
Virginia's reaction to...
...murder. I'm scared of this woman 😅

...murder. I'm scared of this woman 😅
Jan & Michael (The Office) – the series shows that Jen uses emotional abuse against Michael, forces him into unwanted sexual acts, destroys his personal belongings, and so on. Even though the show is a comedy, it takes the acts of violence themselves seriously. When in S3 E21 ("Women's Appreciation") Michael tells colleagues about what Jan is doing, they are confused and horrified and support Michael. In S4 E10 ("Dinner Party") the topic of abuse by Jen is explored in more detail and the show shows how abnormal and horrific it is, it is shown that the police also take it seriously.
Dolores & Teddy (Westworld) – Dolores controls their relationships and in >!S2 E6 she forcibly modifies Teddy's code to make him "stronger" with her in the New World. The show portrays this as a horrific act, after which Teddy kills himself.!<
Ed & Laura (Men Don't Tell) – the TV movie shows how a wife physically abuses her husband for years: throwing things at him and beating him and their child. Even though the characters in the movie don't always take it as it should, the movie takes it quite seriously and shows how wrong it is to take cases of domestic violence against men lightly.
Diana & Andy (SVU: S22 E15 "What Can Happen In The Dark") – the team investigates a case of domestic violence by a wife against her husband, the team supports the victim (though not without the idiot of the week), and the show as a whole quite directly states that domestic violence against men should be perceived as seriously as violence against women.
Books with fairy tales of the peoples of the USSR were widespread, as they represented an acceptable form of ethnic representation. These are illustrations from the book "Mountain of Gems" ("Гора самоцветов"). The very structure of the book indicates how ethnic diversity was perceived in the USSR. The fairy tales in the book follow a geographical order - mainly from west to east and are grouped according to the principle of unity of regions (such as Caucasus, Volga-Ural, Arctic) and the so-called "economic cultural types", into which ethnic groups were united.
Although these illustrations from the book are not an accurate depiction of the peoples and their culture (there are obvious inaccuracies here), they are all interesting for understanding how the ethnic division of indigenous peoples, race and culture was understood in the USSR. Preventing misunderstandings: Why is it interesting how people in Moscow understood these ethnic groups? Because these views influence the lives of the indigenous peoples of this territory even today.
Here I have placed the images in the order in which they were in the book, so from here you can draw some conclusions about how the peoples were grouped.
So, illustrations:
1 – Karelian fairytale
2 – Circassian
3 – Ossetian
4 – Abkhazian
5 – Erzyan/Mokshan
6 – Mari
7 – Chuvash
8 – Bashkir
9, 10 – Altaian
11 – Komi
12, 13 – Nenets
14 – Evenkian
15 – Sámi
16 – Sakha
17 – Buryat
18 – Nanai
19 – Chukchi
Edit: Image quality 🙈 I swear they were better before uploading
I'm probably exaggerating, but I hate cultural appropriation like this, especially since it's so common. Here's an example. Here, in the image, famous metal handcrafts of the ancestors of the Komi people are used to characterize the region (Perm region). They are shown as some kind of common heritage for all the people of the region, as something that belongs to everyone from this region, but not specifically to the indigenous Komi-Permyak people. The Komi are completely left out of the discourse here, they don't talk about them. Also, it's interesting that they decided to show a salt factory here as part of the heritage, and this is something... weird... considering that the reason why there are so few Komi-Permyaks today and their situation is worse than that of the Komi-Zyryans is their exploitation in salt factories
“Son, we mustn’t be ashamed of the fact that we are Murlots,” I remembered this paternal admonition from childhood. Our family lived in a private wooden house. A quiet, provincial street was outwardly not much different from a village one. Stone quarters adorned only the city center, where the authorities lived. I learned one unspoken rule from my elders: inside our house we spoke Murlot, but on the street we switched to the common language: we were embarrassed.
My father drank. Rarely a week passed without my father, unconscious, completely drunk on cheap wine, being carried in the arms of his work friends. One day, in early spring, the drinking buddies did not complete their route. Father was found frozen in a ravine behind the vegetable gardens. “They can’t even die like human beings,” a neighbor said at the funeral. I felt that this was true not only of my father.
In elementary school, I got the nickname “Psycho.” This offensive nickname came about because of a fight. And actually, there wasn’t any fight at all. The guys just gathered me into a circle and started loudly chanting: “Murr-lot! Murr-lot! Mur-lot!" - they were having a great time and pointing their fingers at me. I found a pair of compasses with a sharp stem in my pocket. I pulled out a pike and rushed at the offenders. "Psycho!!!" - the boys yelled and ran away.
In the eighth grade, during the Russian literature exam, I hopelessly flopped. "Are you a murlot?” - asked the teacher.
"Yes..." - I barely exhaled. She looked at me in a special way for a long time, also sighed heavily and, without further questioning, wrote down the grade "good" on the exam report."
Sorry if this is not quite suitable for discussion, but I wanted to share. In this text, the author used the name of a non-existent people (Murlot) to show a similar experience of various indigenous groups in Russia, primarily the Udmurts. This was very important to me, because it is rare to see such text about our experience, and even if people write about it, they usually write it in their own language so that it remains in their space (because according to many Russians, if you talk about xenophobia, you hate (ethnic) Russians and you should be sent to prison). I also saw in this sub Udmurts and other people from the post-Soviet space, I think you will find it interesting.
Also, at the end of the story, the main character starts to hate himself and his people. It reminded me of the plot of the movie "Sámi Blood" and how often I could see this in reality. And for me, this is one of the worst things: when a person starts to hate their own people. In the film "Sámi blood," it was very painful to watch a Sámi girl say hateful things to her own family when she turned to them after being in a Swedish city.
Things that people who see themselves as educated and open-minded will say:
- why you use metods such "literaly anthropology for -ethnic- literature?
- *points you out to others* "you see, now all [indigenous peoples] are educated, they can study themselves"
- "well, you know, they didn't take over the land, they just could put up a house and a farmstead on the nomadic routes"
- "backward people"
- "_ khan is not your relative?" ("genius" joke about your surname)
- *it seems like they never specifically uses the self-name of the people, when you only use it, and only uses an name, which can be offensive*
- "are these [indigenous] names a real names???"
- "is this a cultural organization of the [group of indigenous people]? don't you think that this would have something to do with ethnic crime gangs?"
- *explains that this identity does not exist directly in front of the real indigenous person who uses such an identity*
- "do these people still exist?" ("people" ≈300,000+ people)
- "do you even have your own language?"
- *mispronounces the name of an indigenous girl several times, even after she corrects; only begins to correctly pronounce the girl's name after the Slavic [non-indigenous] girl corrects*... etc, etc...
These are small things, of course, but it makes the space so unpleasant... Do you feel like the academic space in your region is like this or is it better or worse?
(All this was said about various indigenous groups of the post-soviet space, for the sake of privacy I will not write about which ones specifically)
I want to talk about a problem faced by AO3 readers and writers who use indigenous or minority languages on the site.
I have seen more than once how works that are marked as works in some minority or indigenous language are not in that language at all. Most often it is just a work in English (or another major language) or just some kind of joke work with incomprehensible content.
Please don't do this, it's very disrespectful to readers and authors who use these languages, these languages are just like the bigger languages, these languages are no joke for speakers of the bigger languages.
In addition, it just creates problems for users from among speakers of minority and indigenous languages. You search and see that in your language, which used to have 7 fanfics, now there are 8, you are happy, but you open this work and - of course - it's just another work in a completely different language, which the author somehow marked as a work in your language. Or you search for fanfics in some indigenous language, open the page and now instead of just reading them, you have to filter out 50% of nonsense that is completely unrelated to the text in that language.
Cognitive decline is the most terrifying symptom for me. Here's an example. Writing fiction has always been my passion. I find it harder to come up with new ideas now, they just don't come naturally like they used to. Choosing words is now incredibly difficult. And it's hard to keep what I've come up with in my head. Two pieces of dialogue for a story came to my mind today, it was good and I was planning to write it down, but I think I forgot at least half of it while I was getting to my phone and my notes app. It was so painful.
I understand that for those with a more severe form of the disease, this may be a completely minor thing, but for me, the fact that I can no longer think the way I used to is scary, as if I am no longer myself.
Are cognitive symptoms as bothersome to you as they are to me, or is something else more important to you? It just seems like I've seen more discussion of physical symptoms and I'm wondering if there are those who are more bothered by cognitive symptoms than physical ones.
"Chuvashkino" is a unique thing in the history of the culture of the indigenous peoples of the Volga region. This is a Chuvash film studio that made films about the Chuvash people from 1926 to 1932. After that, the policy changed, the authors were arrested, and the films are believed to have been destroyed in 1937. Today, in the United States, a private collection has a copy of at least one film, and there may be other copies.
The star of Chuvashkino was actress Tani Yun, who is in these frames (the first frame is very memorable for me)
Reagan Ripley and Brett Hand from "Inside Job" – they are best friends and close to each other (Reagan is even Brett's emergency contact), who the show doesn't push into a romantic relationship.
Holga Kilgore and Edgin Darvis from "Dungeons & Dragons: Honor Among Thieves" – they have a very strong and deep relationship, but they are amused and outraged when they are mistaken for a couple.
Elida and Isaac from "Vagrant Queen" – they have a very close, non-romantic relationship, with much of the series focusing on the problems in their relationship, which is great for showing the idea that friendships can be just as complicated as romantic relationships.
Maeve Millay and Lee Sizemore from "Westworld" – over the course of the show, they gradually develop a close relationship and come to appreciate each other greatly; however, their relationship does not take a romantic turn, and Maeve can even tell the difference between the real and the fake Lee because Lee has never been romantically obsessed with her.
I really like this trope for its representation of male-female friendship and the fact that not all close relationships between women and men have to be romantic. It's a great counterpoint to the common trope of writers throwing a male and female character into a relationship just because they're the available male and female characters.
Some time ago I made a post here about the clothing of the indigenous people of the Volga-Ural region and saw a misunderstanding of our context. I was very upset about this, although I understand that this is all almost unknown to anyone globally (although even here and on Indian Country there were posts about the indigenous people of this region). I was also upset because this is a global indigenous reddit and we all rely on understanding the different contexts of indigenous peoples in different regions.
I want to talk a little bit about our region and our context. This is a text about our region and the indigenous Finno-Ugric inhabitants (there are also Turkic inhabitants, but I don't know much about their context, so I won't say anything).
The Finno-Ugric indigenous people of the Volga-Ural region have lived here for thousands of years. We speak Uralic languages, which come from either Eastern Europe or North Asia. Our languages, together with our partial East Eurasian ancestry (the Volga-Ural peoples, like the Sami, have up to a third of Eastern European ancestry), are one of the reasons why later nineteenth-century "historians" and "scientists" said that we had no right to live in our homeland - since we do not speak Indo-European languages, we have no right to live in Europe and our cultures and languages should be destroyed. This is also very ironic, because for a very long time our region was not classified as Europe, it was part of "Tartaria" and Asia for people who lived further west.
For centuries, we practiced a complex economy that included hunting, fishing, gathering wild honey, and farming. Because of this, Europeans, people who lived further west, considered us "savages" - because we did not practice the monocultural arable farming that they did. The forest was very important for survival, so religion was also associated with the forest - people chose sacred forests, which still exist, in which they prayed and which were protected from human interference. The basis of religion was and partly remains animism - rivers, forests, houses, and other places had their own deities-patrons. People also believed (and some still believe) in several higher gods who are connected with the sky, air, and space. Another significant myth is the myth of the creation of the world by diving for land. This myth is very ancient, researchers believe that it is the myth that once existed among the ancestors of various Ural peoples and other peoples of North Asia and also America.
Life changed a lot when in the 16th century all the indigenous peoples of the region came under the rule of the Moscow kingdom. Over time, the resettlement of Russians to the region began. In addition to the confiscation of lands by monasteries and the Russian nobility, this brought such things as the cutting down of forests for gunpowder factories and the capture of people to work there, and forced Christianization, accompanied by torture and murder, especially during the Tseryushev uprising. I don't want to just list the various unpleasant things and prohibitions that existed in the Russian Tsardom and Empire, I just want to say that it was a very xenophobic place for the indigenous peoples of the Volga-Ural region, who had almost no opportunities to get an education, live outside of the village, have their own religion, and were also subjected to persecution (for example: the Multan Process) and racism because of their part Eastern Eurasian descent. And so, yes, the term "natives" ("туземцы") was used by Russians for the indigenous inhabitants of the Volga-Ural region.
Even people who helped (like Korolenko, a writer who helped the Udmurts in the Multan process) wrote that the Erzyans had "less dignity" than the Russians and saw them as people who were simply savages who attacked monasteries for nothing (as if the monasteries were not the ones who often illegally took the land of the indigenous people as seen from the lawsuits). Maxim Gorky, who supposedly supported the indigenous peoples of the region, often compared them with animals and wrote about their "ancient magic" and deep connection with nature in his works. Thus, Russian culture had its own long tradition of the "magical Finno-Ugric indigenous" trope, in which the Finno-Ugric people of the region were seen as more "primitive", "close to nature people" who possessed some ancient magic.
In the early Soviet period there was some policy improvement and the situation improved, but still to this day the indigenous people of the region face inequality and xenophobia (the names of indigenous peoples are used as insults, indigenous people are still perceived by many as stupid and their culture as "primitive") live in depressed areas, are less urbanized than others and have, on average, lower education. Also, the Finno-Ugric peoples of the Volga region are now forming a minority in their territories. Indigenous languages are endangered and the number of indigenous people is constantly decreasing.
I think from all this it is clear why today the Erzyans, Mokshans, Udmurts and Mari use the term "indigenous" relatively widely. This term is also used for these peoples by other indigenous groups in Russia (for example, groups of North Asia). This term is used in relation to these groups in literature, encyclopedias (including in English), other resources, as well as in some official contexts.
I just hope that indigenous people from different regions will have more understanding towards each other.
Photo: Mari traditional religion's prayer
...as well as indigenous peoples of nearby regions (photo 6)
1,2 – Erzya, 3 – Chăvash, 4 – Udmurt, 5 – Bashkort, 6 – Crimean Tatar
It could also be: names of settlements ending in -ley, "family x hasn't spoken to family y for 20 years because family y's garbage was brought to them by the wind", ancient bee hives on trees, one shop that isn't even in a real building, where there might be an old granny who only speaks in short phrases and avoids eye contact, etc.
I made a quick sketch of the Erzyan Earth Goddess. I was actually thinking about how shocked I was when I found out that we once had beautiful, full-flowing rivers (today they are all completely shallow because those who came to our land cut down almost all of our forest to make gunpowder). So much has been lost, not only in culture, but even in the way the land itself looked.