Lost on what birth control to use
So I've (21) tried a bunch of different birth control methods through the years, starting when I was 16 I believe? I started on the depo shot and it was honestly great! But my doctor didn't tell me it wasn't meant for long term use and also didn't warn me about the calcium issues so when I went to see a different doctor they were very mad to learn that I had been on it for a little over 3 years with no calcium supplements and suggested I stop using it. No biggie I thought, looked through other options and thought the nexplanon implant seemed like a good fit, so I started using that but only had that for about a year or two before i started getting horrible side effects (heat intolerance, nausea, vomiting, weight loss) and it started rejecting out of my arm. So I had it removed and started looking for my next best bet, saw the nueva ring and decided to try that, but it didn't take long for me to realize that one wasn't going to work because it was making me very irritable and snappy, which was causing issues with my relationship and family. I'm now currently not on anything and only using condoms but it's scary not having a backup method and I'll be honest I miss not needing to use a condom all the time. I can't use the pills because I already used to take prescription medication before and would rarely remember to take it daily, let alone at the same time every day. I know the IUD seems like a trusted option but I get terrible cramps so I worry how bad my cramps after insertion will be, not to mention sex can get painful for me so I can't imagine how bad it would feel having the iud inserted. I'm just so lost on what to do!
Sorry for the ramble
Tldr: tried the shot, implant, and ring but they didn't work out, cant use the pill and scared of IUD. Advice? Tips? Encouragement? Anything?