u/supersolution1

She is the type of person who went from ugly to attractive but she never mentally adjusted to it so now she takes it out on everyone and her personality is still ugly. She is mean, jealous, judgmental, ignorant. It’s her revenge. She’s always been the oversized socially awkward bunion foot troll who has no spacial awareness and is mean to people she doesn’t approve of (anyone who doesn’t fit inside her shallow bubble and she hates broke people.) She is very fake.

Instead of becoming kinder, she still projects her past ugliness both externally and internally. Jess and Mench are naturally prettier than Manocchio. Scroll a couple down and you’ll see before the rhinoplasty she looked just like her dad with red lipstick on.

You’ll see many comments telling Toe “your gf is hot” and “when are you gonna marry her?” but the reality is to him she’s still the Disney watching 17-year-old with a nose on her so he doesn’t actually see or appreciate what other people say. He sees her as an ugly dumb immature person who can’t live without him.

They met when she was still an “ugly duckling.” My guess is that’s the way Toe still sees her (when she had her👃) combined with her self-esteem in the pits. They’re both nasty on the inside. She displays attention-seeking behavior which he’s become immune to. He is a dork, but one that had access to money so he slaps on a brand name and thinks he’s a fashion god. They’re both insecure in a very unlikable way and try to cover that up with money.

His mentality is that he’s better, smarter, more fashionable, savvier than her. It’s why she constantly looks to him for fashion advice and he loves feeling in control of ugly duckling. Any man who wants to be an influencer is not a man you can trust. He loves farming followers from her account. He is a clout chaser. The only way to really escape is to start fresh with a normal man with a normal career who doesn’t really use social media and wasn’t around for her past life and her past nose.

Is she actually this deep into the relationship plot that she’s lost any sense of reality that people point out? We only see what she posts. Imagine what she doesn’t post. How does she justify his behavior? She is very attention-seeking towards him and he’s tired of it. Just like how she needs to aggressively rap Nicki in peoples faces, just like how she hogged the camera when Katy Perry was in her video, just like how she monkey dances whenever there’s a tense moment. How does she brush off her own internal warning bells going off telling her this guy embarrasses her without a second thought? Her nervous system is fried. There’s no way she’s absolutely clueless that something is wrong. She chooses to ignore it because having a man is more important to her than her freedom (extremely male-centered attitude)

She’s never had to live in the real world - she has her family who is full of enablers and shielded her from development, and Toe which checks off the relationship box so she never had to experience what it’s like to date in your 20s and 30s. I seriously doubt anybody else would want to date either of them. They are good for each other in a sense because they are equally vapid and self-centered and obsessed with brand names. They truly believe it’s what makes them better than everyone else. If she were to attempt dating, she would face the reality of being such a stupid and boring person. And facing that enough times would force her to reckon with the fact that she isn’t cut out for living a normal life. And by normal, I mean, enriching and well-adjusted. This relationship is on its second decade and actually has stunted her from developing so many skills that she otherwise would have needed to take on if she wanted to date someone new. Even her speech is stilted. She’s never had to face a situation where she had to display her intelligence so money and appearances have kept her inside a cushy bubble.

They are together out of comfort not actual passion or desire or interest. I don’t want to say she’s stuck with him because she can choose to leave, but the relationship plus her family has held her back from becoming anything more. If her posts are this annoying imagine how painful it would be talking to her. She talks like it’s her first day on earth. Empty brain clanking with rocks inside.

She loves Vegas because she is exactly what Vegas is as a city: dry, soulless, flashy on the outside. When you stop to think about how much money they have (they do fake many parts of their lifestyle and aren’t as well off as they try to make it appear) and how they spend their days it’s brain rotting. She has no hobbies. With the amount of money and opportunities she has she could take up a hobby, travel and actually learn about the world, scuba diving/snorkeling, enroll in school, take cooking classes from professional chefs, hire a fencing or tennis instructor or any sport really, flower arranging, learn languages, her house is big enough for a garden if she wants to learn that. The possibilities are endless. She’s never had to face the real world.

Then you cut to what she actually does: wakes up, gym, walks her dogs, turns on Disney channel, makes coffee, makes breakfast, drops her clothes off to dry cleaning, grabs a salt bread and another coffee, does whatever beauty treatments, rearranges her clothes, complains about people in public, orders food, then waits for Toe to get home before she self destructs from separation anxiety. No reading, no enriching her brain, no volunteering or helping locals, nothing of substance. She and Toe live for brand name clothing, gossip, and judging people. Even when they travel they go get coffee and shop. It’s all they know. They’re both loser b*tches. At least he’s going to dental school but that’s because it’s his ticket to freedom from Manocchio.

This post isn’t to monitor their spending and say “look how worse off others are, think of them” struggle Olympics, but rather to shed light on how mind numbing their days are when you think about it.

1. Posted Maria maybe twice at most? Didn’t address her by name. But when she and Toe broke up she was itching to be Maria’s friend
2. Admitted she didn’t wash her hair for the wedding. Imagine making someone a bridesmaid and they couldn’t be bothered to wash their hair. She made a video saying it’s because she’s doing an updo. She’s been in a pool, walking up steps, horseback riding, walking around outside in the heat every day. An updo doesn’t mean dirty hair. Wedding guests cost money but of course Meanana doesn’t care enough to respect the day. This is the same girl who goes out for a wash and blow out on a normal Friday at home
3. She did the same thing for Jess 21st. It’s her passive aggressive way of saying F U I won’t be putting in the effort because the day isn’t about me. It’s middle child syndrome but make it evil version. She woke up early, got breakfast with Toe, went home decor shopping, then quickly got ready for the wedding. She could’ve spent that time washing her hair getting ready with the other bridesmaids (they all gathered but she didn’t attend) but of course her own priorities are more important
4. Has centered the event around herself. She can’t stand when someone else gets attention
5. Walking down the aisle she looks very crazy in the eyes. Go watch the video she looks high
6. She is loving the attention from followers asking if their wedding is next, when Toe is proposing
7. This is arguably the closest she’ll get to wedding him
8. The reason she does her circus monkey dancing is because she can’t handle a tense moment and she also dislikes when someone else is getting attention so she redirects it to herself by acting a fool
9. She secretly drinks. No one can convince me that she doesn’t - she drinks but likes the image of not drinking on her stories because of Toe’s rules (she wants him to approve of her)
10. Jess said in a live that she didn’t come because she’s going to LA for a month and needs to pack. Like someone else said there is not a chance Jess wouldn’t go just think of all the fake magazine cover photoshoots she could take in Colombia to post on her bedroom wall. The reason is because she’s beefing with Meanana as per usual
11. She hasn’t mentioned the dogs at all. Why? Because she uses them to keep track of Toe when she’s on a solo trip. She calls home a bunch of times, checks the cameras, comes home early. Now that Toe is around she doesn’t openly miss the dogs
12. Toe looks like he has a more natural energy around Mench. Mench’s husband also gave Meanana a shoulder massage. Both of them seem way less stiff and like normal people (which is a stretch) when up against logo freaks Dumb and Dumber

This chick is truly rotten on the inside. Zero empathy and it’s starting to show on her face how rotted she is. Her personality is super fake and any “friend” she makes doesn’t stay because they can see through the fakeness

Jaz the hair stylist girl, Lily, high school friends she meets for coffee, weekly Drybar visits to that one stylist, any influencer she meets on a brand trip that she says she loves (shawtysin_), Maria was also her friend at one point not sure how close they were

One influencer from a brand trip came into this subreddit and said she sat far away in a corner most of the time and didn’t interact (we already know she only interacts for the camera and her lack of social skills is hard to watch)

The common denominator here is 🥁 her. Only her dogs tolerate her and Wong because he’s on payroll. She is difficult to be around

She’s been walking around, horseback riding, climbing steps, but can’t be bothered to style her hair besides the big knot on her head.

Someone else on here mentioned whenever she puts her hair into a low effort bun like that she hates the event (ex: Jess’ 21st birthday)

Look at the video someone just posted on here. How many videos have we seen of her toppling over like a fainting goat? Now think about how many times you’ve fallen like that. I am starting to think she does it on purpose because it forces contact with him. Half the time he lets her topple over and doesn’t give a fuck. Embarrassing! Other times he’s forced to place his arm to steady her. In this video she put her legs in a weird position that made her unstable and then they kissed. Her main goal was to kiss but has to pretend to fall to get one (she has done this same move multiple times)

Can they start planning their videos beforehand because these interactions she presses for are very ick and he looks like he’s forced to be there. How much longer is his contract before he breaks free. This manipulative evil girlfriend behavior is atrocious

The bride and groom wearing Tabis at their wedding before Manica got to do it. She is coming apart at her RRL seams.

“I would never wear Tabis at my wedding” — sour grapes Manocchio

This is the only trip I can think of where she isn’t calling the dogs 5x or checking the camera at home. She hasn’t said anything about where they are, that she misses them, that she wants to go home early.

Potential theory: yes, she likes her dogs (because she doesn’t have any friends and the dogs have to put up with her they can’t speak they have no other choice), and secondly, the dogs are actually for Wonitoe. Without them, he has less keeping him in the relationship. Less at stake. Their latest dog Tonsil was definitely for him. She thinks getting dogs will be an automatic buy-in for engagement, marriage, kids. She already calls them a family and themselves parents. And I just remembered the time where she said she would accept a dog over a ring. They got a fourth dog since then. Still no wedding.

But when she has him all to herself like on this trip she amazingly no longer needs to go home early, call a bunch of times, and she hasn’t talked about them in her stories like she usually does.

Are the dogs just an excuse to stay locked in with Wonitoe? She’s already used Maria to get closer to him when they broke up so I wouldn’t put it past her to not be the Gone Girl type honestly.

You wanna know why? BECAUSE HER SON DOESN’T BUY HER ANY.

If he started buying her flowers she would suddenly have a whole month of flowers on her story and how much she likes them.

She constantly contorts herself - she has no opinion outside of Disney and One, no style outside of what he approves of as cool, no healthy relationship to food because he judges her eating. She looks at him constantly for approval - their entire relationship is a metaphorical fitting room asking for his rating 1-10. She isn’t even a people pleaser or family pleaser - just a One pleaser.

I don’t think he’s touched her in ages. But she’ll go along with it because without him she doesn’t know who she is. That’s what happens when you’re in a codependent relationship on its second decade.

The only flowers he gets her are from the bakery. And recently she was caught trying to make it seem like he got her flowers but it was bakery flowers that she got herself. She does whatever he does and works her way backwards to make it seem on the outside that their relationship is good.

“Flowers? Who needs flowers? I don’t even like flowers.” — a woman who has no sense of self

If this were a brand trip by now she would’ve been sitting in a far corner with a stuck look on her face, calling One to tell him she got struck by lightning, the water made her sick, the earthquake is too much and she is coming home early, she can’t leave the hotel room, she wants to see “the girls” - she turns into a histrionic lite.

These are the contradicting attitudes of a grown ass woman who can’t stand to be away from her boyfriend. I suspect she wakes up at 4 a.m. to keep tabs on him and show him that she is right for him. See? We both wake up early, we both eat healthy, we both like RRL, Colombia, and avoid alcohol and sugar. This kind of anxious attachment type behavior attracts avoidant type men (a securely attached person wouldn’t tolerate either of them) because she keeps the relationship going for the both of them.

Also how she admitted to driving by his house when they broke up to make sure he was home. How she became friends with Maria after the break up but now she’s “Juan’s sister” - and after she sees this she’s going to mention Maria by name in her stories. The way evilness came out of her eyes when she found out he had cookies without her when she was out of town and I’m pretty sure he was lying about when. I could go on and on about these micro interactions - body language doesn’t lie but instead of heeding what I’m sure others have told her she is doubling down to save the relationship and prove them wrong. He has no reason to step it up in the relationship because she micromanages everything. Her energy is suffocating. And he isn’t without a fault - his energy and behavior exacerbates her anxiousness.

The bottom line is she can’t stand to be away from him and he doesn’t respect her for it. He thinks of her as needy, less intelligent (which is funny because he’s also a dumb ass - he is Dumb she is Dumber), and approval-seeking. He controls her like a puppet from what she eats and wears.

She has zero sense of security outside of him and as annoying and pretentious as he is, I also can see why he gets tired of being around her and those stupid circus monkey dances anytime there is a tense moment. She doesn’t know how to relax. Just relying on ADHD, caffeine, cleaning the sink but not her poopy yard, and unhealthy attachment. If One tells her to jump she says how high. She never mentally grew out of high school and it shows - she is like those teenage/early twenties girls who look to their relationship as the final judge on what’s cool and what’s not.

She KNOWS One is not invested like she is, but she’ll keep pouring in time, money, sponsored date nights, and gifts thinking it’ll keep him around. It’s worked so far but a woman without a sense of self will eventually get left. She uses any excuse she can find to be in his bubble and we can visibly see how much he hates it. Instead of taking our advice, she continues to pester him and he tolerates it for now because the material payoff is worth the sibling pecks.

Once he meets a secure woman who doesn’t act like the sky is falling from separation anxiety, he’s out of there. Would she be less of a hypochondriac anxious if he were more present and involved? Maybe. Would he be less of an asshole avoidant if she were less aggressive and approval-seeking? Maybe. He knows she is a puppet and we’ve seen him take advantage of it plenty of times. A fifth dog isn’t going to save them, and when the relationship ends she is going to need to be checked into a ward. Her only support system is her family and even they get treated like shit because she chooses him (the time she took One to see Justin Bieber instead of Jess, how she uses her mom for home cooked food, didn’t go to Mench’s house for dinner recently because she was sick suddenly, notice a pattern?) She relies on him to live her daily life and really the average man is going to get sick of it eventually, a controlling stuck up asshole like One is going to stick around for the perks until he no longer needs to.