Advice on a reasonable commute
Just got into a program that's in another part of the state I live in. My fiancé and I have decided to move. We are looking for a place that has a decent commute for me, and for her (for work). We found an apartment in the town she works in, but the commute for me would be a bit rough. I'd be going in twice a week in the evenings. By car it'd be anywhere from 45 min to 1.5 hrs there, and 45 min back. By public transportation it'd be around 1.5 hrs there, and 1 hr back. For context, we love the apartment. It's close to the public transportation (train), a grocery store, and some lovely conservation land.
I'd love to get some takes on what other people have been able to do. I get that my sanity is important. Thanks!