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I keep thinking about this because investment banking always sounds like a job where work just never really ends. There’s always another model to fix, another deck to update, or another late-night email to reply to. It makes you wonder how people actually manage anything outside of work.

At the same time, people in IB still find ways to have some sort of life outside it. Some rely on small routines, some try to protect weekends when they can, and some just learn how to switch off even for a short while. I feel like there’s no perfect balance, just different ways people cope and adjust depending on their team and workload.

For those in IB or trying to get in, how do you actually manage both work and life without feeling constantly drained? What has actually worked for you?

A lot of people think succeeding in IB is just about being extremely smart or knowing every technical skill perfectly. But from where I have seen, the people who do well long term in IB are usually the one's who are reliable, calm under pressure, easy to work with and consistent even during stressful periods. Technical skills also matter, but attitude, communication, and work ethic seem equally important.

I also feel people underestimate how important it is to be coachable and willing to learn quickly. Every banker I have spoken to says teams do value someone dependable more than someone trying to sound impressive all the time.

What do you think matters most for succeeding in IB?

I always thought the hardest part of investment banking was just staying awake and working long hours, but after speaking to people in the industry, it seems like the bigger problem is how unpredictable the job becomes. You might finally finish everything and think you can relax, then suddenly more comments come in late at night and your whole evening disappears again. I feel like constantly waiting for more work would honestly be mentally exhausting after a point.

Another thing that sounds stressful is how much pressure there is around tiny mistakes. Even small errors in numbers or presentations can become a big deal because clients and seniors notice everything. At the same time, almost everyone still says they learned a crazy amount in IB and that’s probably why so many people stay despite how difficult the lifestyle can get. What do you think is more exhausting in jobs like this, the workload itself or never really being able to disconnect?

A few years ago IB analysts were mainly expected to be strong at Excel, PowerPoint, Financial modelling and handling pressure. In 2026, that expectation is changing fast. More teams are now expecting analysts to understand Ai tools for research, presentation work, data analysis, and workflow automation. Even junior bankers are starting to feel pressure to keep up because nobody wants to seem replaceable in a fast changing industry. What makes this stressful is that analysts are already working long hours and now many feel they also constantly need to learn new tools outside work. Some people see AI as something that will reduce repetitive tasks while others worry it could slowly reduce the importance of junior roles altogether. Either way the expectation to adapt is becoming very real across finance. At the same time analysts who learn Ai properly could actually gain a big advantage. The industry still values judgement, communication, and relationship building but people who combine both those skills with AI knowledge may stand out much more in the next few years.
Do you think AI will make Investment Banking jobs better for analysts or just more competitive?

In some ways, IB feels more accessible today than before. There are so many online resources now including free technical guides, interview prep content, networking platform, and finance communities that make it easier for students from different backgrounds to learn about IB and prepare for recruiting. At the same time the competition has become more intense. More students are applying, earlier building stronger resumes, completing multiple internships, and networking aggressively even in their first year of college. Because of this, IB can also feel more exclusive than ever, especially for students without strong connections, target schools, or financial resources.
It feels like access to information has improved, but actually standing out has become harder.
Do you think IB is opening doors for more people, ore just becoming competitive in a different way?

If Ai starts automating financial modelling, I do not think Investment Bankers less valuable, it just shifts what matters in the role. A lot of repetitive work like building models or even updating comps will get faster, but that doesn't remove the core of IB.

The real value will move more toward understanding business deeply, thinking clearly under pressure, and communicating well with clients. Deals are still human at the end of the day trust, timing, negotiation, and judgement matter just as much as the numbers, so IB may slowly become less about execution and more about decision-making and client strategy.

At the end of the day, AI can support analysis but not replace conviction. Judgement in messy high stakes situations is still human driven. And that is where good bankers will stand out more and will IB become more strategy driven or still stay execution heavy?

I keep seeing mixed opinions about the CFA when it comes to IB. Some people say it is highly respected and helps build strong finance knowledge, while others say it doesn't really matter much for IB compared to internships, networking, and actual deal experience.
From the outside, it feels confusing because the CFA takes huge amount of time and effort, so I wonder if it still gives a meaningful advantage for someone trying to break into IB today.
Especially now when recruiting seems more focused on experience, technical skills, and connections.
I also wonder if the value of CFA changes depending on your background. Like, does it help more if you are from a non-target college or trying to switch into finance later? Or is it more useful for roles like equity research, asset management, and portfolio management rather than IB specifically?
For people already working in finance or investment banking, do you still think the CFA is genuinely worth pursuing for an IB career today?

A while back, I missed the last train home after a really exhausting day and my phone had died completely. I was standing there stressed, tired, and honestly close to panicking because it was late and I had no way to contact anyone. This older stranger waiting nearby noticed I looked lost and asked if I was okay. He let me use his phone, stayed there until I got through to someone, and even waited with me until my ride came because he said he didn’t want me standing alone that late. The whole interaction probably lasted 15–20 minutes, but I still think about it sometimes. He didn’t know me, didn’t owe me anything, and probably forgot about it the next day. But for me, it was one of those moments that reminded me there are still genuinely kind people out there.

From outside pitching honestly looks brutal. You are competing against other banks, constantly preparing decks, trying to impress client, handling endless revisions, and spending weeks on work that rarely turns into a real mandate. It feels like a high-pressure sales process where a lot of effort can lead to absolutely nothing.
But execution seems like a completely different level of stress once the deal is live. At that point there are real deadlines, negotiations, client expectations, legal processes, valuation pressure, late-night comments, and millions or billions of dollars actually on the line. One mistake suddenly matters a lot more.
I have heard people say pitching is more mentally draining because of the uncertainty and constant competition, while others say execution is worse because the pressure never really stops once the deal starts moving.
For people working in Investment Banking, which side do you personally find more stressful and why?
Which phase tends to create the most chaos for analysts and associates day to day?

I keep thinking about this a big part of IB's appeal seems tied to the money, especially in the early years. The hours are long, the pressure is constant, and the lifestyle can be pretty intense too, so it makes me wonder what would happen if the pay was closer to other corporate jobs. Would people still be as willing to go through the same grind just for the experience and learning ? There are definitely benefits like deal exposure, strong training and good exit options, but I am not sure if those alone would attract the same number of the people. It really makes me question whether interest in IB is given more by the work itself or by the rewards that come with it.

Every time I see news about merger or acquisition, it always sounds huge and exciting. Big numbers, bold claims and terms like strategic fit get mentioned a lot. But from an IB perspective, I keep wondering what really goes on behind all that and what actually decides if a deal works. How much of it comes down to how the deal is structures and how realistically synergies like cost savings or revenue growth are estimated. Do these synergies actually play out overtime or are they sometimes a bit too optimistic just to justify the deal?
Also thinking about due diligence. In IB, it is supposed to be very detailed, but does it really catch most risks or do companies still run into unexpected problems after the deal is done?
I would really like to hear from people in IB or anyone who has worked on or closely followed deals.
What do you think actually makes the difference between a deal that looks perfect on paper and one that genuinely works out in real life?