u/jessicaguijarrot

Will we reconcile? Looking for help with this horary interpretation.
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Will we reconcile? Looking for help with this horary interpretation.

Hi everyone!
I’m still learning traditional horary astrology and would really appreciate some feedback on my interpretation.
Question: Will Carlos and I get back together?
Context:
Ive been traveling since june 15, Carlos and I are such a Match in how we live, our hobbies, sex, lifestyle, but with different approaches, he's a piscis who's dogmatic and science oriented and I'm a Virgo into this "magic" world, very intuitive and spiritual.
Our diamsagreements are based on that, a dumb subject can become an argument and when I express my feelings he tends to say I make things bigger (and yes sometimes I can) but I also see that in him and don't say. I feel he points a lot on me but don't look at himself.

I’m currently in Mysore, India, doing an Ashtanga Yoga Teacher Training. Carlos and I were planning to travel together to Sri Lanka after the course, but due to ongoing relationship issues he cancelled the trip and we’re currently separated, he broke up with me in August 2, the day before starting the teacher training. For some reason I don't feel this is true or definitive or don't even know if it's just shock.
The question wasn’t whether we still love each other, but specifically whether we will reconcile.

Me: Sagittarius rising → Jupiter.
Co-significator: Moon.
Carlos: 7th house in Gemini → Mercury.

My interpretation
The Ascendant is neither too early nor too late.
I am represented by Jupiter in Leo in the 9th house, which I found interesting because I’m literally abroad in India studying spirituality, so the chart seems descriptive of my current circumstances.
Carlos is represented by Mercury in Cancer in the 8th house, which made me think he may be going through his own emotional transformation or crisis.
The first thing that stood out is that I don’t see an applying major aspect between Jupiter and Mercury, which makes me question whether reconciliation is actually moving toward perfection.
The Moon is in Gemini in the 7th house, so I thought this clearly shows that my emotional focus is still on the relationship.
However, the Moon is also close to Mars, which made me wonder whether the recent conflict or emotional tension is dominating the situation.
I also noticed that Jupiter isn’t especially strong by essential dignity, while Mercury is in the 8th house, so neither significator seems particularly comfortable.

Where I’m unsure
This is where I would really appreciate help.
Am I correct that there is no perfection between Jupiter and Mercury?
Should I be paying more attention to receptions than to aspects here?
Does the Moon translate light between the significators, or am I misunderstanding that?
Is Mars interfering with the Moon in a meaningful way?
Does Mercury being in the 8th tell us anything important about Carlos’ state or is that reading too psychological for traditional horary?
Is there any prohibition, frustration, translation or collection of light that I’m missing?
My overall impression is that the chart doesn’t give a clear “yes,” but also doesn’t feel like a definitive “no.” It seems to describe two people who are emotionally connected but not currently moving toward each other.
I’d really appreciate hearing how more experienced horary astrologers would judge this chart.
Thank you!

u/jessicaguijarrot — 12 days ago