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I have been crawling through this new find bhutanwiki.org online and it's very comprehensive. Has anyone been using it?

Just read Hemingway's "Up in Michigan" and I can't get over how much he does with such plain sentences. It's one of his earliest stories and on paper nothing about it should work, flat declarative sentences, tons of repetition, "Liz liked Jim very much. She liked it the way he walked over from the shop." That's the whole register. And the story itself isn't even beautiful, it's actually pretty ugly, the ending on the dock is brutal and he never flinches or editorializes, just puts it in front of you and walks away. Apparently Gertrude Stein told him it was unpublishable and he kept it anyway. Somehow it wrecked me more than his famous stuff. Makes me wonder if that kind of restraint still works on modern readers or if we now expect the author to signal how we're supposed to feel, especially with material this dark. Curious what others think.

Background first. Born in Bhutan, educated in India (Kalimpong) and Nepal, now in the US, and I've done well here. I run three companies with over 50 full time staff on payroll. I say that not to brag but because it's the whole point of this post. I cannot imagine building that in Bhutan. Same person, same work ethic, same ideas. It simply would not have been possible with our regulations, our licensing, our banking, our attitude toward private business. Think about how many people like me are currently in Perth or Brisbane driving Ubers. My cousins back home are educated and capable and every one of them is waiting for a chance to get out. One tried for the US and couldn't even get a tourist visa. So this isn't dunking from abroad. I'm asking what would make people like them stay.

The numbers say we're running out of time. Roughly 9 percent of our population has emigrated as of last year. The Bhutanese community in Australia doubled between 2020 and 2024, past 25,000. At the peak in 2023 over 5,000 people were leaving per month. Almost 70 percent of voluntary public service resignations in 2024 were teachers and health workers. The REVIVE program brought back 170 people and 28 of them found jobs. Meanwhile we keep collecting sustainability awards. The awards are real but so is the departure lounge.

We've made this mistake before. We banned TV and internet until 1999, last country on earth to allow television, to protect our culture. Culture survived fine. What the ban did was make us sit out decades of the information age that other small countries used to build entire industries.

And we're still wasting what we have. Our youth are English literate thanks to a genuinely good English curriculum. That's the exact raw material the Philippines and India turned into huge BPO and legal outsourcing sectors. Those jobs need bandwidth and educated young people. We have both, and both are boarding flights to Australia. Loosen tourism and a family in Punakha could rent out a spare room or a second home. More visitors means more taxis, flights, buses, restaurants, hotels, and tax revenue on every layer of it. Instead our big earners are hydropower and the state's bitcoin mining. Good revenue, but dams and mining rigs employ almost nobody. We built an economy that makes money without making jobs and we act surprised the young people left.

The carbon negative thing deserves an honest look too. We sit between India and China, the two biggest emitters on earth. Pollution doesn't stop at the border. Our carbon status is a rounding error against what blows over the mountains daily, and we're paying for that rounding error with our industrial development. That's a cost benefit calculation nobody seems willing to do out loud. I'd allow factories with relaxed regulations tomorrow. Not a free for all, just something closer to how every country that actually got rich did it.

Here's what gives me hope, and also what frustrates me. His Majesty clearly sees the problem. Gelephu Mindfulness City is his vision, a Special Administrative Region with its own laws and business rules, built to attract foreign investment and a million residents in a country of 780,000. That is a young king willing to bet 100 billion dollars on openness. The vision at the top is there.

So where does it die? Somewhere in the layer of long serving advisors, ministers and policymakers whose faces rarely change, who've spent careers optimizing for slogans and summit applause instead of payrolls. If the GMC idea is good enough to stake 100 billion on, it's good enough to roll out across the country. Why is prosperity being quarantined to one city while the rest of the country runs on the old rulebook that's emptying it out?

And no, I'm not talking about handing out citizenship. UAE and Qatar keep small citizen populations while foreign workers and investors drive the economy and citizens capture the upside. That model has genuinely ugly sides, labour rights, inequality, your hometown stops feeling like yours. Worth debating all of it.

For those of you still there, what would it actually take to make you stay? And does anyone believe the current crop of decision makers can deliver it?

I don't post about this much. Every time I do, someone tells me my family were illegal immigrants and someone else tells me to be grateful. But I want to say one thing to the Bhutanese here who are younger than the thing we keep arguing about.

My family is from Kuwapani, in Sarbhang. We were there for generations before I was born, and we were there before 1907. That is to say we were in Sarbhang before the Wangchucks were kings. My father was born while Ugyen Wangchuck sat on the throne.

My father owned land there, good land, close enough to town to be worth something. I was a child when we left. Too young to have had any politics for anyone to object to.

I found it on Google Earth a while back. There's a cul-de-sac on it now, houses around the curve, commercial buildings along the front. I sat there and looked at it for a long time.

I still have my father's land tax receipts. Paper, his name on them, issued by the government of Bhutan. They're worth nothing now. I still have them.

I'm told the place names down there have been changed since, so if you went looking for Kuwapani you might not find it. That is its own kind of answer.

You and I were handed two different histories and only one of us was told there was another version. You were taught that illegal Nepali immigrants came into the south, became a threat, and left. Clean story. Everybody sleeps.

Here's what got cut out. The 1958 law made Nepali-speaking settlers full citizens of Bhutan, and my grandparents had the papers to prove it. Then the 1985 Citizenship Act moved the line backwards and demanded proof of residence in 1958, the kind of paperwork almost no rural family anywhere on earth keeps. Then the 1988 census ran in the south and nowhere else and sorted people into seven categories. A man who had voted and paid tax for forty years became an F7 because an officer wrote a number next to his name. That is not immigration policy. That is a filing cabinet used as a weapon.

Then some people signed voluntary migration certificates. Voluntary. Sign it and your brother gets released.

Now the part nobody has ever answered for me. Fifteen rounds of talks between 1993 and 2003. A joint verification team went into Khudunabari camp in 2003 and found that about two and a half percent were real Bhutanese who could come home. Two and a half percent, in a camp full of people holding Bhutanese land tax receipts.

Thirty-two years later, not one person has ever been repatriated. Not one. A hundred thousand of us ended up in America, Canada, Australia, Denmark, because the country we were born in would not take back a single one. I can't find another country on earth with that record. And this is the country that sells Gross National Happiness to the world. The index doesn't count the people it deleted. I don't think you're lying to me. I think someone handed you a textbook when you were nine.

I have no quarrel with His Majesty. But a king is only as good as what his ministers put in front of him, and in the late eighties there were men in Thimphu with a policy to justify and a promotion to earn, and they answered a real demographic question with trucks. Those men had names. Nobody has ever asked them a single question. No commission, no inquiry, not one line in a textbook. They retired comfortably.

You can love your country and still say out loud that a Home Ministry secretary in 1991 was a coward. Every real country does this. It's the price of being a country instead of a brochure.

I'm writing this because the people who remember it firsthand are dying, and in twenty years the only version left will be the one in your textbook.

Go look up the 1985 Act yourself. Don't take my word for it, I'm a stranger on the internet with a grudge. But don't take theirs either.

I don't post about this much. Every time I do, someone tells me my family were illegal immigrants and someone else tells me to be grateful. But I want to say one thing to the Bhutanese here who are younger than the thing we keep arguing about.

My family is from Kuwapani, in Sarbhang. We were there for generations before I was born, and we were there before 1907. That is to say we were in Sarbhang before the Wangchucks were kings. My father was born while Ugyen Wangchuck sat on the throne.

My father owned land there, good land, close enough to town to be worth something. I was a child when we left. Too young to have had any politics for anyone to object to.

I found it on Google Earth a while back. There's a cul-de-sac on it now, houses around the curve, commercial buildings along the front. I sat there and looked at it for a long time.

I still have my father's land tax receipts. Paper, his name on them, issued by the government of Bhutan. They're worth nothing now. I still have them.

I'm told the place names down there have been changed since, so if you went looking for Kuwapani you might not find it. That is its own kind of answer.

You and I were handed two different histories and only one of us was told there was another version. You were taught that illegal Nepali immigrants came into the south, became a threat, and left. Clean story. Everybody sleeps.

Here's what got cut out. The 1958 law made Nepali-speaking settlers full citizens of Bhutan, and my grandparents had the papers to prove it. Then the 1985 Citizenship Act moved the line backwards and demanded proof of residence in 1958, the kind of paperwork almost no rural family anywhere on earth keeps. Then the 1988 census ran in the south and nowhere else and sorted people into seven categories. A man who had voted and paid tax for forty years became an F7 because an officer wrote a number next to his name. That is not immigration policy. That is a filing cabinet used as a weapon.

Then some people signed voluntary migration certificates. Voluntary. Sign it and your brother gets released.

Now the part nobody has ever answered for me. Fifteen rounds of talks between 1993 and 2003. A joint verification team went into Khudunabari camp in 2003 and found that about two and a half percent were real Bhutanese who could come home. Two and a half percent, in a camp full of people holding Bhutanese land tax receipts.

Thirty-two years later, not one person has ever been repatriated. Not one. A hundred thousand of us ended up in America, Canada, Australia, Denmark, because the country we were born in would not take back a single one. I can't find another country on earth with that record. And this is the country that sells Gross National Happiness to the world. The index doesn't count the people it deleted. I don't think you're lying to me. I think someone handed you a textbook when you were nine.

I have no quarrel with His Majesty. But a king is only as good as what his ministers put in front of him, and in the late eighties there were men in Thimphu with a policy to justify and a promotion to earn, and they answered a real demographic question with trucks. Those men had names. Nobody has ever asked them a single question. No commission, no inquiry, not one line in a textbook. They retired comfortably.

You can love your country and still say out loud that a Home Ministry secretary in 1991 was a coward. Every real country does this. It's the price of being a country instead of a brochure.

I'm writing this because the people who remember it firsthand are dying, and in twenty years the only version left will be the one in your textbook.

Go look up the 1985 Act yourself. Don't take my word for it, I'm a stranger on the internet with a grudge. But don't take theirs either.

I spent my childhood and early adult years in Timai, a refugee camp in eastern Nepal, before resettling in the United States in 2009 in my mid-twenties. I’m Bhutanese — part of over 100,000 Lhotshampa people expelled from Bhutan in the early 1990s, stripped of citizenship, and pushed into camps in Nepal where most of us would spend the next two decades.
I’m doing this AMA because most people’s mental image of a refugee camp is wrong. They picture tents, chaos, people waiting to be rescued. Timai wasn’t that. It was a community — with schools, small markets, neighbors who knew each other, teachers who actually taught, kids who played and argued and fell in love. Life happened there. Real life.
But real life in a camp also means rationed food. Every family got an allocation — rice, lentils, oil — measured and distributed. You learned very early that there was a ceiling on everything. That ceiling follows you in ways that are hard to explain even now.
What I want people to understand is that we weren’t passive. We weren’t just waiting. We were living — under conditions we didn’t choose, inside borders we couldn’t cross, with a future that was genuinely uncertain for years and years. The hardest part wasn’t the poverty. It was the not knowing. It was building a life in a place everyone treated as temporary, for so long that it stopped feeling temporary.
I came to the US in 2009. That’s its own story.
Ask me anything.