u/postdumelon

Help me pick a college for my cousin

My cousin joined in Ernad Knowledge City for Btech CSE current sem and so far he's not a fan of the college. A lot of his friends study in MEA College Pmna and he wants to move there plus based on online research, MEA seems to have better placements. KEAM test is not an option atp and he doesn't wanna waste a year.

He wants to transfer to MEA but is worried they may not have seats left. Before transferring i'd like to get y'all opinion on either colleges and if you have any other suggestions for CSE preferably within malappuram. Welp.

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u/postdumelon — 4 days ago

Tips to be financially independent so I can leave safely

I F22, come from a very conservative family. They have different views on rights for girls and boys and safe to say I didn't get a lot. Few to point out, I needed a male chaperone to always go out anywhere at all and it can only be my brother or father. Any other male (including relatives, cousins, relations) I was not allowed to interact with or be around.

Cut to the chase, I need to get out because of a lot of factors I do not wish to disclose. I tried the right way and reason with them but they were very adamant about not letting me out of their sight till I'm married off.

I need tips to make money quietly so I can leave. For context Im an expat and I live in GCC and my visa is under my father and unless he signs I cannot get out of it. I have a student bank account and thats the only card I own. My parents have most of my documents (passports, IDs) which are given maybe only if asked and even then I have to return it immediately.

My only source of income is an internship I'm doing right now. I cannot leave to my home country without him being notified I'm not sure how that works and even if I did I don't have anyone to rely on there. And I have to give half of my income to them so I only get half of what I make, and I take care of my expenses except food.

I need a good way to make money in secret because if they find out, they'll find an expense for it. I need something discreet. It's fine if it doesn't generate a lot of income but at least something I can put aside so I can get out within a year or two.

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u/postdumelon — 2 months ago