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I know this post is going to be unpopular but I am so tired of Kara copping all the heat. Guillermo is like that kid in school that snitches to the teacher.

I am watching the 4th episode in Australia and thinking if Guillermo really cared about Kara doing OF why isn’t he working two jobs, weekends, nightshift whatever it takes to support his family ? Why isn’t he doing OF instead ? He has a massive following by all the comments I see.

He only cares about it because of other peoples opinions. If he really cared he would find a solution. He is still a boy who needs to grow into a man and step up even if they don’t get back together for his son’s sake.

what are these people thinking? They’re organizing weddings before having conversations about kids, religion and finances … and then they are surprised things don’t work out 🤦🏻‍♀️

I can't help but be amazed at how attractive his daughters are. Thank God they took more after their mothers!

I always wait for the young, Muslim male to tell the gross, old white woman he's not attracted to that he can't be physical cuz of Ramadans

I've been a long time lurker but I had to finally sign up because I saw many people really confused about the level of Marissa's anger at the restaurant in last night's episode.

Like, I agree on the surface it was confusing, right? They started arguing about generalities like a check-in? And then by the end of last night they were arguing about how they were arguing which was really fxcking annoying.

Anyway here's the answer:

*She was embarrassed because she doesn't want to be seen as a cheater or even just a casual fvck toy.*

What set her off was his initial comment on "if you cheated on me then you would lose."

She was mad he brought the incident up again on camera. She's ashamed and should be.

She wasn't really mad about "oh this was supposed to be a nice date."

That's a lie (and Marissa is a liar.)

She just so desperately wanted to control the narrative and her image and the fact that she even had a fvck toy in the past to keep in touch with let alone that she might be texting that fvckboy does not fit with the image she was trying to so carefully curate.

She was using the lie along with her gas lighting and reversing and etc to bury the fact that she's a hoooor.

PS EDIT I'm not new to reddit but I lost my login and so I can't post this anywhere else because my profile is so new I tried to post it to regular 90 day.... Feel free to share it my thesis please.

Has anyone with a pp ever shown Debbie respect for longer than the 5 minutes they fake it to get what they want from her?

Debbie thinks the bare minimum from a man is effort, that's what she sees in Mido.

Her son almost doesn't come to the wedding bc he was asked to work, then when he does show up states he's "very protective" of his mother. Is that why it's been 3 months with this guy in town before you met him? They're implying not even a video call before that moment.

We knew her kids father sucked. And this behavior of accepting the least is something you learn to settle for after an entire life of being let down. But we had a MAN conversation so it's fine now.

Debbie, I hope you realize some day you deserve better than this, and chase the love you should have had your whole lives.

If you see yourself in Debbie's story- you deserve the world too.

She keeps mentioning OCD, autism, and other ailments but her symptoms seem more like narcissism and alcoholism. Like, how is any of this OCD? She's an interesting character

My God Marissa is the meanest bully I've ever seen on 90 Day Fiance and there have been some doozies. She doesn't listen and gets mad at Edward for everything he says or does. Edward, that house is going to become a prison.