u/kaosterra

I (36M) have never wanted children, and currently I am 100% sure that I don't want to be a father, but I am also aware that no one knows the future and there is a non-zero chance that I might change my views and regret it in the future, which has been holding me back. I don't have a partner nor sexually active so there is no rush, but I also don't want to leave this decision for when I can be influenced by a possible partner. People use the "you will change your mind once you love someone who wants kids" argument but that's just annoying (I should have kids if I want them, not for someone else's sake).

Anyway I'm rambling, but wanted to ask for those who got it done, was it a "I'm 100% sure about this" with no doubts? or more of a leap of faith despite some doubts?

I want to set connectivity between 2 devices:

• Device X has tags A and B
• Device Y has tag C (and others irrelevant for this situation)

I want devices with tag A to be able to reach devices with tag C on tcp:8080, so I set the following grant:

{
  "src": ["tag:A"],
  "dst": ["tag:C"],
  "ip":  ["tcp:8080"],
}

With this grant, X has not been able to reach Y on tcp:8080, but if i replace src with tag:B then it can reach it.

Things I have checked:

• There are no explicit "deny" policies anywhere for any tag
• I have checked that the tags show up on the devices with tailscale status --json and tailscale whois
• Device Y is exposing tcp:8080 with tailscale serve and is up and running
• All tags have default owner
• I am testing connectivity with wget from each tailscale container (both are on docker)
• I have recreated docker container for device A in case it had stale data

What else could I check to debug this issue?