u/womenPositive1980

How do you deal with dysphoria with your voice?

So I've been working on my voice for a little bit over a year now. I'm m at the point where I am using it on a daily basis and friends and family have all told me you sound female.

Do you think I would be happy? Which I am but when it comes to listening to my voice after talking and recording it, I still don't hear what everyone else hears.

The majority of the time I'm good and then there's always a few days where it's like. Oh my God, I hate my voice no matter how much I use it and record and listen to it.

Like now my voice doesn't make me cringe. My male voice made me cringe. I couldn't listen to it. I can actually listen to it. It still doesn't sound feminine to me after recording.

https://voca.ro/1mINgPxHUBHU

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u/womenPositive1980 — 3 days ago

Trying to figure out what to do with my voice.??

https://voca.ro/1j9IKWdzUATY

So I am trying to figure out what voice.

it might not even be an issue between the two different voices, but for the most part, the second voice to me fits with being excited with brighter resonance. I don't know if I want to work on making that my primary voice comparing to the first voice is more primary now. It's what I use on a daily basis.

Any advice.??

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u/womenPositive1980 — 9 days ago