u/snowcurrant

Event and competition frequency

How often are you going to events and competing? How many comps did it take you to move through each division? I have seen people talk about things in months/years, but not in event numbers so I’m curious.

I know people in my division who are traveling and competing every month, sometimes twice a month. I’ve been doing around 6 a year/every other month and thought that was a good amount, but I’m not progressing as quickly as I “should” be (or could be if I went more often). I know comparison is the thief of joy and all that. A recent WDOTD post about the advanced division also made me realize I really don’t want to be there right now lol. 

I remember being over the moon when I got my first newcomer points years ago, and even though I’m so much more skilled now, some of that joy has been overtaken by comp fatigue and general disillusionment.

For those who stopped competing, when did you know it was time to stop? Did you ever go back?

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u/snowcurrant — 8 days ago

Smiling in the dance

Spin-off from the eye contact discussion because it seems like there are multiple opinions. How important is it for you or your partner to smile? Does it take effort for you or does it come naturally? Do you ever give partners a heads up about your resting dance face?

Also does this change for comps or spotlights?

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u/snowcurrant — 3 months ago