore it wasn't "real love" and since it's been 5 years she should have moved on because B claims A told her that she did move on and she never liked the guy etc.

A thinks it's betrayal and girl code to not date the ex of your friend and both A and B are making me choose to keep one of them as a friend this whole thing is giving childish tbh and annoying me but idk what to do

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u/idkwhatimdoingtbqh — 3 days ago