u/silkenfromer

Finally my turn!! I-130 approved. I am the wife of a U.S. citizen and we have a daughter together who is also a U.S. citizen. PD March 2025. What a relief. Best of luck to everyone.

My husband and I are currently living in different countries while waiting on our immigration application. He is in the US looking at rent around $2,000/month, and I am in Canada with our baby paying $1,600/month.

​Between dual rent, infant expenses, and flying back and forth to see each other, the financial bleed feels unsustainable. For couples who have navigated this phase:

​How did you manage dual living costs without burning through your savings?

​Did the US-based partner downsize or do short-term rentals to stay flexible for the eventual move?

​Any practical tips for budgeting travel and cross-border currency transfers during the waiting period?