Has anyone experienced this?
My girlfriend had a hysterectomy 3 months ago was cleared to resume normal activities after 6 weeks. We had intercourse and everything was fine (according to her)no pain until I ejaculated. Within second she was in agonizing pain couldn’t really move or breathe let alone tell me what was going on. We tried to wait it out 10-15 mins go by she mentioned this was the worse pain she’s ever experienced in her life she was like screaming crying her hands started to go numb and stiff and like a temporary paralysis her faces look droopy and eyes were twitching so we went to the ER I had to wheel her in because she could barely walk. They did a scan and looked inside and said Everything looked okay must’ve just been a muscle spasm.. we felt like it was being dismissed but we contacted the surgeon and she said to wait another month. So we did.. yesterday we tried again and went slow and took breaks she said she wasn’t in any pain at all and again when I came inside within 10 seconds the same thing happened.. and the excruciating pain last for 3 ish hours and she says after the intense pain ends it’s just bad cramps for days and it hurts to poop pee or fart.. so I’m just trying to figure out if this is normal or if there’s something seriously wrong. Oh! And yesterday- a couple hours into the pain she wanted to see if it would help if she tried to douche out the sperm with water- and as soon as she squirted it the pain intensified and she was back to screaming crying. She messaged the surgeon again today we’re just waiting to hear back.