r/BangladeshMarriage

1. Age, Gender and Height: 29M, 5'8".
2. Body Type and Skin Complexion: Slim and Brown.
3. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25 - 29 years old.
4. Location: Dhaka, Bangladesh.
5. Are you willing to relocate for a prospect? No (for now).
6. Nationality: Bangladeshi.
7. Marital Status: Never Married.
8. Ideal Marriage timeline: Within a year.
9. About me: I'm an introvert who prefer deep and one-on-one connection. I'm naturally open-minded and understand different perspectives, even when they differ from my own. Yes, I am quite imaginative and used to be a poet, now it's all software glitches in my head. I'm an rational person but I believe I'm emotionally stable since I have sense of humor. I can sometimes be a bit of a perfectionist, occasionally leading to procrastination. Another thing I want to mention is that I'm grounded by a strong sense of responsibility and morality, and I work hard to turn my ambitions into reality.
10. What are you looking for in a woman: Similarity is key for me in a partner. I look for qualities like patience, loyalty, respect, peacefulness, non-smoker, non-alcoholic, maturity, honesty, support and good communication skills.
11. State/specify your level of religiosity: Agnostic. I am very religious in my own way. My family is traditional muslim but I am lucky that they are somewhat open-mineded too.
12. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have completed BSc in Software Engineering. I am looking for a partner who is studying for at least an undergraduate degree.
13. Current Job Status: Worked on many companies as a Software Engineer. Currently trying to freelance.
14. Do you want kids? Yes (open to discussion).
15. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Watching anime, reading skill books (I also enjoy brilliant minds), making softwares for my personal use.
16. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out: I hum along to everything, even when I shouldn't.
17. Preferred method of contact: DM on my Reddit account.

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Assalamu Alaikum.

I'm 29M from Dhaka, Bangladesh, and I'm here with the genuine intention of finding a compatible life partner for marriage.

1. Age, Gender and Height:

29M, 5'8".

Physically, I'm Slim-built with a brown complexion.

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

20–35.

This is more of a general preference than a strict requirement. I care much more about mutual understanding, mindset, values, and compatibility than age itself.

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

I'm currently based in Dhaka, Bangladesh.

I'm open to relocating if I find the right person and the circumstances make sense for both of us.

4. Nationality:

Bangladeshi 🇧🇩

5. Marital Status:

Single / Never married. I haven't been in a serious/intimate relationship before but, I'm not judgmental about someone else's past or personal choices.

6. Ideal Marriage Timeline:

If I meet someone compatible and we develop a good mutual understanding, I'm interested in getting married within a year.

I'm not looking to rush into marriage just for the sake of a timeline, though. I'd rather take enough time to understand each other properly before making such an important decision.

7. About Me:

I'm naturally an Introvert. I don't really care about having a huge Social Circle; I prefer having a few meaningful relationships and deeper One-on-One connections.

I'm generally Open-minded and try to understand perspectives that are different from my own rather than assuming that my way of thinking is always the right one. Communication and mutual respect are quite important to me in any relationship.

I regularly work out and go to the Gym almost every day. Outside of that, I enjoy reading, playing Go and Chess, cooking, and occasionally watching TV Shows.

At the moment, I'm preparing for Higher Studies abroad, so a lot of my free time currently goes into reading Research Papers, learning new things, and working on my future plans rather than entertainment.

8. Five important characteristics I look for in a prospect:

The five things I'd value most are:

Mutual respect — accepting each other's individuality, boundaries, preferences, and past without unnecessary judgment.

Open-mindedness — being comfortable discussing perspectives, lifestyles, and relationship expectations that may differ from the conventional.

Good communication — being able to talk openly and honestly about feelings, desires, boundaries, and expectations without fear of being judged.

Emotional maturity — being understanding and supportive rather than controlling or unnecessarily dramatic when dealing with differences or difficult situations.

Compatibility — I'm quite flexible and accommodating when it comes to a partner's preferences, as long as there is mutual trust, consent, and respect.

9. State/specify your level of religiosity:

I consider myself a Moderate/Liberal Muslim.

My family is traditionally Muslim, but they are also quite Open-minded and respectful of individual choices and opinions.

I would ideally like someone who can maintain a balanced approach between religious values and modern life, without expecting both people to have exactly the same perspectives on everything.

10. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

I have completed a BSc in Computer Science and Engineering.

For me, a specific degree or profession isn't a strict requirement. I'd prefer someone who is educated, curious, and has her own interests and goals in life. More than academic qualifications, I care about mindset, compatibility, and how we treat each other.

11. Current Job Status:

I'm currently working as a Freelance Software Engineer and have a good, stable personal income.

My family is also financially comfortable, with income from land, house rent, and a family business. So I don't have significant financial pressure from supporting the family and have considerable freedom to focus on my Career, Higher Studies, and future plans.

12. Do you want kids?

I'm open to discussing this.

I don't think having children should be treated as a one-sided expectation. I'd prefer for both partners to discuss their wishes, circumstances, and future plans and make the decision together.

13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

📚 Reading, especially Research and Technology-related topics

🏋️ Gym / Fitness

♟️ Playing Go and Chess

I also enjoy cooking, particularly Fast Food, and occasionally watching TV Shows.

14. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I consider myself a feminist. To me, marriage isn't about one person having authority over the other; it's a partnership between two people.

I value mutual respect, personal freedom, honesty, and the ability to be open about our individual needs and preferences. I don't believe a partner's past should automatically define who they are today, and I don't expect us to have identical views or lifestyles.

I'd want both of us to have the freedom to maintain our own interests, friendships, ambitions, and individuality while building a committed life together. For me, trust means being able to communicate openly without unnecessary judgment or control, while respecting whatever boundaries we mutually agree on.

I also genuinely want to support my partner's goals and dreams, just as I'd hope she would support mine.

15. What are you looking for in a woman:

I'm looking for someone who wants a Partnership rather than a traditional one-sided relationship.

I consider myself a Feminist, and to me, Marriage means two people building a life together. Mutual Respect, personal freedom, honest Communication, and supporting each other's goals and dreams are very important to me.

I'm not expecting us to agree on everything. In fact, I think having different interests and perspectives can be a good thing as long as we can respect and understand each other.

Ideally, I'd like to meet someone who is kind, open-minded, emotionally mature, independent in her thinking, and comfortable communicating openly.

Most importantly, I'm looking for someone with whom I can genuinely feel comfortable being myself and who feels the same way with me.

16. Preferred Method of Contact:

You can DM me on Reddit.

If you're reaching out, I'd appreciate it if you could share a little about yourself as well, rather than just sending a "Hi." 🙂

1. Age, Gender and Height

26 F, 5'7"

2. Preferred Age Range and Height

29–36.

I'd just prefer someone whose height is reasonably compatible with mine. Someone around my height is completely fine too.

3. Location & Willingness to Relocate

Bangladesh. I'm open to relocating.

4. Nationality

Bangladeshi

5. Marital Status

Never married

6. Ideal Marriage Timeline

Within this year or next year, InShaAllah, if I meet someone I genuinely connect with and our values, morality, and goals align.

7. About Me

I am a 26-year-old with a medium complexion. I'm currently working in healthcare. I'm quite introverted, but if I have matching interests with someone, I open up quite easily.

8. How I See Marriage

I never really had big dreams or plans about marriage, but the idea of marrying someone through a completely arranged procedure honestly terrifies me. Marriage is a very important part of human life, and it is meaningful to me too. The idea of being each other's life journal and seeing each other grow through different phases of life feels very meaningful to me.

9. Level of Religiosity

Practising Muslim. I dress modestly according to Islam (I try my best), so I hope to find someone who is comfortable with and respectful of that.

10. Education & What I'm Looking For

Someone who has completed graduation and is working.

11. What I'm Looking For in a Man

12. What I'm Looking For in a Man

I'd like someone who is already studying or working abroad, or has genuine plans to move abroad in the future. This isn't about money or immigration. I'm planning to pursue my Master's abroad anyway, and I'd simply like to have a partner who understands that journey and has goals of his own, so we can build our future together.

On a personal level, I value someone who is gentle, affectionate, understanding, and communicates openly. I don't expect us to never disagree, but I'd want us to resolve things through calm and respectful communication rather than anger or ego. I appreciate someone who is patient, emotionally considerate, and willing to understand each other..

12. Preferred Method of Contact

You can DM me. And you can ask if you have any questions.