20F, BSc 2nd year, family talking about a potential match and I’m confused
thoda lamba hai pls padh lena
Main currently BSc 2nd year me hu (20F). Kal college se ghar aayi to mummy ne bola ki Tujhse ek zaruri baat karni hai. Sach bolu to meri fhat gayi kyuki saare kand yaad aa gaye, but jo unhone bola vo alag hi nikla.
Mummy boli ki mere liye ek rishta aaya hai Maine kaha Mere liye...Main abhi padh rahi hu.Fir mummy boli Ek baar ladka dekh to le, judge hai
Ngl thoda tempting laga sunke, but fir career yaad aa gaya. Ladka 24-25 ka hai, mujhe to handsome laga , aur unki side se koi demand bhi nahi hai. Mere caste me govt job wale ladko ke liye da*h*j aur paisa demand karna kaafi common hai, isliye ghar wale is rishtye ko perfect maan rahe hain.
Or to or me ovulate bhi kar ri hu to mujhe me hormone peak pe hai plus ladka cute soooooo Bas problem ye hai ki mujhe family thodi orthodox Rajasthani type lag rahi hai. Mujhe darr ye hai ki shaadi ke baad meri padhai aur career compromise na ho jaye. Main abhi financially independent bhi nahi hu.
Aur honestly confusion bhi ho raha hai. Ek taraf padhai aur future hai, dusri taraf family ka ye khena iss se acha kya milega tujhe aur itna acha rishta bolke sab convince kar rahe hain. Ab samajh nahi aa raha kya karu. Agar mana karna hai t9 kese karu
( perfect rista, career ) Or ye bhi batana ki or kis sub me post karu ??
PS: Bas thoda sa grammar aur flow theek karne ke liye ChatGPT ki help li hai