First time advice
Ive been dealing with bullying and harassment for a long time because of my appearance which has made things even harder
About 5 years ago I realized I’m attracted to boys (especially footballers)
Later I also discovered that dih pics sometimes turn me on 🙃
I tried to hide it and deny it for a long time but I couldn’t anymore
No one in my real life knows I’m attracted to men so I created this account just to ask this question because I have nobody else to talk to
I’ve tried using tinder and grindr with fake accounts to lose my virginity but I’m really struggling
There’s a lot of dirty talk and explicit pics that I don’t enjoy
and honestly I’m scared of most of the people I come across ,I’ve never met anyone who seems cool, respectful, or has a good mentality.
So
What should I avoid?
What do I need to know before trying?
How can I better protect my identity and stay safe?
How should I prepare mentally and practically?
I know this is a lot of questions but I feel really lost and anxious