r/BangladeshMarriage

I am born and brought up in Dhaka. My education and everything was in Dhaka as well. Being a hopeless romantic person, I have found myself a bit unrealistic in terms of human bondings. Like, if you are in love with a person, you be devoted to that person. You be fully into that person. If that's not the way then It's not love. I am a bit old school in case of relationships. Possessive and emotional.

Here's a small intro of mine. The rest I'll keep private.

*5'5" height.

*Not skinny, not obese.

*We are two members in family, me and baba. I got teachers' quarter as well. Didn't shift.

*Bachelor's and master's from Dhaka University.

*Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25-35

*Level of religiosity: idk what's the level. I am kind. I don't intentionally harm anyone. I am a safe person. Ain't this religiosity? 😅

*Do I want kids? Yes, if I see my husband as the father of my child.

*Not Just for my profession, I love studying new trends and theories regarding the very subject I teach. And I love the fact 'cholo ektu ghure ashi'. I literally can spend all my savings in travelling the world.

Immediately after graduation and post graduation, I joined as a lecturer in an army institution. So, now life seems to be settled down to look for a partner in crime.

Based on my current situation, I am preferring someone from Bangladesh army or BAF. Or someone who is planning for higher studies abroad / already doing his higher studies abroad.

He must be kind. Soft spoken when needed, loud when appropriate. If you are not into me, deeply and madly, do not let me be in your life. I will be more grateful.

I am mentioning this because I feel aligning future plans and life goals are pretty important to have a happy togetherness.

Please DM in reddit for more chitchats and secrets.

1.     Age, Gender and Height: 27; Female; 5.2”, prospect height preference: 5.5-5.11(flexible)

2.     Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect : 27-32

3.     Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? –  Depends on the situation.

4.     Nationality: Bangladeshi

5.     Marital Status - Single

6.     Ideal marriage timeline – 1-3 years ( I don’t wanna rush)

7.     About me:

I am an empath, I feel everything deeply, which can make the world feel overwhelming at times. I have an intense metacognitive ability, I am constantly analyzing my own thoughts, feelings, and mental processes, which can sometimes hurt me and push me into overthinking. I used to call myself an introvert, but the truth is, I yap a lot once I feel comfortable with someone. Most of my current friendships started because someone chose to "adopt" the quiet girl sitting alone, but over time, I’ve somehow become the wise guru of the group. People often reach out to me for my perspective on topics that are otherwise socially taboo. I value relationships immensely; in fact, I’m still close friends with people I met in kindergarten.

As an only child, I genuinely enjoy my own company. I’m an avid reader who dives into thrillers, romance, fiction, non-fiction, politics, and more. Being politically aware, I tend to look at issues through a broader lens. People love putting others into boxes when they can’t comprehend human complexity, I say this because I’ve literally been called both a moulobadi and a shahbagi on the same day by different people! But I firmly believe in continuous learning and growth, and I always try to understand every "ism" from its original historical context. Because I grew up as an only child, I prefer the idea of marrying into a smaller family, as it would be easier for me to adapt.

I value my independence above almost everything else. One of my biggest fears regarding marriage is losing myself and becoming a supporting character in someone else’s life. I love who I am, and I take pride in my loyalty and integrity. To me, marriage should be a partnership where two independent individuals actively choose each other every single day. I have solid decision-making skills and never run away from accountability.

On a pop-culture note, I’m a Potterhead and big on the MCU. I love watching movies and series, but I can’t just watch something and forget about it, I love analyzing character dynamics and discussing them, because media deeply reflects and influences socio-cultural norms.

One of my major life goals is to travel. I haven't had many opportunities yet, but I’m determined to make it happen. Professionally, I completed my Master's last year, am working toward a career in the development sector and academia, and am currently preparing for a PhD.

I can get along with almost anyone, but my soul yearns for deep, meaningful conversations. I also need alone time to process things and reset. I’m not clingy at all, I readily give people their space, and I expect the exact same in return.

 

 

8.     Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

·  Emotional Maturity & Self-Awareness: Someone who can communicate openly, take personal accountability, and process complex emotions thoughtfully without resorting to ego.

·  Intellectual Curiosity & Shared Interests: A fellow bookworm or slightly nerdy thinker who enjoys deep, nuanced conversations, values lifelong learning, and has their own engaging hobbies.

·  Domestic & Personal Independence: A self-sufficient adult who takes good care of his health, can comfortably manage his own household chores, and won't starve if I’m not cooking.

·  Professional & Personal Stability: Someone who is professionally established, because we are mature adults, and views marriage as an active commitment between two independent equals.

·  Respect for Autonomy & Emotional Warmth: A partner who values true equality, honors my space and independence, and brings a grounded, gentle presence where vulnerability is welcomed.

9.     State/specify your level of religiosity

I am a Muslim. I try my best to pray five times a day and adhere to the fundamental teachings of Islam. However, I strongly dislike religious extremism and the tendency to confuse shallow cultural practices with true faith. I view my journey with religion as a continuous process of learning and self-improvement, but I believe faith should come from conviction, I will not accept anyone forcing their beliefs or interpretations onto me.

I dress modestly, cover my body, and wear a hijab most of the time, though I occasionally choose not to, as I try not to be overly rigid with myself. Above all, I value personal agency in my spiritual journey and expect mutual respect without any imposition.

 

10.  Level of education- Bed, MEd

11.  and what are you looking for?

Atleast bachelor degree from public or private university with passion for his subject area.

12.  Current Job Status:

Unemployed AF. But doing independent research to publish in journals.

13.  Do you want kids? That will depend on the type of husband I will get.

14.  List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

·  Reading: I am an avid reader across diverse genres, including thrillers, romance, fiction, non-fiction, politics, and social science.

·  Photography: I enjoy taking photos in my spare time, particularly focusing on capturing landscapes, creative aesthetic shots, and bookish compositions.

·  Deep Conversations & Sports: I love engaging in deep, philosophical discussions about life and human nature. I used to play volleyball and badminton regularly and would love to play again, though I currently don't have anyone around to play with.

 

15.  Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

A few of my uni teachers told me I always manage to teach them something new during our discussions. I guess my habit of over-analyzing everything comes in handy sometimes!

16.  What are you looking for in a man-

I am looking for an emotionally mature, self-aware, and open-minded partner who approaches life with depth, sincerity, and clarity of thought. Above all, I want a best friend with whom I can explore life, not a "guardian" in the disguise of a husband. I am fully capable of being my own guardian.

Anger issues and raised voices are major red flags for me; because I experience severe panic attacks when a man raises his voice around me, I need someone who is calm, gentle, and emotionally regulated.

Because we are mature adults, he should be professionally established, value integrity, take good care of his health, and be fully capable of managing his own life and household chores independently. I value someone who is intellectually curious, a fellow reader or slightly nerdy thinker, who enjoys deep, nuanced conversations, respects diverse perspectives, and has his own active hobbies.

Most importantly, I want a partnership based on true equality, mutual respect, and shared growth. I need a man who honors my independence and space, brings a grounded presence to the table, and views marriage not as a routine or control, but as a conscious choice two independent individuals make to support each other every single day.

 

17.  Preferred Method of Contact – This is my throwaway account. I am an old reddit user. Dm me here. If we click. I will share my other social handle.

Assalamualaikum, I came across this community few days ago and after reading a few posts here, I also felt like looking for my soulmate as well so here it goes.

About Myself :
Very bubbly, I’m like laughing all the time, very easy going and chill in day to day life but once it’s something serious, there’s no one more focused than I am. I’m extremely career driven and studying and working in my domain like 24/7 ( I’m not exaggerating) . I believe this is the building period of life and I’m trying to give my all. So I’m also looking for someone who is equally driven, if not more, and so that we can grind together and help each other with our dreams.

But that doesn’t mean I always studied xD. Before university, I mostly did singing , painting , crafting etc. and have several accolades in those domains. I also crochet and would love to get into baking. I can also play ukulele and the harmonium . Tried the recorder and harmonica but not that good at it. You can just search up cottagecore aesthetic- that’s the vibe I bring to the table. I also like traveling, walking, anything tbh except for crowded places.

Religious :
I take religion very seriously. But mostly the Akhlaq part. I pray 5 times regularly and try to listen to surah analysis. That’s the Ibadah part. But I give huge importance to Akhlaq (cleanliness, honesty, loyalty, kindness, selflessness, helpful, responsible) . I have all these characteristics in me and I’m also looking for a man as such. I don’t want someone who cannot control his eyes, makes derogatory jokes with his ‘boys’ .
I plan on working on my relationship with Allah with my husband. Disclaimer: I dont wear hijab but plan on doing in future. I do dress modestly.

About moving out :
I plan on going abroad for Phd once I’m done with my undergrad and have managed sufficient funding. But i’m also open to any plans Allah has written for me. So i’m looking for someone who is currently abroad/ plans on going abroad soon as well.

About kids, I feel like there’s way too many orphans, unfortunate children in the world who needs my help. So I’d like to take care of them instead of bringing someone new to earth. But I’m okay with having 1 child.

I don’t like spending lavishly. I like simple things, simple life. I also believe the needy have rights on my earning/ property etc. So I try to give as much as I can and I don’t plan on changing this aspect of me. So i’m also looking for someone who likes to stand besides the unfortunate.

I’m not sure what else to put here xD. If this interests you, feel free to dm me and ask questions about me ! Also please no misogynists. I want a man who is secure, rooted, down to earth and has the chivalry in him.
Excuse the grammatical mistakes, I just let my fingers type whatever came to my mind.

Edit : looking for someone is the 24-27 age bracket. I’m 5’3.
Please don’t just send hi, make sure to send your profile if you are interested.

1. Age,Gender and Height : 24F, I'm small (half an inch short of 5 feet)

2. Age range that you would require in a prospect : 24-30

3. Location and are u willing to relocate for a prospect : Yes for the right person

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi

5.Marital Status :Single and Never married

6.Ideal marriage timeline :1-1.5 years

7.About me : Um...simple and soft spoken. Sadeness by Enigma is one of my favorite songs. The Latin chants in this song are nice. I like to clean my room and organize my stuff. I'm a good listener. I am not addicted to reels. Not into gaming but if my guy likes it, I wouldn't mind listening to his game talks. R ki bolbo hehe 

8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect :

Not ostentatious! Very gentle , a chill person, philomath, a good human being and unfazed by horror movies.

It doesn't fall under any characteristic but it's my preference. I like tall guys. Yes I know that I'm smol😀 but I would like to have a good height difference :)I would prefer someone who is at least 5'10'' or above 

9. Level of religiosity:

I only bow down to Allah. I believe I have an emotional connection with my Creator 

10: Level of education and what are you looking for : I’m currently pursuing my bachelor’s degree. 

Someone who has a job or a student who is career-focused and won't forget to take care of his beloved.

11. Current  Job Status :Unemployed. If I start tutoring, I would only prefer good students :)

12: Do you want kids?:Yes.I wanna be a chill mum to my kids

13: List three hobbies 

Just sitting down silently after taking cold shower

Listening to the magical rhythm of rain

Writing down interesting thoughts and other stuff. 

Going for a walk. 

Watching movies.

I would love to try hiking in future.

 

14: Add something short and intetesting: Trustworthy and a secret keeper😀. I lead a simple life.

15: What are you looking for in a man :

Hygienic, self-aware, decent,doesn't put wet towels on the bed, will take care of me very gently,has high tolerance for scary movies,will make me laugh 😅

16: Preferred method of contact: Edit :Don't dm me on reddit please. If you are interested, dm me on insta if you think we can vibe :D with a brief introduction of yourself (age, height, job status or anything you wanna add).It's not necessary to dm me with your real insta account. Just make a new one to maintain privacy if you are interested.

My insta: chocolatteee_aa

https://www.instagram.com/chocolatteee_aa?igsh=MWx1M3UzN2gxN3g4dg==&igsi=MWx1M3UzN2gxN3g4dg==

I added this cause emailing might be little weird.

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1. Age, Gender & Height:

26F, 5'1".

I have a slender build and medium brown complexion.

2. Preferred Age Range:

I'd prefer someone who is around my age or older. I don't see myself being with someone younger than me.

More than a specific number I care about maturity, compatibility and where we are in life.

3. Location & Relocation:

Currently based in Dhaka, Bangladesh.

I’m planning to relocate abroad for higher studies .

4. Nationality & Background:

Bangladeshi 🇧🇩. Born and raised in Bangladesh.

5. Marital Status:

Never married.

6. Marriage Timeline:

I’m actively looking to meet someone with marriage in mind, not anything casual.That being said I don't want to rush into marriage with someone I barely know. Ideally I'd like to take around 1.5–2 years to properly get to know each other before marriage.I'd also prefer to get to know the person and make the decision ourselves first, and then involve our families once we're both serious about it.

7. About Me:

I'd describe myself as a very empathetic person. Sometimes I think I’m almost too empathetic because I can feel genuinely upset about things that happen to other people.I'm a little introverted and can be quite shy about approaching people myself but I'm friendly and usually open up once someone approaches me. I'm a good listener, hardworking and sincere.I'm very passionate about my career and academics. Outside of that I enjoy taking care of myself, working out and trying to stay fit and healthy.I'm also a very determined person. Once I make up my mind about something, I have a lot of patience and persistence and can keep working toward it even after failures. I genuinely believe that I'm meant to do something meaningful with my life and that belief keeps me going.If I had to name a flaw I'd say I'm sometimes too hard on myself. I'm working on being kinder to myself and not measuring my worth entirely by how well I'm doing.I enjoy having a busy active life and don't think I'd be happy with a completely quiet or overly simple lifestyle. I value honesty and sincerity above almost everything.

I'm also working on becoming more expressive and outgoing and overcoming my shyness and fear of failure.

8. Education & Career:

I'm currently studying STEM at a reputed university and completing my Bachelor's degree.I want to continue in academia and eventually pursue a postgraduate/PhD path and build a career in my field.My career is extremely important to me and I don't see myself being a housewife. At the same time being career oriented doesn't mean I don't value marriage or family. I want to be a loving and supportive wife while also building something meaningful for myself professionally.I'd also want my husband to be career focused and have ambitions of his own.

9. Religion:

Muslim.

I'm a practising Muslim although I don't wear hijab. I do dress modestly and my faith is genuinely important to me.

I'd want my partner to be religious and practising as well.I want someone who understands the wisdom and meaning behind the religion rather than simply following practices mechanically.Spiritual connection is very important to me.

10. Hobbies & Interests:

I enjoy watching documentaries on YouTube. I also like cooking and baking, spending time with people I care about, working out and generally taking care of myself.I'm naturally very curious so I can easily disappear down a rabbit hole learning about something that catches my attention.

11. What I'm Looking For:

I'm looking for someone mature, kind, career oriented and respectful.I'd want a partner who genuinely respects me as an individual and supports my ambitions rather than expecting me to give them up after marriage.I want someone who will encourage me to pursue more in life and I'd want to do the same for him. I believe marriage should be a partnership where both people help each other grow.

Religion and spiritual compatibility are important to me as well as honesty and sincerity.I'm not looking for someone who is perfect on paper. I'd rather meet someone with whom there is genuine compatibility, mutual respect, good communication and the ability to enjoy life together.

12. Kids:

I do want to have children in the future.

13 . Method of contact:

DM on reddit or ig-lowkeyoffline66

I see many people posting for marriage in this community. But does it really work? I have tried dating apps but people there seem desperate for something else. Did any one of you get married through this community?

Ps: don’t send ‘hi’ texts without intention

1. Age, Gender and Height: 26, Female, 5'3"

   2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: Anyone who is above 30. 

   3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Dhaka, Bangladesh, yes i am willing to relocate 

   4. Nationality: Bangladeshi

   5. Marital Status: Single

   6. Ideal marriage timeline: \~1 yr

   7. About me: Hard working, caring individual. I put others' needs above mine. I believe we are here to spend our life in the service of people. Astronomy, spirituality, fashion, and nature intrigue my curiosity.

 

 

   8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Honesty, Humility, Physically active, self driven, Calm(should not have any anger issues) & socially literate.

   9. State/specify your level of religiosity: Believer

   10. Level of education, and what are you looking for?: Completed BBA from University of Dhaka. Open to all sorts of background. 

   

   11. Do you want kids?: YES! 

   

   12. What are you looking for in a man: I am looking for a man who is calm, loving, caring, and gentle in nature. Someone who thinks above social prejudices and is not self-centered. I want to say one i hate angry men. If you have any anger issues with family or whatever please don't reach out. I dislike men who cannot control their anger. 

   13. Preferred Method of Contact: Reddit dm 

1. Height: 5'4"

2. Age Range that I would want in a prospect: 26 to 30 y.

3. Location: I currently live with my family in Uttara, Dhaka. I plan to pursue a Master's degree abroad, so I am willing to relocate for a prospect.

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi

5. Marital Status: Single, never married.

6. Ideal marriage timeline: 6 months - 1 year

7. About me: I am an ambiverted, calm and introspective person. My friends and family members describe me as easy-going, sweet and understanding. The various interests I like to delve in are books, movies, anime, history, space and astronomy. I also really enjoy cloud gazing and star gazing. One of my biggest goals in life is to travel as much as possible, see all the wonders created by Allah (SWT), while also experiencing different cultures. I hope to experience this with my life partner beside me.

Right now, my main goal in life is to pursue a Masters degree abroad, preferably in Australia, but I'm also open to other options. Therefore, I'm looking for someone with similar goals of going abroad and building our lives together.

8. Five important characteristics I look for in a prospect: religious, kind, gentle, adventurous, respectful.

9. Level of religiosity: I'm a practicing Muslimah and I strive to pray 5 times a day. I'm not perfect yet, but I am doing my best. I hope for someone who can help me be more steadfast in my religion.

10. Level of education, and what I am looking for: I have graduated with a Bachelor's in Pharmaceutical Sciences from North South University. A minimum Bachelor's from any science background is preferable in a prospect.

11. Do I want kids: Yes, In Shaa Allah 🥹

12. List 3 hobbies or things I like to do in my spare time: reading books, painting, watching movies.

13. What I am looking for in a man: First and foremost, someone who is religious and fears Allah (SWT) above all else is most preferable. I pray for someone who is ambitious, patient, caring and someone who will be gentle with my heart. I believe a beautiful marriage is built through mutual trust, communication and cooperation, loyalty and compassion, and this is something I deeply desire. Thus, I am looking for someone who shares similar values as me and wants to build a loving family together.

14. Preferred method of contact: Please send a DM with your details if this resonates with you. Only DM if you are absolutely serious about marriage. DMs with any other intent will not be entertained.

I am someone who values family, loyalty, honesty and having a good time together. I am looking for a serious relationship with the intention of marriage. But I also want my marriage to feel like a real relationship where we actually have fun together instead of becoming two roommates who only discuss bills 😂

I come from a middle class family. In my family I have my mom, dad, little brother and my baby cat. And yes, my cat is literally my baby. I love her way too much and she is definitely going to be an important member of the family 😂🐱

A little about me. I enjoy anime, movies, series, gaming, trying new food and exploring different places. I love discovering delicious food and honestly I would love to keep taking my wife on dates even after marriage. So if you love food, congratulations, you might have just found your permanent food partner 😂

I prefer someone who is beautiful, fit, cheerful and has a jolly personality. Someone who can laugh at stupid jokes, enjoy random plans and actually wants to experience life together. My preferred maximum height is 5’5” and it would be better if you are currently living in Dhaka. I want a wife who can be my best friend and with whom I can be completely goofy and comfortable.

I don’t want a boring relationship where every day feels exactly the same. I want us to randomly decide to go somewhere, try a new restaurant, watch a movie, stay up talking about absolutely nothing or simply go out because we felt like it.

I am the type of person who enjoys taking care of my partner. I like remembering the little things she loves, surprising her, taking her out, celebrating her achievements and making her feel special. Basically, if you become my wife, you should probably get used to hearing “Get ready, we’re going out” 😂

I am a practicing Muslim and family is important to me. I am looking for someone who is kind, emotionally mature, respectful and genuinely wants to build a friendship and partnership before anything else.

I am open to getting to know someone from a different background as well. I am also open to relocating abroad in the future depending on what works for both of us.

If my criteria matches with yours then feel free to DM me with a brief introduction about yourself, along with your own requirements and what you are looking for in a partner. Let’s get to know each other and see where it goes. ❤️

​Height: 5'3"

​Age Range desired in a prospect: 27 to 35 years

​Location: Currently based in Dhaka with family. Open to relocation depending on my future partner’s career and settlement plans.

​Nationality: Bangladeshi

​Marital Status: Divorced (Single mother)

​Ideal marriage timeline: According to the consent of partner

​About me:

I am an ambiverted, curious, and empathetic person with a strong appreciation for nature and life sciences. Having completed my B.Sc. and M.Sc. in Zoology, I have a deep fascination with biodiversity, wildlife conservation, and the natural world created by Allah (SWT).

​In my free time, I love reading non-fiction and classic literature, watching nature documentaries, exploring scenic outdoor spots, and experimenting with creative arts. I value meaningful conversations, emotional depth, and a peaceful lifestyle. I dream of exploring different ecosystems and historical places around the world with my future life partner.

​Five important characteristics I look for in a prospect:

Practicing Muslim, kind-hearted, emotionally mature, ambitious, and respectful.

​Level of religiosity:

I am a practicing Muslimah striving to align my everyday actions with Islamic values. I perform my daily prayers regularly and continuously try to improve my Deen. I hope to find a partner who will be my companion in spiritual growth and help us build a home grounded in Islamic values.

​Level of education & expectations:

I hold a B.Sc. and M.Sc. in Zoology from a reputed university. I prefer a prospect who holds at least a Bachelor’s degree in any discipline, with a stable career and a strong work ethic.

​Do I want kids:

I have a 3-year-old son, and In Sha Allah, I would love to have more children if my partner wishes.

​Hobbies/interests:

Reading books, wildlife photography, nature walks, and watching documentaries or films.

​What I am looking for in a partner:

First and foremost, someone who fears Allah (SWT) and leads his life with honesty and integrity. I am looking for a partner who is compassionate, supportive of personal growth, and values open communication. I believe a strong marriage is built on mutual respect, trust, and shared values.

​Preferred method of contact:

If this profile resonates with you and you are serious about marriage, please send a DM with a brief introduction and your details. Serious inquiries only, please.

Seeking a chill person, a good soul, a friend in need, a partner in mischief, a reason to come home to, an occasional reality check, and a spouse who understands that matters of the heart are best discussed with honesty, kindness, and snacks.

In return, I offer what I have. Materially, not a great deal. Emotionally, I offer listening ears, admiring eyes, and almost the entirety of my heart. Small words with promises behind them.

Kindness, empathy, commitment, mutual respect, and fair power dynamics matter deeply to me. My humour is a little twisted and not always everyone’s cup of tea, but it is brewed with harmless intentions.

I am on my journey to find my Ikigai, the idea of living a balanced and meaningful life. Come help me find mine, and I will try my best to find yours.

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1. Age, Gender and Height

Male, born 1990. Height: 5’8”.

2. Age Range I Prefer

Around 28-ish to somewhere in the mid or late 30s. Maturity appreciated.

3. Location and Relocation

Open to someone from anywhere, as long as relocating to Australia is not a dealbreaker and you do not mind sharing the usual sunlight, sunscreen, stress and a steady stream of silliness.

4. Nationality

Bangladeshi-born, now an Australian citizen.

5. Marital Status

Divorced, no kids, with clarity on what I want moving forward.

6. Ideal Marriage Timeline

Preferably within 8 to 12 months. I think that is enough time to build understanding, chemistry and shared direction.

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7. About Me

I work as an engineer and spend whatever time remains trying to behave like a functional adult.

I left Bangladesh young, came here to study, and lived through the familiar first-gen immigrant experience. Strange jobs, stranger meals, tight money, and slowly piecing together some modicum of adulthood, one suspiciously cheap furniture at a time. I am grateful for the road that carried me here. Some days I look steady; most days I am just afloat and pretending this was the plan.

I am laid back, mildly chaotic under pressure, gifted at procrastination, dependable with cleaning, and hopeless in the kitchen in ways that may require extensive supervision. I try to stay grounded and take responsibility for my choices, even the questionable ones.

My favourite ending to a day is a quiet conscience. My favourite beginning is the smell of freshly ground coffee drifting through a still morning.

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8. Five Important Characteristics I Look For

9. Respectful in daily life. Understands boundaries, chooses kindness, and treats people with consideration.

10. Emotionally aware and steady. Comfortable with silence, honest conversation, and the awkward bits in between.

11. Progressive and open-minded. Can hold strong opinions without treating them like commandments.

12. Has compatible humour. The kind that can laugh in the dark, but never at someone left there.

13. Cares beyond herself. Thoughtful about charity, sustainability, and minimising harm in small, practical choices.

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9. Religiosity

Atheist and respectful of all beliefs, with a culturally Muslim upbringing. I have learned from experience that I am most compatible with someone who is not guided by rigid religious expectations, especially when it comes to shared values, decision-making and raising future children.

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10. Education and What I Am Looking For

Bachelor’s in Engineering, completed in 2015 in Sydney. I hope to study further in the future. 

I am looking for someone who has completed their bachelor’s and is progressing in their career or pursuing higher education.

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11. Current Job Status

Full-time engineer in MAANG. Career is stable and predictable, which is both comforting and slightly dull.

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12. Do I Want Kids

Open to the idea of kids, but only if we are not passing down the generational trauma that came with us.

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13. Hobbies and Spare-Time Joys

Most of my free time goes straight to sleep.

Indoor rowing with a podcast or audiobook is how I switch my brain off.

I am strangely obsessed with coffee and moka pots; I own five moka pots and two grinders for reasons I cannot fully explain.

If a problem at work is interesting enough, I bring it home and tinker through the night, then turn up to work again with barely any sleep.

I have not travelled much yet, but I imagine it would be a lot more fun with the right person beside me.

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14. Something Interesting About Me

I grew up in a Bangladeshi household where authority sat with the father and respect travelled mostly in one direction. I carried some of those ideas into adulthood until life and distance made me question them. I have been unlearning old patterns ever since, trying to make room for something healthier, where both people feel heard, valued, and safe to be fully human.

I find comfort in misty mountain ridges, in old pages of heartache-filled poetry, in the quiet just before rain, and the bite of wet grass beneath my feet. Cannabis, used responsibly, deepens that calm. A simple and rustic life appeals to the version of me that still daydreams, though suburban comfort has a way of pulling me back into familiar routines. I often imagine myself in a small treehouse in the forest with running hot water, a sturdy roof beneath the big old moon, and just enough internet to check whether the world has coped with my hiatus.

I was briefly married once. We walked into something we were not ready for, and the path did not hold. It left me with a better sense of what it means to choose the right person with intention, clarity, and care.

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15. What I Am Looking For in a Woman

Kindness and clarity of thought draw me most. A progressive mind, a steady heart, and the ability to move through difficult moments without turning them into battles.

To me, partnership means standing beside each other when life gets heavy, then finding the way back with patience, honesty, and care. I value someone who can forgive without keeping score, and understands that sacrifices made with care can strengthen the bond.

What matters most is someone comfortable in her own presence, who takes care of herself without chasing perfection. A little tolerance for my questionable fashion sense also helps.

I prefer a simple celebration over a lavish wedding, and a shared intention to live gently with each other and the world.

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16. Preferred Method of Contact

You can reach me at this famously self-aware email address: iamnotacatch@gmail.com

DMs are welcome too if that feels easier. A short note about who you are and how you see the world would be lovely.

1. Height: 4ft 11in

2. Age Range in prospect: 22-27 years old

3. Location: currently in Virginia and yes willing to relocate within the US

4. Nationality: American

5. Ideal marriage timeline: talk for a few months and involve parents after or earlier if everything clicks! And ideally married within that year.

6. About me: I am a junior in college studying Community Health. I plan on either doing a radiography program to become a radiology tech or a master's program in genetic counseling to become a genetic counselor, whichever Allah has planned inshAllah.

I would like to think I am warm, compassionate, and empathetic. I love art and reading and picking up different kinds of hobbies. Recently got into tennis for a little bit, I've done crocheting, I love to learn new recipes to cook and enjoy baking! I am also someone who strives to improve my connection with Islam through Quran, prayers, dhikr, and an intention to do everything for the sake of Allah.

8. Important qualities I look for in a prospect is a strong connection to Islam through praying and an intention to center their life around pleasing Allah. I would love a person who is emotionally mature and soft spoken. Ambition is attractive and overall a man who wants to provide and fulfill his duties as a husband (and of course I will fulfill my duties as a wife inshAllah) while understanding that a marriage takes effort from both sides.

9**. Level of religiosity**: I think I am fairly practicing; I pray most of my prayers (definitely working on this!), I do not wear hijab but dress modestly (try not to show off my figure), do not drink or smoke and never have, and only eat halal.

10. Level of education: I have a high school diploma and will graduate with my bachelor's in two years inshAllah. Looking for someone who is about to have or already has at least a bachelor's.

11. Current Job Status: I work part time for a daycare program at an elementary school.

12. Do you want kids? Yes but only with the right man😭

13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: reading, baking, learning new recipes to cook, art, and try to stay active by working out at home or at the gym.

14. What are you looking for in a man: a man who fears Allah and has a will to make a marriage work. I would prefer someone born / or mainly grew up in the US for most of their life. I will be transparent and honest, mutual attraction is also important to me and would prefer a man at least 5ft 7in+ (although i know its not everything). I am also willing to provide pictures of myself so you can see if I am someone you find attractive.

15. Preferred Method of Contact: message me on this account if interested.

•Hello, I was raised in dhaka on an english medium background and I moved to NY about 9 years ago.

• I completed High school there and now in Uni. I should be graduated within 5 years Insha'Allah.

The thing is, I just wanted to post to see if there was someone I can do LDR with in a halal way because I do not want to do a traditional marriage where him and I live together before I get my degree. But I also don't want to be in an unlawful Haram relationship.

So I am looking for someone in bd who is willing to do LDR for a few years (applying for his visa and taking him will take that time anyways). I come to Dhaka once a year and stay for 2-3 months I can also come twice a year and stay for 1 month the second time.

My requirements:

Age: 26-29.

Completed his bachelors already.

Height: compatible (I am 5'4")

Practicing muslim(prays daily). I wear hijab and wear modest western clothes.

As the heading states, I am a 26 yr old F currently looking for a suitor to marry. I am 5.5 and slender built, light brown skin.

I am a MBBS graduate and I don't plan to relocate abroad in the next 3/4 years as I am planning to do my post graduation in bd itself.

I do want kids (eager to adopt too)

Traits that are pretty foundational about me:

I am honest and empathetic, I strongly believe in treating people with dignity regardless of their background. I am a liberal and practice questioning my own assumptions. I maintain healthy boundaries and value having a close knit but meaningful social circle. I also value people who are kind, intellectually curious, respectful and comfortable with differences in perspective.

Things I look forward to having in a partner:

26-32 yr old, nth rigid but preferably a doctor (same profession helps)

1. A calm personality with an ability to put forward his views clearly without being offensive

2. Knowledgeable (not just academia) but not proud

3. Extremely kind

4. Good sense of style and good hygiene

5. Surrounded by people of decent character

6. Doesn't comply to fit in if sth doesn't match with his idealogy

7. Emotionally available to me

8. Treat all classes with equal respect

9. Transparent, lives an honest life

10. Loves his work

11. Partake equally in house chores, out of love and respect for his partner

12. Doesn't have rigid religious beliefs and questions everything

13. A responsible citizen who loves his county

I need to find my partner attractive of course, and he needs to have good English speaking skills.

Anyone who is interested, please send me a DM with your queries. (refrain from casual bogus texting)

About me:

Hello, Assalamualaikum. I posted 2 days ago about wanting a LDR marriage since I am not ready for a traditional live in one since I am just a uni freshman.

I am looking for:

• Resides In the US, can be on f1 visa, green card or citizen.

•Age 25-29

•Height compatible (I am 5'4")

Please message me with where you reside, your height and your education please if you'd like to talk further.

Especially girls, please read this post to save yourself from catastrophic disaster.

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I am absurdly introspective and growing up I barely had friends. I don’t know how this post will sound. I'll keep it short, I don’t know, what to say cause I can't make it an Ad to sell myself.

I am someone who is absurdly introverted but I question a lot when I don’t understand things. I absolutely don’t like parties or large crowds. I love being at home doing things I love, reading, coding, origami, listening to Robindra Sangeet and some other stuff.

Although I am an atheist but kshatriya hindu by family background. I truly respect every other religion. I DO NOT want to get into interfaith stuff.

I'm down for relocation. I don’t want to do any job especially corporate jobs. The word "corporate" is so suffocating. I'm figuring out other ways.

You are good as long as you are not forcing me. ​

Sooner or later I'll step out from home to climb Mount Everest. If there’s any meaning that keeps me alive, Mount Everest is the reason. Also sometimes I deeply think about Tibet. Their celibacy, detachment from things, their way of life truly fascinate me. I want to sit with Tibetan Buddhists and ask about life. I want to understand life.

This is reddit and I am not optimistic about finding a true friend like this way. Whatever, I'd love to have someone by my side to explore. I'm being probabilistic this time instead of being a determinist.

[ My friend I hope you know what to dm instead of hi and hellos, so please:) and sorry, I'll NEVER reply to creepy DMs]

[Bhai! I put a Base64 puzzle here and yall just used AI to decode it! I should better just remove the puzzle. Sigh]

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Update: Bhai re bhai, can't tolerate anymore.

So this post was an experimental post. My childhood friend came into our home and we were having an argument/debate about marriage. We were also bored that we are talking and we don’t have proof to show. That is the moment we decided to post this and see if we are wrong or right about men.

I swear we are shocked, speechless, laughing, and wondering! It’s barely 15 hours and I got 90+ DMs. Mostly creepy like - hey what about sux. And others were faking about their religion hiding their profile history, but me being me, shob khuje ber kora jai, we saw what they were hiding. And some just casually said - I have a wife already but want to talk with you. Dude, illicit affairs!? We did not reply to ANY dms. ANY.

And arekta jinish kheyal korlam je, meyeder post jebhabe viral hoy ta bolar opekha rakhe na! This post got 110+ shares! Ke atoh share kortese bhai!? 26k+ views! Like what! Anyways, some good dms (2 ta matro) were also there I think, we saw someone saying not to trust people here on reddit and be careful about religious matter. I'm just glad that in a world of creeps ek duita bhalo manush are still there.

Me and my friend we are a bit traumatized. I was right in some things. She was also right in some of her statements. Look, we are not here to judge but honestly judge na koreo thaka jai na karon we made the post - nerdy, deep. But 99% manush maybe post porei nai! Amra ekta base64 puzzle disilam, took us 2 hours to make it, manush dekhlam ai diye decode kore dm kortesilo bha bhai bha.

At this point criticism korai lagbe.

And another fact is bhai tomra kew please reddit e eshe jiboner soul mate pawar day dream korio na. I beg to fellow girls out there, please don’t be desperate for marriage and all. Don’t ruin life. I repeat, amra ajaira free chilam tai experiment korsi, girls be very very very careful about creeps. And stop daydreaming you fool.

Lastly, I hope mods Won't remove this post. It is kinda like an expose post.

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Hewwo (⁠´⁠-⁠﹏⁠-⁠`⁠；⁠) (Please note this is not a desperation post, I think i don't wanna live single forever, so just relaxedly trying to find my soulmate here because who knows he can be playing hide and seek anywhere xD)

I'm usually the nonchalant type of person who has trouble getting close with ppl or expressing. Also very much afraid to let people in or share anything and stuffs. this has been keeping me being fearful of marriage most times, but well i think i still don't want to leave no stone unturned so that i don't feel regret when all my hair turns grey.

So I'm just casually trying to look for people who are kinda like me i guess? maybe if thr vibe matches we can start learning to express and open up together and see if we really match or not.

you can dm me on reddit if interested.

I'm open to any age or location (im currently preparing to go abroad tho). Also, I'd prefer someone who doesn't lie or cheat. I'm a strong believer, so i'd prefer a practicing muslim. everything else can be discussed later ig. (if i feel safe enough to share xD)

Edit 1: already told in my post that I'm not desperately searching for people to choose right away like I'm trying to get any last product from a sale event. so if anyone of you need to find partner right away, i appreciate not to knock me, since i prefer steady. also, i ain't here to find a partner, but a soulmate friend for life, so i appreciate who doesn't waste my time just bcz they have to find someone soon.

1. Age, Gender and Height: 29M, 5ft 7in
2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 23-28
3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Born and raised in Dhaka. Open to prospects locally, but I have plans to pursue career opportunities abroad in the future (looking for someone open to moving).
4. Nationality: Bangladeshi
5. Marital Status: Single, never married
6. Ideal Marriage timeline: Flexible / Discussion-based
7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Kindness, emotional maturity, honesty, responsibility, and values open communication.
8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Practising Muslim. I try to follow my faith sincerely and value a peaceful, grounded lifestyle built on Islamic values.
9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Graduated from North South University. Looking for someone who values education and continuous learning.
10. Current Job Status: Working as a Software Engineer at a reputed IT company.
11. Do you want kids? Yes, InshaAllah!

About Me:
I'm a funny nerd who enjoys technology, coding, gaming, designing, reading, traveling, and continuously learning new things. I like solving problems, building things from scratch, and exploring ideas that make life better and simpler. I value honesty, responsibility, emotional maturity, and a peaceful, grounded lifestyle.

Family Background:
I come from a small and stable family. I have three brothers; my elder brother is married, and my younger brother is currently in university and is a Hafiz. My father passed away when I was young, and my mother, originally from Pakistan,
raised us with care and strength.

What I'm Looking For:
A practicing Muslim woman who is kind, responsible, emotionally mature, honest, and values open communication. I'm looking for a marriage built on faith, trust, mutual respect, and companionship. Someone open to the idea of moving abroad in the future would be appreciated.

Preferred Method of Contact:
DM only. Please introduce yourself or share your profile when reaching out. Serious inquiries only.

im not trying to find a partner here. my parents are looking for someone to get me arranged married with. they haven't directly told me but my cousin told me that they said they're serious and they'll tell me after they've already chosen someone. i don't generally mind arranged marriages but i have genuine problems in me and i know no man will be happy with me. im insecure and there's a chance i will never ever want to have sex. and I can't just say that to someone my parents chose they are a stranger and I wont feel comfortable with it. im detached from people i never loved someone before but i know once i fall in love ill be super glued to that person forever.

also i cry so so so much and nobody has the patience to sit there till i stop

if i told a man that i dont want/am scared of intimacy will he be mad? how can i tell him beforehand? any advice is helpful

(sorry for any typing mistakes)