Focusing on "getting results" vs. enjoying the process is self-defeating
I feel like this is such basic advice but a lot of posts are asking "Oh which subs gave you results? Did you get results? Have you achieved XYZ yet?"
Yes, obviously we all listen to subs with a goal in mind, but living in the feeling/experience of being more beautiful, feeling loved, feeling financially secure is equally important if not MORE IMPORTANT than achieving a particular milestone.
I started listening to subs to get my SP back. When I listen, I feel loveable and attractive, whether or not he is texting me. I don't feel like a dumped loser. To me, that is a "result", and arguably more important than whether or not I have HIM.
So asking about results, obsessing about results isn't doing y'all any favors. I don't feel like this is a hot take, this is lukewarm or frankly old in the fridge opinion, but I see the same comments in here over and over again so I needed to speak it.