u/quantumfairy22

In 2023 I was in a relationship with a guy who broke up with me in a very hurtful way and blocked me for 2 days straight. It was a toxic relationship and I was very manipulated by him . I was already dealing with a loss of a parent so I got way too attached to him . I was so desperate and anxious. I suddenly saw an Instagram add of an astrologer who apparently could fix love related issue. I ended up reaching out to them , which I really regret now that I’m grown up and mature and understand how we shouldn’t hamper with free will , saying my bf broke up with me . They asked for our picture together and said only if they saw a fix was possible , then only they would do something. They said he loves me but he has left me due to negative thoughts from a third party interference. They told me they’ll do a love spell and a third party interference removing spell . I asked them if there would be no harm to him or me and they assured that it’s just “god prayer” and natural remedies . I just wanted him to reach out to me so I paid . Meanwhile they told me he’ll reach out soon , but something striked my mind and I ended up logging into his social media to find out he was cheating on me and i obviously didn’t want him anymore. They told me to chant some mantras work work to actually be complete and permanent and also to go to some temple and by that evening I’ll see result . I told them i don’t wish to continue with the completion of the spell because of what I found out and so they said sure I can choose not to continue and again assured that nothing negative will happen with whatever they did .
My ex did reach out to patch up and apologise until I hit him with the shock of his cheating receipts . And since that day he’s apologising . I had blocked him, took therapy and eventually forgave him . But he has tried to contact me multiple times . He’s unblocked now because I don’t hate him as it was long back. I’ve grown a lot since then but he still asks me to get back . It’s been 3 years . He still tells me how much he’s guilty of his immaturity and how he will be such a better bf now . He says he hasn’t dated anyone since because he’s obsessed with me . I feel like the love spell that was done did work on him , or is it just the guilt of losing me ? I am planning to do a reversal / cord cutting to help him move on from me . I’ve dated other people after him but he said he hasn’t dated anyone after me .

I know what I did wasn’t right and I’m not proud of it either , so please don’t be unkind in the comments . It was my young age , immaturity and desperation with unhealed wounds . I have recently started practising witchcraft so I know about how love spells may hamper free will . I would really appreciate some guidance on how I can help him move on ? He says he tries meeting girls but none of them are able to interest him . I really want to cut any energy ties between us .