u/psych_h

I’ve been having a few cancellations and drop outs after just a few sessions and i am finding it hard to cope. This is something ive always struggled with and have taken to supervision as well but i dont seem to be coming to terms with it. Everytime it happens it takes me right back to thinking I shouldnt be a therapist or I’m really bad.
I dont know how other therapists deal with it. (I have adhd and wonder if RSD is stronger for me)
But it just seems like ive failed to be a good therapist. Logically im aware there are things probably in their life and things they are not ready to face. I’m not sure if I’m rushing them or i cant seem to understand whats going wrong?