So tired of dating expectations
I’m 5’0 and have dated guys of varying heights but mostly shorter guys(5’3-5’9). My choices have been based on factors like personality, ambition, humor etc… height genuinely wasn’t a consideration.
I’m getting frustrated because my taller (5’6+) friends make rude comments about any couples with height differences and call the relationships inappropriate. They’re constantly implying that no one should be attracted to shorter women. If they set me up with someone I can guarantee that the guy will be short, it’s like they don’t consider personality or interests or anything beyond my height in that arena. I’m tired of being treated like this and having the expectation placed on me to be open to any short guys that are around, it’s bizarre.
How would you guys deal with a situation like this?
I would prefer not to feel so uncomfortable that I lose my entire circle of friends due to the actions of a few girls.