r/Cougars_Den

Movies date ?

This older woman (late 30s-40s) at work showed interest in me ( mid 20s ) and wanted to go on a date. We shortly discussed about it the other day but I kind of got stuck on where so I’ll get back to her tomorrow and wanted to tell her the movies but I want to know from an older woman’s perspective is it cheesy? Bad idea ? Good idea ? I was thinking we can start with that and go from there but I’m open to suggestions.

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u/Friendly_Zucchini_91 — 4 days ago

A little question for you… 😉

What makes someone instantly interesting enough that you actually want to start a conversation with them?

Personality or looks first? 👀

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u/Facelessgirl101 — 8 days ago

26M - Newbee | Are there actually cougars in Ottawa or is that a myth?

Hey, I genuinely stumbled upon this subreddit today.

I'm a 26M student here. Genuine question because I keep hearing random local jokes and posts about it, but are there actually older women in the Ottawa region who are genuinely into meeting younger guys, or is that whole thing mostly just an internet meme?

If they actually are real, where do people even bump into them around town? Are there specific spots or lounges people go to (I've heard random mentions of spots along Elgin, Westboro, or over at Casino Lac-Leamy), or is everyone literally just using Tinder/Bumble and turning the age filters up? Or is it possible to meet them here in this sub?

Not trying to sound clueless, just genuinely curious how the scene for that actually works around here. Appreciate any real tips or recommendations!

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u/dankoiyu — 7 days ago

dating apps or in person?

I’m a 24 Male. I just wanted to know, in our current society do older women tend/prefer to meet on a dating app or in a social setting?
I know it depends for every female but my question is where should I consider looking ? (Even here counts lol)

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u/big_daddyyy — 14 days ago

26y/o male too old for cougar?

Hey yall,

I’m a pretty fit 26 y/o male that’s been trying to break into this “lifestyle” so to speak but it’s been… dry. Not looking to be taken care of or anything, I do fine for myself, but I’ve always had a thing for older women. Just wondering if anyone out there has any advice or perhaps I am just too old for the scene. Which is okay too! Just looking for feedback, I guess. Thanks in advance!

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u/SilkSpinningPoet — 12 days ago