Is it time to stop and quit…?
For writers: have you ever felt it was time to just give up and stop writing?
I originally got into writing after my cancer diagnosis and recovery. It was a whole new world and a chance to learn an entirely new skill.
When I started, it was so liberating. I'd had characters in my head for years, and I could finally give them a home. Writing helped me process a lot of things in my life, including past relationships, people, and even my own health.
Then writing became a source of stress.
Somewhere along the way, writing became "what is good for the meta?" I still wrote what I wanted, but since writing takes so much time, I hoped to either find a path to monetize it or at least have a positive impact on a reader: make them laugh, or help them connect with something my character was going through.
While trying to learn how to grow, I realized I needed to network. But that only added more time, more stress, and a reminder that I didn't always fit in with that group either. What once gave me liberation has left me with so much doubt.
I don't know if this is burnout or a sign I should walk away. And honestly, I'm scared that if I stop, I lose the thing that got me through the hardest part of my life.
If you've been here: did you take a break, change how you write, or quit? Did the joy ever come back?