u/justaverystarrynight

I need a little help with this

Hi y'all I've been looking forward to put posters of inspirational women in my room, and i think i have space for atleast ten.

Suggest some names down there, so far I've decided to go with

  1. Heddy llamar

  2. Malala yousufzai

  3. Maria skłodowska curie

  4. Shakuntala devi

  5. Lilavati

  6. Dr. Tessy thomas

  7. Rosalind franklin

  8. Mae jemison

  9. Kristina koch

  10. Kalpana chawla

  11. Mary anning

  12. Ada lovelace

  13. Mileva maric

And so on.

I am a science student and a space enthusiast so I'm looking for women in space science or women who did humanitarian work like malala so I'd prefer suggestions in that category

There are just soooo many i can't decide who to go with😭

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u/justaverystarrynight — 2 days ago

I dont feel like existing anymore (tw: sa, suicidal thoughts)

Long back on my main account I got rape threat. It was very traumatizing. Took me back to my childhood trauma when i was SAd at 7, i thought i was over that but turns out i wasnt.

Today i was going through some user's history as i moderate a sub and found a place...

It was a place where rape was glorified and treated as a man's right and woman's fate. A whole new trigger for me.

Just as i was closing that, i saw a post and the screenshot looked too familiar. I realised that it's me.

Someone took my trauma and made content out of it. Labelled my trauma as something desirable.

It sickened me to the core. I vomited 2 times and still feel nauseous.

Today an online friend told me she was raped, i read a very graphic post on someone's rape and it's so triggering, i feel suicidal, wjat is even the point of existing anymore? i dont know how to help myself.

Edit: islept over it, i talked to friends, i am fine🩷

Edit 2: more like i felt too lazy.to do anything so i literally procrastinated on this.😭

u/justaverystarrynight — 5 days ago

My friend dumped some trauma on me and i feel so helpless

TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️ : SA

My friend 15f, shared something with me, 16f today

It started when we were talking, i use cuss words often (non gendered curses)

So out of the blue she said, can you not use these words in front of me from now on? I said ok but i was curious that the person who invented new words with me is now asking me not to use em, i asked why.

She said a person who gave me lifelong trauma used to say these words a lot so I'd rather not hear them, it's triggering.

And I'm all shocked cuz firstly wtf, who dared to give trauma to my friend. Secondly she lives in a very strict household, the only exposure to outside world ik she has is school, tuition classes and guitar classes, no parties, no such unsupervised stuff.

I'm like wtf, please tell me you're joking. She said unfortunately it's true.

I'm very very calm, quite triggering for me as well because i have been SAd as child, i was 7 but that's beside the point.

I asked who? She started beating around the bush. I asked again who? She went on about something. After a while she started dropping little details.

He's her age

He's a muslim

Not from our school but knows many people there.

I said gimme his id, she said don't do anything stupid, he's very powerful.

Im all how tf is a 15 yr old powerful, she says he knows powerful people, he knows assassins n shit. I looked into her eyes and her expression did sound like a truth.

Usne kaha pange mat le, wo hame marwa dega.

I said i dont care, tu mujhe uski id de,

She gave me his insta id and I'm conflicted on what do i do with that id.

She said i don't wanna talk on this topic anymore, i said one last question then i wont bug you.

I asked about details, what exactly was it.

She said it was a forced bj... i was quiet for a moment because it reminded me of my experiences.

I was like alright, im sorry you went thru it and i wish i can help u out in some way, I'll be a catfish and get you some information, i dont care if he's some powerful piece of shit. I want her to get justice cuz i couldn't.

That's pretty much it, im in middle of a panic attack rn, idk how i typed all this.

I acted strong for her while she told me this but deep down, it triggered me a lot.

I am traumatised and i wanna be strong for her and i wanna take revenge. I will get her justice i just don't know how.

I feel like such a bad friend because im here talking about her trauma and ugh, i feel like shit.

Thankyou for reading this. This is an alternate account so drop some suggestions, im deleting this acc soon and I'll read the comments from my main.

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u/justaverystarrynight — 8 days ago