This sub is a mess
So I'm back again from my hibernation to do some gyaan jhadna and respectfully, do not twist my words and try to have an open mind without resorting to assume things on your own. Since I was also engaging in hard, fast and rough...writing of my practicals, let's make this post a bit practical as well.
Objective: A rant. (Duh.)
Materials required: Attention span and basic comprehension skills.
Procedure: Typing for me, reading and understanding for y'all.
Observation:
The AI Allegations
They're hurtful and I know, I know you guys hate AI writing, but unless there's some amount of proof—screenshots, leftover prompts, or writing style changing in the book abruptly that's painfully obvious is AI—accusation is not right. I also do know that AI writing has a pattern of being monotonous that tickles your prefontal cortex, but trust me, I've seen completely human-like works being generated out of gpt's water-wasting ahh. So we really cannot distinguish between real and AI generated writing, and trust me, I'm as concerned about people not having access of water to wipe their butts and switching to toilet paper one day, but I still do not agree with AI accusations without proof.
The New member vs Old member drama
Many old members are not active on the sub now, so it's not very good to keep dragging them into controversial disagreements.
Since this thing started with posts that were meant to appreciate or talk about other sub members, I'd only like to say...no one can force favourites. This is such a baseless fight—because hear me out—people are not discriminating against new members there. They're just stating people who they're comfortable with, have made friends with, or have known for a long long time. Just because someone says I like abc does not mean they're looking down on xyz. They're not intentionally making them feel bad for being not included—they're supposed to state favourites, and people obviously know their favourites from sometime—so I would only advise people who genuinely feel hurt about it to understand where they're coming from as well, and by saying this, I do not mean we should disregard anyone's feelings (before someone comes to fight.)
Genuinely leaving someone out or discriminating against someone would imply people do not take their words seriously, refuse to engage in conversations or doing something that's actually making them feel like their opinions do not matter or belong. These are just a few things I'd state in everything I believe is being discriminating or leaving out among various others, so don't assume I've provided some self made testbook definition of my own to impose on everyone (since I clearly need to spell it out, again.)
Character Aesthetics
So let's pick up a topic we've (at least as much as I've observed) not talked about in posts yet. Character aesthetics.
I see some people do not find pictures from foreign creators in character aesthetics plausible, and okay, I understand your sentiments about wanting to give Indian ones the stage, I promise you, it's not about inferiority complex.
As a writer, if someone's making a mood board or aesthetics of their characters, they do not have in mind "I'll never choose Indian pictures" or "foreign ones are superior". Nope.
They only care about the picture matching their vision, and they spend a good amount of time finding their one perfect picture amongst various others—which itself is pretty self explanatory that they care about matching the picture with the vision they have in mind and not whether the pictures are Indian or European.
Hopefully, I made this point clear.
Doxxing
I think this should be pretty obvious as well, but still, I'd try portray my thoughts clearer than what our oceans would be after all the AI generated activity.
Threatening to, or actually engaging in doxxing a person—revealing their identity or personal information—should be absolutely discouraged. I need not say more, it's appalling and horrendous.
Also, resorting to personal insults and slurs, involving and dragging someone's parents is just vile. Don't stoop so low.
Holding Grudges
While I know it's only human nature to dislike people we argue or disagree with, holding grudges and showing hostility towards certain members should not be okay. Downvoting is a sign to show disagreement, yes, but not a sign to show your hostility. Downvoting a single person even in harmless comments and normal interactions is not good.
Also, I seem to see a lot of mentions about one certain user here, try not to drag their name in conversations they don't know about.
Trope Shaming
To be clear from the start, since it's practically needed to be spelled out even though I did say you need to have comprehension skills but okay—I do not support any form of rape, assault, crimes, etc.
So,
Trope shaming is jarring.
Billionaire romance? Mafia romance? Student x Professor? (yes, that too) Forced/arranged/substitute marriage?
Every one is fine.
If a trope irritates you, annoys you, or make you want to not read, it's okay.
Preferences is a legitimate term, you know?
So,
"I don't like this and that." Is totally encouraged and acceptable.
"This is trope is bad because I don't like this." Is not.
A trope may be cliché, but it's still a trope. It's not a preference, yes, but shaming it is going nowhere. We can read and write all tropes.
Also the professor x student, professor is also a profession like many others. There's a power imbalance, yes, but if it's not portraying the figure of authority abusing that power and it's all consensual, we can calm down. Anyone in our lives can potentially hurt us, but if they're not, there's no need for "but they can—".
However as I said, if they're hurting or abusing the power, then it deserves to be reprimanded.
Conclusion: Of my rant.
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Ignore grammatical mistakes if any.
Peace.