This post is solely meant for women in Asansol who use dating apps like Bumble. Please be safe out there and be aware of predators like him.
Had I discovered this subreddit before kolkata, I would have posted about him here. Also, I'm not bitter neither is he important enough to run a smear campaign against. I just want the females of the area using dating apps to be aware of this guy. This guy has a bumble profile, the last time I checked; he had this as his first picture the one that pops up on someone's profile. The name he uses on the app is Sam and according to his profile, he's 28yrs old which he isn't. He's 30 years old. So, our man, Sam actually happens to have a different name, and is a Bengali. He's from Durgapur and happens to be a furtive practitioner of shady deeds. I am sure if I dug just a little deep, I would've unearthed many unpleasant secrets about him but I simply don't want to. I was in a very toxic relationship with him, where he wasn't transparent, everything I got to know about him was through his social media. He wouldn't even disclose where he was from and stuff. He'd go on trips without letting me know, I would have had no idea where he was until he'd return from those trips, he'd tell me later that "I am like this, can't change myself!" Such a pathetic excuse for poor behaviour. Issues arose and were met with zero redressal. Then, having been waist deep into the relationship, I got to know that he hadn't deleted his bumble profile and it remained active throughout the entirety of our relationship. He had excuses ready for that as well. For some reason, he'd always avoid meeting me in Asansol or Durgapur still being a grown-ass man and would avoid meeting in such places saying stuff like "relatives are there, they'll get to know". Anyways, he's a smooth talker though, so ladies please please be careful. Initially he might seem like the nicest guy you've ever met but soon his disguise is gonna fall off. He's not a good human being as well; left me stranded when I went through a major surgery. He's simply a predator, please stay away from him unless you are also thinking along the same lines as him.