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It's one of those things in the Polish language that surprises me. I can feel what is right and wrong, but I can't explain why.

If I say „Ja tu jestem” (I'm here), we use the verb być, but when we make it negative, it becomes „Mnie tu nie ma” (I'm not here). So, is the verb mieć used instead of być?

It works for all grammatical persons:

• Ja tu jestem — Mnie tu nie ma
• Ty tu jesteś — Ciebie tu nie ma
• On tu jest — Jego tu nie ma
• My tu jesteśmy — Nas tu nie ma
• Wy tu jesteście — Was tu nie ma
• Oni tu są — Ich tu nie ma

When I think about it for a while, it gets even weirder. Who is the subject in each of the negative sentences? It's always „nie ma”. Is there some invisible person or force that can have us when we're present? It's a bit scary, to be honest. 🤯

Does anyone know the origin of this phenomenon and can explain it?

We use plan mode, project rules, skills, hooks, and automated checks. We still want humans to own architectural decisions and review the code.

The problem is the feedback loop: frequent checkpoints turn the workflow into an approval queue, but longer autonomous runs can produce large diffs based on assumptions we would have corrected early.

How do you handle this in practice?

• Where do you place human checkpoints?
• How do you scope tasks to catch drift early?
• What do you automate, and what always requires human review?

I’d love to hear concrete workflows that work on real, maintained codebases.