u/lonelyYetStrange

I'm a 23M verse in Riyadh, looking for someone who is also a verse (welling to top and bottom). This is a deal breaker. If you are not a verse or willing to try, don't contact me.

The closest label that fits me is bear, 1.8m chubby kinda hairy fair skinned. I like people who are on the thinner side but not too thin, not super fem nor super masc (not sure how to describe it) like smack dab in the middle of the spectrum, bonus points if fair skinned.

Lastly, I'm not looking for a hookup or expecting nudes or anything of that sort, I want to establish a connection before anything, dates, chilling together before going any further, or just staying as friends really. Basically I want love before sex.

Hello, I'm Sonder (fake name) 23M from Riyadh, Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦, I'm a closeted saudi gay introvertish and would love to befriend other people like me.

Accepting myself has always been a struggle, I wanted to not feel alone all my life, but I was scared (still am!) from seeking friendship from people like me (let alone intimacy) considering where I am now. I always feel like I'm betraying my parents' love and affection and that all the years, sweat, and tears they put towards me will be considered for naught if they knew...

Look at me trauma dumping on a friendship post, lol. I just never said anything like this out loud before... please forgive me.

Back to the topic at hand...

I'm a native Arabic speaker with a decent hold on English, and would love to learn a third language one day...

I have many interests ranging from video games (especially RPGs, I love BG3, DOS2, and E33), indie games (e.g., omori, hades), anime (currently watching Nakamura, and man, where was that when I was at high school, wholesome representation like that is rare in anime), cartoons (owl house, SU, and anything animated really) technology (all stuff software engineering), and even parrots (Beaker, ham, yumyum, if ykyk).

DMs are always open if you want to talk about anything, doesn't have to be the everlasting struggle of being different. All genders and all orientations are welcome, especially gay men in a situation similar to mine.