r/AffairsNJ

21F4M [Sussex] I’m genuinely seeking a sugar arrangement.

Hello! I’m a 21 year old female with a fetish thats typically frowned upon. I want to be a sugar baby. I love the idea of someone rewarding me for pleasing them. dates, etc im all open to. it genuinely turns me on. i can and will verify for you. serious people only please.

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u/ilycutieskull — 1 day ago

Local couple looking for fun

Local mly couple looking for fun (threesome or gangbang) better if you’re malay, and have a bad boy vibe.

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u/sgcuck89 — 2 days ago

46 wm 4 f Ocean County

Wife is going away tomorrow night and I will be in need of some company. I am planning on going out on the motorcycle to have a drink and relax. If you’d like to take the ride I would happily come get you and enjoy your company. If the vibe is right we continue for more fun.

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u/Extension-Blood8890 — 5 days ago
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Looking to Connect With a Mature Woman (Older Than Me 21M )

I’m a 21-year-old guy looking for a genuine, long-term relationship ( we can be friends though if things didn’t work out) with someone older (upto 25) than me. I’ve always found myself drawn to women who are emotionally mature, self-aware, and have more life experience.
A little about me: I’m 6’ feet, fair complexion, decent body ( i do workout), college student, curious by nature, enjoy psychology, science and having deep conversations about life and human behavior.
If you’re interested in talking, feel free to send me a message.

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u/Dikansh — 6 days ago

Horny Slut

I started this account to help me get fucked. I am female and live in NJ. I love older men . Help me learn how to make the most of Reddit .

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u/Cum_SIut_NJ — 8 days ago

40F Married but craving

Shit this is awkward but here goes.

I’m a 40 professional, educated black female. I’m married with children to a nice guy who is also several years older than me. Time has caught up to him and physical intimacy is non-existent. And as of late I have been craving the touch, the passion, the sexual aggression of a man. Masturbating helps but it doesn’t cure the cravings. Maybe writing this will help. This is new territory.

I’m not fit (anymore) but I’m not obese. A true mom bod lol. I’m in Northern NJ although I so travel throughout the state for work on occasions.

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u/ohletmetouchit — 11 days ago

35F 4 C Westampton Nj

I’m so new to this so my apologies ahead of time. I’m going thru a divorce and I am ready to experience all the things I couldn’t before. I can’t host but I am down for whatever. Not scared to travel. Looking for a mature couple sex doesn’t matter. I want to be dominated touched feel good feel comfortable taught things literally ….Rule book is no rules! We have one life and it’s bout time mine started!

These lil c sucker things are cute and all but I wanna get high as hell & wasted af and enjoy some new people and things tonight.

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u/meowfairy7 — 10 days ago

Married or Happily Married

For three years a colleague has been making eyes at me. She is a few years younger than me, very attractive, and our friendship has been borderline emotionally intimate and platonic. We are both married and honestly, have good marriages. Like any marriages, there are things her husband doesn’t satisfy that she deals with and on my end, my wife’s menopause has compounded a few difficult quirks that I’ve resolved to overlook and honestly has made being married to her difficult. I love my wife, but struggle to feel in love with her. I don’t want to waste my wife’s time, but I am still figuring me out. I haven’t divorced her due to finances, pets, and our young adult children….

This woman has been on my mind for three years. Unnatural to me, I hinted that I liked her in January and she said to chill. I did. Then on Valentine’s Day, she DM’d me a benign question that she could have asked me at anytime… I replied three days later to respect her boundaries. As of late, she’s been super helpful to me in preparation for a career move, going as far as to reach out to me and help me to unveil my weaknesses… during the interview process and it made all the difference.

She knows that I like her. She makes eyes at me often, and I am fucking smitten. Catching myself dreaming of potential futures with her, I finally asked her yesterday - are you happily married or simply married. I need to gauge her. She replied happily married… If life wasn’t confusing enough right now, that wasn’t the answer I was expecting. Stuck dealing with this…

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u/Illustrious-Fail3465 — 12 days ago

50 [M4F] #NorthNJ Seeking fellow married escape artist

I am a father of three who is on the search for my secret friend who wants to enjoy fun banter and messy, shameless sex. I have a strong attraction to women close to my age. You fly under the radar as the sweet loving mom you see at your kid's soccer games. However, you secretly daydream of moans and a room filled with the smell of sex as you let your lover enjoy every part of you.

About me... I work from home, have three amazing kids, and married to someone I feel I grown away from. I like to be active in nature, exercise, and get told I look younger than I am. I am a social person who, at a fault, can talk your ear off. However, I am a shitty typist and can speak "meme" and "gif" on the phone.

As for what I want, I love sex with someone sane and who I can trust. I like a woman who cleans up nicely and and can be sexy in anything she wears. I want a friend to laugh and talk with but also someone I can worship in bed. Not making myself sound like some sex god but willing to listen and learn what makes you tick and moan. 🤤

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u/BreakingMonotony — 14 days ago