
$2.5M against $100K Salary
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the winner is known !!
We're still mostly working from home, and recently almost all the daily coordination has been happening on Slack. Most meetings are audio-only with someone sharing a deck or spreadsheet.
A not-very-popular project manager started insisting that everyone turn on their cameras "so we can communicate better."
A few days ago, he focused on me specifically, and I found myself in a perfect malicious compliance situation. I turned on the camera, and we all immediately understood why news anchors avoid busy patterns. I was wearing a rugby-style T-shirt with thin stripes. Every time I moved even slightly, a shiny, annoying pattern kept rippling across the video. It was the most distracting and irritating thing I'd ever seen on a work call. And they all spent six minutes making fun of me because of the shirt.
I spent the rest of the call gently rocking myself back and forth in the chair. And strangely, I'm looking forward to the next meeting with enthusiasm. I have a few more T-shirts that are supposed to cause the same problem.
edit : that imo is work violence so I decided to leave the work and for more non toxic work team because if the camera is unnecessary why you insist so I signed up in interviewman to enhance my performance in any upcoming interviews
People always ask whether a Performance Improvement Plan is a real chance to keep your job, and the honest answer is: most of the time, not really. After twelve years sitting in the meetings where these things are decided, I can say that the moment that paper is handed to you, the company has usually already made up its mind. In many cases, it's there to create a clean record if things get complicated later.
If the targets feel unrealistic, or your manager has suddenly gone from normal to distant and strange overnight, don't destroy yourself trying to "prove" something. You'll end up drained because the employer has already mentally moved past you. My advice is very simple: take a breath, do enough to show that you're following the plan, and put your real energy into finding a place that doesn't treat your value like a timer that's about to run out. No job is worth wrecking your nerves over just to win at a setup that wasn't fair from the start.
I'm no longer inside that corporate HR machine, so ask me the things you'd never feel safe asking your HR department.
edit : and I know leaving a job could be terrifying for some of us but believe me there is lots of opportunities especially remotely and now even AI can now make your interview process as piece of cake I just read here about that tool interviewman and its amazing to know there is such tools also interview assistant and meeting vip subs which recently visit gives a lot of tips to how to pass an interview wish you all good luck
After our first baby arrived, my husband and I did the math to see who would stay home or if daycare would be more suitable. It turned out that after all his work expenses like transportation and formal attire, his net salary would only be about $6,000 if our little son went to daycare. So, we decided it was smarter for him to leave his job and stay home to raise the kids for a few years. He packed his belongings from the office and wrote his resignation, ready to give them two weeks' notice. Early the next morning, he had a scheduled meeting with his manager. He walked into the meeting intending to submit his resignation, but before he could open his mouth, his manager informed him that they were letting him go. In the end, they gave him an 8-week severance package, and even covered our health insurance for a few extra months. He came home that day absolutely cracking up. He stayed home for about six years, and for the first year and a half, he was even able to collect unemployment benefits. When he re-entered the job market, he started with part-time work and then full-time, eventually ending up working for an owner who was looking to retire, and who later sold us the entire company. After taking over the business, my husband now earns about four times what he used to make at the place where they fired him. We still laugh about it to this day.
What's the fastest you've ever seen someone ruin it for themselves like that? My job is a very normal corporate job, nothing strange. But recently we hired someone who seemed determined to cause chaos from her very first day. She turned everything into a dramatic scene.
She would file formal complaints against her colleagues for 'making her feel incompetent' when they pointed out a mistake that needed fixing. I mean, the mistake was real and had to be corrected, but just because she got embarrassed, she became the victim. Then, with utter audacity, she took a presentation I had been working on for weeks, changed the colors, swapped a few slides, and went to our manager saying she had 'improved' it and deserved 60% of the credit. On top of that, she used to break down crying whenever she was asked a direct question about her work, claiming people were 'ganging up on her' but could never explain how. Look, I'm all for protecting employees, of course, but this wasn't bullying; she was simply someone who refused to take any responsibility.
The final nail in the coffin, from what I heard, was a company-wide conference a few weeks ago. Apparently, she cornered a VP from another department (who is married, by the way) and made a very inappropriate advance on him after the main event. The news spread like wildfire, of course, and she was fired last week for this gross misconduct.
So, has anyone here worked with someone who self-destructed like this? I need to hear it so I don't feel so alone.