u/liligram

My LO has a left frontal lobe tumour and they have become very demanding and rigid. They are upset if we don’t do exactly what they want to do at specific times. It’s interfering with the peace and wellbeing of everyone around them. I know it’s because of the tumour but it’s so hard and wondering if anyone has advice? We want to make the most of our time with them but we also can’t keep bending over backwards and if we say “no” they get angrier and more irritable. We are patient, speak calmly, try distraction. What else to do?