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Who has Jamal slept with?

I know about Veronica and now Liz but that l’s only two women. I keep seeing people posting that he sleeps with all the women on the show but who else has he slept with? And why is it so bad? They’re all adults.

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u/No-Twist-333 — 13 hours ago

you know what we call a “Liz”…

here i go with another spanish saying…

her behavior gives “mosquita muerta” 🤦‍♀️🤣

u/imalwaysswrite — 13 hours ago

Colt as a John (A retired Sex Workers Analysis)

Here is Analysis #2 (very similar “type” to analysis 1 of Gino)

As a JOHN Colt would short change you or slip in counterfeit, argue the length of song/time or push for extra service, extra attention and see himself as different from the type of guys that pay sex workers. (LOL)

Colt would play the part of “I never do this” “it’s my first time” “I’m scarred from my last relationship” really playing into the innocent nerd or nice guy persona while trying to push boundaries like a highschool boy with no concept of consent.

COLT is what I think of when I remember guys saying things like “FINISH WHAT YOU STARTED” “ITS NOT FAIR IF YOU DONT HELP ME OUT” - you know that BLUE BALL GUILT. It’s your fault I’m so turned on… unfortunately too many of us ran into that guy… the one that calls you a cocktease and tries dry humping you while you sleep - COLT IS HIM but in JOHN form he thinks your boundaries are suggestion that can be ignore or negotiated.

He’s the guy posting a bad review calling you a catfish on escort forums or complaining to the strip club on his way out because you shattered his delusions of you wanting him and him being your FAVOURITE.

I could see Colt being a slip the condom off in Doggy style type of dude, or break the rules around touching in VIP… I think Colt is more a low self esteem type guy sadly that makes him seem less dangerous than other guys but he’s vindictive and mean ESPECIALLY if he can do it in a way where you can’t hold him accountable or prove it’s him.

He’d be sexually aggressive but he’s not into hurting you to get sex atleast not in the violent attack way he’s going to try to take advantage of you and discredit you bc he’s a “nice guy”

Colt exists in the delusion he’s better than your other clients, he thinks he’s desirable either bc he’s good in bed or knows how to make you feel desired. He is so confident that he cracks jokes that he should get a discount or you should pay him.

Colt thinks Sex work is about sex for both the sex worker and the John. His ego is tied to his ability to get women and have sex. He’s competitive - and wants women out of his league, there’s a formula: the hotter they are or harder to get the more rewarding and he’ll put more effort in … women in his league need to be submissive to his wants and needs (I feel he’d be a risk for physical, emotional and financial abuse)

He is the type to resent paying bc he’s showed up thinking the parameters of the transaction will change once you experience your time with him.

Colt is the reason veteran girls school newbies to CASH UPFRONT & DON’T NEGOTIATE YOUR RATES OR BOUNDARIES EVER.

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u/Professional_Aerie67 — 24 hours ago

Review of Gino as a John (A retired Sex Workers Analysis)

Gino has gotten under my skin for a long time and I couldn’t quite put my finger on it until I dove deep into the comments on another thread

Anytime there’s someone on a reality show thats involved either as a consumer or provider of adult (SW) services they tend to remind me of my time working as a Sex Worker (There’s definitely “types” of John’s just like there’s “types” of Service Providers)

Here’s a review of the “type” GINO falls into (other sex workers or sex work consumers please weigh in)

Gino is a low budget SUGAR DADDY/John that wants to feel important but not so important that there’s expectations of him aside of $ exchanged for fantasy. He wants to pretend to play saviour and Mr big bucks but wants you to work for it while having no expectations of him despite it being his fantasy that he could actually do it if he wanted to (but won’t bc he’s always going to feel you’re not worth the fee/rate unless he breaches your boundaries) He wants to pay an hourly rate or fee so he controls the interaction and knows the cost value reward of it all.

This is man in perverts row that makes your money a pain in the ass to receive. It’s crumbled, dirty, ripped, or thrown into the corner of the stage making you have to walk to get to. It’s inconveniently located. He’ll pay you but make “budget” jokes and barter lightheartedly -if u stop it - he’ll say something light or apologize but he’ll do it again despite paying you your fee every time. It’s not being said to save money it’s being said to chip away at your value while reaffirming to him he’s right about your “value” bc you put up with it just to get paid - so in his mind you are now overpriced and he’s putting up with you and not vice versa. He’s the victim of a greedy bitch that deserves being pulled down a peg and he gets to feel good bc his money (your fee) is now viewed as help and not work. He’s now convinced himself he’s not a real John. (FYI guys like that are GIANT RED FLAGS and often stalkers, abusers, killers - that actually hate sexually empowered women)

It’s why he gets Akward in sexual interactions where the woman leads or defines sex or what sex would be like - the only time he ENJOYED sex and shocked Jasmine was when she was subservient to him and he narrated the exchange - GINO’s kink is impacting how a woman values herself hence the porn Sugar Baby Escort kink - he was weird in the strip club bc NATALIE felt empowered in a place where Gino would normally devalue women (while paying them and having them be grateful to him)

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How Much of Colt is “real”

Hi all!

Been here in the Colt-a-coaster since his first season. This villain arc with Courtney is so bad, it’s like Colt has become a caricature of himself. I feel like I’m okay at sensing when the producers have created a story line in the show (I know this happens often!)

With this story line, I’m not sure if the producers have fabricated everything between Colt and Courtney (and the cheating), or if Colt has started to drink his own Kool Aid. i just cannot imagine that level of delusion, thoughts? Even the way he talks is bizarre. Like an anime villain, lol!

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u/whos_your_auntie — 23 hours ago

Literally Millions.....

Why keep people on, after their original stories have played themselves out? There are millions of new interesting stories to be told. Has the Executive Producer and Head of Programming just become lazy? Gino, Jasmine, Kim, Liz-ard, Sophie etc. Ba byeeeeeeeeeee!

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u/Over-Mobile-5516 — 1 day ago

Greaaat. The Single Life Tell All turned into Kim's adoption drama again...

Tired of hearing about this, it's the Single Life..not Maury

u/Spiritual_Ice5079 — 2 days ago

Catie/Josh 90DF

I already knew from the introductions that Catie and Josh would be a tihs(uno reverse)show 🤣....but man I just didn't expect that Catie would be so horrible. You gotta feel for Josh. This lady brought this man to a welcoming party where just about everyone there she either had relations with and those she didn't have relations with; she tried but they denied her(INCLUDING THE WOMEN).😳🤯. The level of disrespect and embarrassment this lady is putting Josh through should be criminal! He may not be seeing it right now but when he looks at it from 30,000 feet; he's going to realize; he allowed himself to get played hard. 💯 There just ain't no way Catie is worth this and she hasn't even changed yet!

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u/SmallTalkJay — 2 days ago

Tell All Part 1, 🤮

Kim, really! Oh, I feel so bad about the adoptions, so bad for Jamal !!!!!! Then she pretends to be him as a Catfish to her adopted son? Pulllllllleeeeeaaaaase, get the f*ck off the show, lier, actress, con, UK is all BS also.

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u/Over-Mobile-5516 — 3 days ago

When is she not crying?!

She’s so upset because his mom doesn’t like her. Well your relationship with Matt has unconventional written all over it. Their relationship was born out of a threesome. Did she really expect his mom to respect her?! Then she ask Matt, why do you want to marry me? He responds saying “ because we have a child together.” There’s your answer right there. Matt doesn’t love you. His facial expression says it all. Didn’t they just buy a house together?! Why do all that if they’re not happy together?! They could’ve just coparented. Smdhhh

u/Chocoluv007 — 3 days ago

I can’t unsee this!

My husband was watching Happily ever after with me and said that Gino looks like the chicken run…😅 Can’t lie this is too accurate! I find him to be absolutely terrible. He’s definitely a narcissist.

u/Resident-Forever-680 — 3 days ago

Is Catie on something?

So we know she's an alcoholic who uses her OCD as an excuse to be unfaithful, but is she on something else? Just seems like she has tics, diverted attention, and like she isn't all there.

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u/alexthagreat98 — 3 days ago
▲ 35 r/90DayFianceFans+1 crossposts

We are seeing double! (Debbies!)

Tell us S12 Debby isn't the decade-younger spitting image of Debbie from The Other Way S4!

u/90dayfiancefreaks — 3 days ago