An uzbek looking for a lavender marriage in Uzbekistan.
Hi there, I'm looking (iʼm a girl) for a gay man (or a man who knows he is not attracted to women) who is interested in a lavender marriage or engagement.
Please do not message me if you are a straight man.
About me:
I'll turn 22 this year.
I'm open-minded, tolerant, active, and I already live independently from my parents and support myself financially.
I'm planning to apply for a master's degree in Europe in about two years.
I've tried dating men several times, but I've realized that I don't develop romantic feelings toward them. At the same time, my family is putting intense pressure on me to get married before I start my master's program, without knowing that I'm not attracted to men. My mother calls me almost every day, crying and trying to persuade me. I know that 22 is still young for marriage, but I need about three years to gain more time, freedom, and independence to build the life I want.
Because of that, I'm looking for someone in a similar situation—someone who may also be dealing with family or social pressure, or someone who simply wants a mutually respectful lavender marriage or engagement.
What I'm looking for:
A gay man (or a man who knows he is not attracted to women).
Non-religious, or at least respectful of different beliefs.
Open-minded, tolerant, easy-going, and emotionally mature.
Someone who has their own life, hobbies, interests, and preferably already lives independently.
Someone who is looking for genuine friendship, mutual support, and a clear agreement rather than a traditional romantic marriage.
This would be an arrangement based on honesty, trust, and mutual benefit, not deception toward each other. The goal is to help each other navigate family pressure, support one another as close friends, and continue building our own lives.
One important boundary: I do not want children in this arrangement, and I want to avoid pregnancy entirely. Abortion is not something I ever want to go through, so this is non-negotiable.
If this sounds like your situation, feel free to reach out. Please introduce yourself instead of sending just "Hi."