r/AskaWoman

My fiance has this huge turn on about being touched in public. Like me just touching her butt turns her on like crazy. Also the thought of being caught like doing something on the couch or in the other room with the door cracked or open. She goes crazy for that. And when I asked her she said idk. I figured I would try and asking here. Cause it bothers me a little. Like it feels like she's more turned on by others than she is me. I know that sounds stupid but it's how it feels to me

I picked up a shift today. She was alone all morning with our new puppy who’s only 8 weeks old. The last time she remembers putting in a tampon was around 4am this morning. She says after I left for work around 530am, she didn’t go to the bathroom again until around 10:30 am (she woke up around 9:30am) since we’ve had the puppy and when one of us need to go to the bathroom to shower or use the toilet, either I’ll watch the pup while she goes or she’ll watch her while I go as the puppy likes to follow us in there. Today she was alone so obviously when she went to the bathroom our pup followed her and she told me that when she got in, she removed and discarded her old tampon and proceeded to pee, our pup started whimpering while she was on the toilet after only about 3 mins of her sitting down and scrolling on her phone, so she felt a little rushed obviously and she remembers wiping and flushing and leaving the restroom with our puppy.

She doesn’t remember whether she put a new tampon in or not. My step kid (her biological kid) wanted to see the puppy and bring him to my wife’s parents house who live right across the street, so he came and got her about an hour and a half before I got home from work which was an hour ago (1:30-ish) since her kid left she hadn’t used the bathroom at all and right when I got home I took a shower, came out and we had physical intercourse. A few mins in after intercourse already started, she started freaking out and telling me that she can’t remember whether she had a tampon in or not. I tried using my fingers to see if I could feel anything but I did not/nor did I feel anything with my other body part. (Trying to keep things PG) - she also didn’t feel anything unusual when we started Having intercourse.

She suffers terribly from UTI’s the occasional times she does get them. and she looked up other posts of women this has happened to which stated they got bad UTI’s due to this exact situation. She has terrible anxiety. What should she do? Surely this can’t be the first woman here this has happened to.