Not sure if I(29f) was catfished on fet?
I 29f met who I thought was another women 33f on fetlife.
She said her Dad was sick and had to go be with her Mom. Around that time I told her I was a little worried this was a catfish and wanted a videochat. She got mad and said her Dad died. She deleted the pic she sent me (face with eyes cropped out) and blocked me on fetlife.
(She didn't share a picture with a full face and I thought, wouldn't a catfish just take someone else's photo?)
I apologized and we continued talking for about a month. We talked multiple times a day including chatting and sexting. I asked for a photo and she sent me one of a woman wearing sunglasses. It was hard to tell if it was the same person or not. I look different in different photos so I didn't question it.
I started asking for a phone call and she got mad, saying that she was supporting her mom after her dad died and she had no personal space. She didn't want her mom to hear the phone call and she was stressed with life. I understand being in greif but we chatted multiple times a day about normal stuff so a call didn't feel like too much.
She asked if we could talk in 2 weeks when she gets home. I got upset and asked her to call me for just 10 seconds but she refused. I was worried this will just drag on so I told her don't contact me unless you are willing to call. I'm worried not giving her her space ruined my chances with her if she is real. I didn't want things to get dragged on forever, and I told her that. She told me to keep looking for my person because at this point her Mom might need to move in with her (it felt like she was setting up the back story for more excuses not to call or meet.)
Am I crazy that I still hope she is real and reaches out.