Image 1 — Why my AirPods Pro 2 haven't left the drawer in three months
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Why my AirPods Pro 2 haven't left the drawer in three months

Bought a pair of Shokz OpenRun Pro 2 in May and my AirPods Pro 2 have been sitting in the drawer since. I run about 25 miles a week outdoors, mostly early mornings on roads with traffic, so situational awareness is the whole reason I'm not in-ear anymore.

The audio has been better than I expected. There's an air conduction speaker in addition to the bone conduction and bass actually exists on these, which was the reason a lot of people (me included) wrote off bone conduction previously. It's not going to compete with a sealed IEM for critical listening, no one is claiming that, but for pushing through mile 8 of a Sunday long run with a solid playlist it's more than enough.

The fit has been solid. Did a set of hill repeats last week in the summer heat and they didn't move once. The unibody frame feels stiffer than my old Aeropex band at first but it locks in and stays put through anything I've thrown at it so far.

The one real complaint is that at max volume in strong wind or heavy traffic they can get drowned out. I've adjusted by turning down when things get quieter so I have headroom when it gets loud. I still grab the AirPods for calls in windy conditions, the mics on the Pro 2 are fine indoors but not as good outside on the bike.

I have a wired setup at home for actual music listening so I get the trade-offs. But for the specific job of keeping me safe on the road while still giving me some audio, these live on a hook by my door now. Battery is 10 to 12 hours in real use, more than enough for a week of morning runs before I need to charge.

u/lifsbosu — 2 days ago

Logged every shade cycle for six months to see if the automation was earning its keep, sharing the numbers

Wife made an offhand comment back in February that I "just wanted them to move so I could feel the money was worth it." Fair point. No idea if the automations were actually earning their keep or if they cycled twice a day and sat idle otherwise. So I set up counters.

Setup was boring. Counter helper per shade in Home Assistant, one automation per counter that increments on any state change of the cover entity. Template sensor on top of each counter with state_class total_increasing so long term statistics picks them up. Logged raw states to InfluxDB since the default recorder only keeps raw states for about 10 days and I wanted to cross reference by hour of day and by which automation fired.

Eight shades total, all PoE cellular from SmartWings, mix of south, west and east facing rooms.

Total cycles across all shades from Feb through mid August: 5,847. I had guessed maybe 2,500. So my wife was directionally wrong but also me not knowing the answer to within a factor of two is a bad look.

Three things that surprised me.

Distribution was way more skewed than I thought. The two shades in the west facing living room accounted for 3,140 cycles between them. That is 54 percent of the total from 25 percent of the shades. Bedroom shade came in at 214 cycles for the whole period, basically just morning open and evening close. I had built out full temperature triggers for the bedroom and it never once fired because that room has an external overhang and never gets direct sun. I just never checked.

Weekend cycles were 40 percent higher than weekdays across the board. I assumed the opposite because we are gone during weekdays and the automations run on schedule regardless of who is home. Turns out we manually override way more on weekends because we are actually in those rooms reacting to conditions. Voice commands specifically doubled on Saturday and Sunday. That shifted my view of automation vs manual, we are not going hands off, we are running a hybrid where automations set the defaults and we tweak from the couch.

June had a spike I could not initially explain. Total cycles for the month came in at 1,412, versus 750 to 900 for the surrounding months. Traced it to a numeric_state trigger on the kitchen shade with no for: qualifier, set to above: 78F. Sensor was oscillating between 77.5 and 78.5 all afternoon in early June and the shade was cycling every four to six minutes. Wife did not notice because she was at work. Added a for: 15 minutes qualifier and it dropped back to baseline the next month.

Thing I took away from all this is that instrumenting your automations is worth doing even when you think you know how they behave. The bedroom shade automation is on the list to just delete since the data says nobody uses it. The kitchen trigger issue would have kept eating motor cycles indefinitely because the failure mode was silent, no error, no notification, just a shade opening and closing all afternoon while nobody was home.

Curious what other people actually track. Cycle counts, uptime, automation hit rate. Feels like most of us set up automations and never actually look back at what they do.

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u/lifsbosu — 7 days ago

3 months testing AI functions in spreadsheets for CS work. Here's what actually shipped

Been running an experiment for the last three months. I do analytics for the CS org at a mid-market SaaS, and one of my recurring headaches is turning unstructured feedback (support ticket comments, cancellation reasons, exit surveys) into something the leadership team can actually read in a QBR.

Historically this was me tagging things in a Google Sheet by hand on a Sunday. This year I started testing AI functions inside spreadsheets as a replacement. Here's what I kept using and what I killed.

Google Sheets =AI(). Workspace Experiments. The universal function is convenient because you can prompt anything, but "prompt anything" also means the outputs drift row to row. I had rows in the same batch where "billing dispute" got labeled once as "Billing" and later as "Financial." No consistent taxonomy. Fine for one-off summaries, not fine for anything I'm putting in a monthly report where the categories need to be comparable to last month's.

Rows. The AI toolbar and prompt-based columns were well designed, honestly better UX than the alternatives. We were on it for a while, until they announced they were sunsetting the product at the end of May and got acquired by Superhuman. That was actually the trigger for me testing the rest of this list seriously.

Julius AI. Technically not a spreadsheet, it's an analysis layer on top of your data. Great for one-shot questions ("what are the top three cancellation themes this month"). But it's not where I live day to day, and I couldn't get it to live inside a sheet the way I needed for the intermediate steps between raw feedback and a chart.

Zoom Sheets AI functions. Started using this seriously about a month ago because we already had Zoom Workplace and the productivity add-on came in through a company plan renewal. The thing that made it stick wasn't the marketing pitch, it was the function structure. Instead of one universal =AI(prompt-blob) function, there are dedicated named functions with predictable parameter slots: AI.CLASSIFY(range, categories), AI.EXTRACT, AI.FORMAT, AI.REWRITE, AI.SENTIMENT, AI.SUMMARIZE, plus a plain AI for general prompts. AI.CLASSIFY takes the categorical list as a separate parameter, so the taxonomy stays fixed across a batch. That single design choice fixed my main complaint with =AI(). I ran about 400 rows of exit survey and cancellation feedback through AI.CLASSIFY with a fixed six-category taxonomy. Accuracy against my own hand-tagged version came out around 78%, and the wrong-answer patterns are consistent enough that I can spot-check systematically. Things worth flagging if you try it: the monthly AI credits on our plan don't roll over, so batch classification runs eat into the pool faster than casual use does; I also ran into parsing issues when a category label itself contained a comma, so I ended up keeping my labels short and comma-free; and in my tests, multi-theme rows usually came back labeled with only the dominant theme, which handles the 85-90% of rows with one clear topic just fine but leaves the mixed ones under-represented if you care about second-order categorization.

Airtable AI. The schema-first approach is nice, and the AI field type does give you consistent labels within a single-select field. But we're not on Airtable for our main data, and moving 400 rows over just for classification defeats the point.

Where I ended up, more concretely than my earlier "still spot-checking" answer:

First pass on any batch over ~50 rows: named AI functions with a fixed category taxonomy (the classification setup above)

Sanity check: manually review any row longer than average, because those are almost always the multi-theme ones

End-of-month rollup narrative for QBR: Julius, one-shot summarization on the already-classified data

Any raw "what's happening in support this week" one-off question: Google Sheets =AI() is still fine for that

This has actually cut my manual tagging time by roughly two-thirds. Not zero, and I'm still the human in the loop for anything that goes into a QBR deck or a leadership rollup. But the "sit down and tag 300 rows on a Sunday" ritual is done.

Curious how other analysts here are handling multi-label classification at scale without dropping to a full Python NLP pipeline. Specifically curious if anyone's found a spreadsheet-native way to expose per-row confidence scores.

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u/lifsbosu — 8 days ago

family afib history got me shopping for an ecg band and hitting subscription walls everywhere

Spent the last two weekends going down this rabbit hole and figured I'd write it up in case anyone else is looking at the same problem.

Backstory: my dad had a bad afib episode this summer and the cardiologist told me family history means I should probably start tracking my own rhythm going forward. I already have a smartwatch for work stuff so I don't want a second full-blown one on the other wrist. I want something slim I can wear 24/7 without babying the battery every single night, and the band form factor made the most sense.

Started with the obvious pick. The Fitbit Charge 6 has ECG, a decent seven-day battery, and the phone integration is genuinely useful for maps and wallet on the wrist. But the subscription situation has actually gotten worse. Since May the app has been living under a Google account, the yearly plan bumped from $79.99 to $99.99, and Sleep Profile plus the AI health coach are still locked behind the paywall. I don't mind paying for hardware. I mind renting features from hardware I already own, and I'm not looking to hand over years of continuous health data to yet another Google product either.

Went cheaper next. The Amazfit Band 7 gets recommended here constantly and I understand why. Around $50, 18-day battery, decent AMOLED, and the companion app doesn't charge for anything. Problem is no ECG. Which kills it for what I actually need. No point tracking HR trends if I can't capture an actual strip when I feel something weird.

The premium smartwatches do ECG well but I'm not paying $400+ for a second wrist device just for rhythm tracking, and their batteries are designed around daily charging, which kills the continuous-wear angle anyway.

So the niche I'm looking for is: single-lead ECG, no subscription for the interpretation layer, battery long enough to sleep-track without daily top-ups, and priced somewhere between the $50 basic bands and the $400 smartwatches. It's a smaller market than I expected.

The screenless direction seems to be where several newer entries are heading. Trade-off is you have to open the app to see any reading, but the battery numbers get significantly better and the sensor pod stays against the skin more reliably than a display module would. I'm coming around to it more than I expected to.

Curious if anyone here has actually lived with one of these for more than a couple weeks. My dad's current device spits out an ECG summary his doctor called borderline useless, so I'd like to know if the newer bands generate anything a cardiologist actually finds readable before I commit.

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u/lifsbosu — 13 days ago
▲ 100 r/espresso

First shot at my desk this morning, kind of surprised it worked

Coworker of mine is really into coffee. He's the coffee guy at work. Brings his own beans in from home and makes himself a shot at his desk in the mornings.

Last week he sat down next to me on a slow Wednesday and said I should try one. Pulled out this thing that looked like a big water bottle, and another one about the same size that turned out to be a grinder. Asked him what any of it was. He said the espresso maker is called an OutIn nano and the grinder's a fino, same brand. Ground some beans right there at my desk, packed the basket, cold water in the top, hit the button. Whole thing start to finish was maybe 4 minutes and what came out tasted a lot better than the drip pot in our kitchenette.

Ordered both that night. They came in over the weekend. Brought them in on the bus this morning and figured I'd try before my 10. Ground some beans, tipped them into the basket, dial at 2-1 like he told me, pressed them down, screwed it on, cold water in, hit the button. Little lights on the side come on one at a time while it heats. Once they were all on it started pumping and out it came. Crema was patchy in the middle but there was actual crema.

Tasted way more intense than I expected. Kind of aggressive on the front and then just stuck around after. Put a splash of oat milk in half of it just to see and it turned into something I'd actually pay for.

Sorry if this is basic stuff, first time actually making espresso myself. Anything obvious I should be checking for shot #2?

u/lifsbosu — 30 days ago

Reimbursement always comes back in MYR at a worse FX rate than what my card charged, losing 1-2% every trip

Been at this Japanese MNC in KL for close to 4 years now, regional ops role so cross-border trips are basically constant. SG, BKK, JKT, Tokyo, sometimes HKG. Easily 2-3 trips a month, each 2-4 days.

Flights and hotels are booked through the company's travel vendor portal so they get billed direct. Everything on the ground (taxis, client meals, supplier gifts) goes on my personal card and gets claimed back. Standard hybrid setup for MNCs here.

Thing I've noticed over time is that every trip I come back from, the MYR reimbursement is a bit less than what my personal card got charged. Ignored it the first year because the amounts felt small. Then I started tracking it in a spreadsheet just to see if I was imagining things. Turns out it's consistently 1-2% short, sometimes closer to 3% on JPY or IDR trips.

Just to make it concrete. Trip to Jakarta a few months back. Hotel came out to around IDR 4.5 million over 3 nights, taxi and meals and a couple of client dinners maybe another IDR 5 million on top. My CIMB card statement showed the MYR equivalent as about RM 2,180 (Mastercard daily rate plus the 1% conversion CIMB adds). I submitted the claim in IDR because that's what the receipts show. Finance reimbursed RM 2,135. Gap of RM 45.

Part of that gap is my card's FX spread which I'd eat under any policy. But a chunk is the company itself. Our expense system only accepts receipts in original currency and converts to MYR using a monthly locked treasury rate published on the 1st. Card statement can be attached as proof but the reimbursable figure is calculated off the IDR receipt, not off what my card was charged. So the drift between the 1st-of-month rate and the actual transaction rate, plus whatever conservatism sits in the treasury table, falls on me.

I raised it with finance once. They said the locked rate averages out over time. Doesn't quite. When MYR weakens between the 1st and the transaction date my card gets charged more MYR for the same receipt, but reimbursement stays anchored to the older rate, so I'm short. When MYR moves the other way the gap narrows, and a few times I've come out ahead by a few ringgit, but not enough to offset the losing months. The treasury table itself also has some conservatism baked in, so even flat-FX months I'm 0.5-1% down.

A few colleagues ran the same numbers and got the same result. When we raised it as a group last year HR said changing the policy would need a global treasury discussion. Which means never.

The weirder part is our SG office doesn't have this issue as badly. Their finance apparently reconciles the FX drift monthly and true-ups people if it exceeds a threshold. Same company, same treasury team, somehow that practice hasn't crossed over to KL. When I asked why we can't do the same here I got "different local policy" which isn't really an answer. Actually a friend at a European MNC in KL told me his side moved off Concur to a regional tool called Helios last year. Because it pulls daily interbank rates at submission, the FX drift disappears. He did say the rollout took most of a year, and their year-end consolidation still needs manual treasury reconciliation back to group HQ. Solvable problem, ours just doesn't want to touch it.

My workaround now is to route everything through vendor invoicing where possible, and stay out of the FX chain. Ground expenses still have to go on the personal card so I just accept losing 1.5%. Almost 4 years in and it's one of those things you stop noticing until you open the spreadsheet.

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u/lifsbosu — 1 month ago

Just back from Osaka. Heads up on the heat if you're going in July/August

Back from Osaka yesterday. Was there Sunday 6/28 through Friday 7/3. Not planning to write up a full trip report, just want to flag the heat while it's fresh because it wrecked most of what I had planned.

I had a plan. I love a plan. Day two was supposed to be Osaka Castle at 10, walk down to Namba for lunch, Dotonbori in the afternoon, then up to Umeda for the Sky Building at sunset. Maybe 4km spread across the whole day. Doable.

What actually happened. I got to Osakajokoen station around 10:30, started walking toward the castle, and I was drenched before I'd even hit the inner moat. Not sweaty. Soaked. It was 31 or so with humidity in the low 80s, and there's basically no shade between the station and the keep once you're past the outer moat. Made it up, took my photos, sat inside the museum for a while just to cool off, and by the time I came back out it was noon and I was done. Whatever I had for the afternoon wasn't happening.

Ended up hiding in the Umeda underground for about three hours. Which sounds miserable until you've actually been down there. Whity Umeda alone runs on for what feels like forever, all air-conditioned. Got a proper sit-down lunch, wandered around, had a coffee, came out the other side feeling like a person again.

By day three I gave up on the original schedule. Outdoor stuff from 7 to about 10:30, indoors from 11 through 4 or 5, back outside in the evening. Sumiyoshi Taisha at 8am was fine, empty and there was still a bit of a breeze. Same shrine at 2pm would've killed me.

The rain doesn't cool anything off. It's warm rain, so you just get wet on top of being hot.

The Umeda underground is bigger than any mall you have at home. Treat it as a real half day, not a shortcut between stations.

Kaiyukan is worth saving for your worst weather day, not your best.

The museum inside Osaka Castle isn't really the point, but the AC on the upper floors saved me on day two.

Evening walk through Nakanoshima is a completely different city from midday. Worth doing once even if you're wiped.

Skipped Nara because Todaiji is basically all outdoor walking and I'd already burned myself on the castle day.

u/lifsbosu — 1 month ago

Field notes from a portable Tier III DMR install at 4,200 m

I do field integration work for a third-party PMR systems integrator on Hytera's installer network in our region. Industrial sites and network operators mostly. Class A amateur on the side, BG-prefix, HF DX when bands cooperate and some local DMR via hotspot at home. Work sent me out to a 4,200m site in western China last week to install an evaluation unit of one of their portable Tier III base stations, and a few technical points overlapped with repeater work enough that I figured I'd write them up.

Conditions were typical for spring shoulder season at altitude. Ambient about -10 at night to +12 during the day, brutal UV, the kind of road in where you don't want fragile cargo. Six hours from the nearest town. The unit is rated for the environment, the install crew is rated for less.

Build was 2 carriers on licensed commercial UHF channels, duty cycle estimated 25 to 35 percent for the day-shift traffic profile. The Hytera unit itself measured 290 to 310 W continuous at that load. That number does not include the microwave backhaul radio, which we ran off the same DC bus, pulling another 35 W. Backhaul was about 18 km to the nearest fixed site we could line-of-sight to. Power source was a 24V LiFePO4 bank charged off a solar array the customer sized against their own climatology model. Their design showed roughly 30 percent margin against worst-case overcast, but we did not validate multi-day overcast autonomy during this install visit. Truck offload to first valid PTT ran a bit under two hours, including bringing up power, aiming the backhaul, getting the site onto the customer's existing Tier III network.

Reduced air density at altitude should make natural convection less effective on passive heatsinks, though I didn't have an equivalent sea-level unit running the same load for A/B comparison. The unit ships with a thicker than usual fin pack and the SDR firmware will throttle carrier count if internal temps climb past a threshold I haven't pushed it to. Internal case sensor peaked at 48C on the warmest afternoon of the install week, well inside the operating window.

Altitude derating was a design constraint on the antenna stack. We specced antenna-side connectors more conservatively than we would at sea level and ran a half-wave omni on a short, properly tensioned coax to keep the RF path mechanically and electrically simple. No observed issues but storm season has not started.

Coax thermal cycling on the daily -10 to +12 range is on my list to monitor long-term. SWR at the radio-side connector measured 1.3 in the morning and 1.5 by mid-afternoon on the warmest install day. Could be cable, could be antenna base hardware expanding differentially against the mast, could be a connector loosening fractionally across the temp swing. Putting a remote SWR readout on the next site visit and logging it across a full diurnal cycle before drawing conclusions.

The unit's antenna port surge protection is rated at 20 kA on the 8/20 μs waveform, which covers induced and secondary surge events. That is not the same as direct-strike survival, which depends on overall site grounding, equipotential bonding, feedline arrestors, and DC-side protection we layered around the unit. Whether the whole stack holds up through the kind of strike activity a fully exposed alpine site sees in summer is the open question.

Open items I won't have answers on until later in the year:

Summer thermal derating under higher continuous duty and stronger solar gain on the case

First real lightning event and whether the layered surge protection holds up through nearby strikes and induced surge events, not just the lab-spec 8/20 rating

UV and temperature cycle aging on antenna feed, connector torque retention, case gasket integrity

Solar margin under actual monsoon shoulder cloud coverage versus what the design assumed

If anyone here has run alpine repeater sites at comparable exposure, I'd be interested in notes on connector torque maintenance intervals, surge protection real-world performance versus rated specs, or solar margin sizing under monsoon shoulder cloud coverage. First site this exposed I've personally been on, and a lot of the planning was based on customer climatology rather than direct experience.

u/lifsbosu — 2 months ago
▲ 255 r/PCOS

The boring levers that finally moved my insulin resistance numbers this year

I was diagnosed with PCOS at 24 and I'm 31 now, so seven years of trying things, dropping things, and trying to figure out what was actually helping versus what I was just hoping was helping.

My endo offered metformin twice and I declined both times. Not because I'm anti-medication, I just wanted to see how far I could get with other levers first. My HOMA-IR last summer was 3.8 which is firmly insulin resistant territory, fasting glucose was 102, and my cycles were anywhere from 38 to 70 days apart.

This year I finally got serious about it.

The biggest behavioral change was fiber. I went from maybe 15g a day to 35 to 40g consistently, which sounds small but was genuinely the hardest part. I started tracking it the way I used to track protein.

Walking after meals turned out to be the highest-leverage thing. Twenty minutes whenever it was feasible, not exercise really, just movement. My fasting glucose dropped about 8 points within six weeks of doing this consistently, which I didn't expect.

I also dialed in supplements. Tried Thorne berberine first and the GI side effects were rough at doses where I could actually feel a difference. Switched to a probiotic that uses dihydroberberine paired with a B420 strain. Also taking inositol separately because the combo products didn't have the dose I wanted.

Latest labs: HOMA-IR is 1.9, fasting glucose 89, hs-CRP dropped from 4.1 to 1.8. Cycles have been 31 to 34 days for the last four months which is the most regular they've ever been. Energy is also way more stable than it used to be, which I think matters even though there's no number to show for it.

I'm posting this because I lurked here for years when I was first diagnosed and reading update posts kept me going. Insulin resistance is genuinely movable for a lot of us. The levers are boring and they take consistency but they work.

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u/lifsbosu — 2 months ago

noticed i hadn't refilled my omeprazole in 9 weeks

Was cleaning out the bathroom cabinet last weekend and found my prescription bottle tucked behind the floss. Hadn't touched it. Had to count back to figure out when I last took one.

Background: chronic gastritis diagnosis spring 2024 after a post-viral GI thing that never fully resolved. H. pylori negative twice. Endoscopy showed mild non-erosive inflammation, nothing dramatic. Started on pantoprazole, switched to omeprazole 20mg because I kept waking up at 2am feeling like my chest was on fire. Tried tapering off three separate times over the past year and a half. Every time I'd be back on it within 10 days. Rebound is real.

What I'd been doing on my own: training consistently again, dropped about 4kg over the spring, no alcohol on weekdays, last meal before 8pm. Standard stuff every GI doc tells you. None of it had been enough on its own.

I'm not going to pretend I know which of these finally shifted things. Weight loss probably matters. The earlier dinner cutoff probably matters. Gastritis maybe just takes time to settle and I happened to hit the back end of that curve. Acid suppression maybe bought the lining time to heal. No idea.

But I haven't woken up with reflux in over two months. The bottle in my cabinet is still mostly full. And for the first time since this whole thing started I'm not scared of fully coming off the PPI.

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u/lifsbosu — 2 months ago

3 months in with a Comfee Gusto 1HP aircond, would I buy it again

KL based. Bought a Comfee Gusto 1HP in early March for the master bedroom of a condo I just moved into. Previous tenant had taken their unit with them so the room came with nothing but the wiring and a bracket.

Going in I was bouncing between the Daikin FTKE 1HP and this Comfee Gusto. Daikin promo had ended by the time I got around to ordering and the normal price was a noticeable jump above the Comfee. Comfee Gusto was around RM1,099 on Lazada, 4-star CSPF, Lazada reviews were mostly clean. Took the chance.

Three months in, mostly positive.

Cooling is fine. Room is about 110 sqft, standard condo ceiling. Pulls it down to 24C from whatever ambient is in 15-20 mins with the door shut. Sleep mode at low fan is quiet enough that I sleep through it. My old place had a non-inverter unit that used to thump on each cycle and this one doesn't, so the bar was already pretty low, but it's a clean upgrade.

TNB bill bumped roughly RM50 a month running it about 7 hours overnight, which is in the range the CSPF math would predict for 1HP at 4-star, so no surprises there.

Only real nitpick is the LED display on the indoor unit. The brightness on it doesn't really dim with the sleep button and there's a soft glow on the panel that I can see through closed eyes if the room is fully dark. Ended up sticking a small piece of black electrical tape over it. Minor but should not have been a first-week task.

Remote feels a bit plasticky, which I have seen mentioned in Lazada reviews too, but it works.

So would I buy again, Probably yes at this price. Nothing to actually test on the service side yet.

Still wondering whether 4-star is going to feel cheap on the TNB bill once I'm running this 10-12 hours through the haze season, or if 3 months of moderate use just hasn't loaded it up properly yet.

u/lifsbosu — 3 months ago

lost the weight, kept the stomach, kind of stuck

i don't know if this is a question or just me venting at the void but here goes.

been pretty serious about this for like a year and a half. lifting, walking a lot, sleeping decent, eating mostly like an adult. dropped a meaningful amount of weight by now, my arms look different, legs feel different, face actually changed. my last bloodwork was honestly the most boring it's ever been, which i'll take as a win.

the stomach didn't get the message.

specifically the part right around and under the belly button. the rest of me clearly responded to all the effort. that part is just sitting there. body scan back in march said the deep abdominal stuff hadn't really moved from where it was when i started, even though i'd lost a chunk of weight by then. waist tape is barely different, hips came down way more.

what bothers me isn't the aesthetics, it's that this is supposed to be the easy fat. every podcast, every article, every doctor: "the belly fat will go first because it's the most metabolically active." cool. mine apparently isn't subscribed.

i think i've kind of maxed out what diet and training are going to do for this particular thing. the things i haven't really touched are the gut side and maybe stress/cortisol. cortisol i can't tell if it's a real lever or wellness astrology at this point. gut i actually don't know enough about.

been reading some stuff on whether what's living in your gut affects where your body actually parks fat, separate from how much you eat or how much you move. sounds plausible and also exactly like the kind of thing that turns out to be 30% real and 70% supplement marketing once you actually look at the studies.

probably going to try something in that direction for a few months and see if anything moves on the next scan. open to hearing from anyone who's actually been on the other side of this where the last stubborn part finally shifted, or whether i should just make peace with this being where my body wants to live.

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u/lifsbosu — 3 months ago

1HP aircond for small bedroom, which brand worth it

Moving into a small unit next week. Bedroom is around 110 sqft, west facing so afternoon turns the place into an oven. Already settled on 1HP, not asking about sizing.

What I'm stuck on is brand tier. Walked into Senheng yesterday and the guy quoted Daikin FTKE 1HP at RM1,155 promo with install, which honestly is not as bad as I expected for Daikin. Same evening my flatmate sent me a Lazada link for a Comfee Gusto 1HP at RM1,099, also 4-star CSPF, sits under the Midea group from what I dug up. She has had one running in her old studio for about a year and says it just works, no drama.

What's pulling me back is the cousin factor. He went Haier three years ago because it was the cheapest 1HP on Shopee, compressor died after the second hot season, service guy ghosted him after one visit. So now I have this paranoia about anything outside the safe tier-1 brands, even when the math says just go.

The question I cannot find a straight answer to is whether a Daikin entry FTKE running mostly overnight is meaningfully more reliable than a Comfee Gusto over a 4-5 year window, or if at the 1HP entry tier the price gap is mostly brand premium. If anyone here has actually downsized from a tier-1 to Comfee or Midea and regretted it, that's the data point I am missing.

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u/lifsbosu — 3 months ago

Do you actually track every transaction inside your fun money envelope?

About 7 months into Actual now and the one category I still can't figure out a clean system for is personal fun money. Everything else has rules, groceries get tracked per trip, bills are scheduled, savings goals are set. But the $150 I give myself each month for random stuff (coffee, impulse buys, random apps) just turns into this messy pile of $4 and $7 transactions I never bother categorizing properly.

I tried being disciplined about it for a month and it made me hate opening the app. Felt like I was auditing myself for buying a latte. So now I basically just fund the envelope and check the balance before spending, but my transaction list is chaos and reconcile week is painful because none of the amounts match cleanly.

The one thing that accidentally helped was loading my Starbucks and DoorDash spending onto gift cards through Snaplii at the start of the month. Two transactions instead of like fifteen, and whatever cashback I get just stays in the app as credit toward next month. Not a budgeting tool obviously but it collapsed a bunch of noise out of that envelope. Only annoying thing is some retailers have a $25 minimum load which is more than I'd want to commit for certain stores.

Still trying to figure out whether it's better to just let fun money be a black box or force myself to track it properly. The perfectionist in me hates the mess but the realistic version of me knows I'll quit if it's too granular.

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u/lifsbosu — 3 months ago

Trettitre TreSound Mini after 7 months — honest take from someone who came off a Marshall Stanmore III

Writing this because when I was deciding between these two seven months ago there was basically nothing on Reddit comparing them, and I went back and forth for weeks before pulling the trigger. So for anyone in the same spot.

Background. Had a Stanmore III for about a year before this. Wasn't terrible but I had three things bugging me. Sound got muddy at low volume which is most of how I use a speaker (apartment, evenings). Cabinet feels plasticky for $400. App is whatever, EQ presets all sound the same to me. I started looking around and the TreSound Mini kept coming up in the design-forward home speaker conversation, three-way driver setup at $299 which is unusual for the price.

Pulled the trigger on the wood version. Seven months in, here's the honest read.

What's actually better than the Stanmore. Low volume performance is the big one, and I think it's the three-way thing doing real work, smaller drivers at the top mean the bass driver isn't being asked to do mid duty at quiet volumes. Vocals stay present at 20-25% in a way they didn't on the Marshall. Build quality is a real step up, the cabinet feels like an object not a product. 360 dispersion means I stopped caring about where I pointed it, which sounds minor but it's how I actually use it day to day.

What's not better, or is worse. The name is a pain. I've stopped trying to pronounce it to people, I just say "the cone speaker." No app at all, which I thought I'd miss and don't, but if you want EQ control this isn't that. Smaller than the Stanmore by a decent margin, so if physical presence on the shelf matters this might feel like a step down visually. And the bass doesn't hit as hard at high volume, the Stanmore wins on party-mode loudness if that's a thing you do.

For context on what else I looked at. Sonos Era 100 I auditioned at a friend's place, felt small for the price and the ecosystem doesn't matter to me. KEF LSX II is technically the better option for sound but it's a stereo pair so you need two spots and the total runs closer to $1200. Audio Pro C10 MkII was a contender, warmer sound, more wifi-focused, ended up not pulling the trigger on it just because I didn't want another app in my life.

Mostly trying to be useful to the next person doing this comparison, since I couldn't find a real one when I was looking.

u/lifsbosu — 3 months ago

Used the same card for 4 years and one move broke the whole setup

Used the same debit card for almost 4 years. Worked across two countries in southeast Asia, was the closest thing I had to a constant.

Moved to Portugal two weeks ago. Suddenly there's a 1.5% FX fee on everything I buy. Monthly fee kicked in too because I don't qualify for the free tier anymore without a local salary feeding the account, and the ATM cap is half of what it was.

The local bank route isn't quick either. The non-resident process wants paperwork I don't have collected yet, so in the meantime I'm bleeding money on coffee and groceries.

Went through a version of this last time I moved too. The setup tax of relocating is starting to feel heavier than the move itself.

How do you all handle the card layer when you actually live across countries long term? Not interested in the private banking version. Just the boring problem of wanting one card that doesn't quietly get worse every time my address changes.

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u/lifsbosu — 3 months ago

My AGMs are about three years past their honest life and I'm finally committing to the LFP refit this winter while we're at the dock. House bank, 12V, 35ft sloop, full-time aboard since last spring. Average draw, fridge is the big one, plus instruments, lights, water pump. Solar carries us most days at anchor, genny tops up maybe twice a week when it's overcast.

Where I'm getting stuck is on cell sizing. Went into this assuming I'd go big and simple, two strings of 280Ah or 304Ah cells, call it done. Then I started digging through old threads on the cruising forums and saw a Sinopoly rep telling someone never to put cells larger than 200Ah on a small boat. The reasoning was that 100Ah was preferred, 200Ah was the upper bound he'd accept, and anything bigger wasn't structurally designed for offshore vibration and shock. Whether that's a real engineering concern or product positioning, I honestly can't tell.

The DIY solar crowd defaults to 280Ah or 304Ah without thinking twice, but most of those installs are in stationary cabins or RVs that don't get slammed into a square wave at 2am. Smaller cells (100-200Ah) means more cells, more interconnects, more parallel strings, more electrical complexity, and arguably more failure points. Bigger cells means simpler topology but if one cell decides to swell or go thermal on a boat, you can't exactly walk down the street while it sorts itself out.

Compression case is going in either way, that part's settled. BMS will have low-temp cutoff and shunt monitoring. Boat stays in the water year-round but it's temperate, no freezing storage.

Mostly just trying to figure out if the cell size thing is actually a marine-specific concern that matters in practice, or something the forums have inflated past its real-world importance. Still chewing on whether to commit to the bigger cells or split into smaller ones.

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u/lifsbosu — 4 months ago

Between morning huddles, QI reviews, and compliance check-ins I'm documenting like 6 meetings a week. Writing up action items after each one eats 30 minutes minimum and half the team doesn't even read them. Started recording my non-clinical admin meetings instead and letting a transcription tool pull out the notes. Saved me hours. Just keep it away from anything patient-facing obviously.

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u/lifsbosu — 4 months ago